In my sig is my PUA thread, which is something I would look into, I would love to type out all I know and have learned about a specific topic you are interested in.
Now that my thread pimping is done, down to the nitty gritty…
How do you ask for a date. Great question. First concept to understand is that of compliance. Once a person says yes to you, they rationalize that what you ask is ok to do.
If you ask for her facebook quick, then number, then on a date in the same ten minute conversation, she will rationalize it is ok to date you because it was ok to give out her number.
Another key concept is picking the date. A phone number, or facebook, are pointless unless. The goal s to see her again. So you need to get her to agree to see you. I up sell my dates. If you are excited and enthused about the event, so will she. Emotions convey to other people.
Picking when to go on the date is a huge issue most people have. I found it best to pick a day you are free. Do not act like you live a boring life. You ask her out monday, you tell her you are free thursday and she should tag along to mini-golf.
I also shy away from giving a girl a ‘prime’ day for the date. You have friends who you hang out with on the weekends. You have known them for years. You do not bail on them to hang out with her. She would not do it for you. So, a weekday is a good idea. It also takes the pressure off of it being a friday night ‘date’.
For the date itself, I tend to find that if you just have fun yourself, so will she. If you want to play lazer tag, play. Dont ask, just tell her that is what you are doing when you are at the venue. Plus, the more spots you hit, the more time she feels she has known you.
It is important to stand out as not just another guy, but THAT guy. Mones help with this, so does leading and knowing what you want. Always being fun does as well.
Mini-Golf shines because you can touch her to shown her how to put correctly. High five, hold hands, etc. Touch early so you will not become a friend and it improves the odds for a kiss.
A competition is pickle. On one hand, you can tease her for being good or bad at mini-gold, which is great. Teasing is huge for attraction., On the other hand, if she takes it super serious, it will backfire and the mood can get thick. I would go in as you two having fun, and getting to know each other. If she wants it to be a competition, fine. You can make it one to, but be careful to keep it playful and not serious.
Conversation. Good ol’ conversation. How do you talk to a girl. Just go with the flow. You are playing a game you two can talk about. If the conversation lags, toss in chatter about you, what you like to do, what you are passionate about.
I would throw out a few lines of talking though, make statements about her. They can or cant be true, just tell her she looks like the athletic type of gal who would love to play a game like Mini-Golf. Or tell her she looks like a fire-cracker who wants to do sometign exciting. Or tell her she looks like a bookworm and locks hersulf in her room and reads all night.
By making a statement you open up conversation drastically. She will let you know if you are right or wrong. She will giggle. And with that information you can tease her and make the mood fun.
You do want to get to know her. Never ask a question just to ask, ask if you really want to know only. Do not be polite, you are looking for a girlfriend, you have standards.
What to talk about…well, what you like to do. Convey who you are. Dreams, hopes and what her desires are are great. What she does and you do for fun works. Really, anything, as long as it is a topic you have something to say something about. You can make world of warcraft sound cool if think it is.
A double or triple date is not a date, a bunch of couple would go to hang out. That means when you g oout, you two are not on a date, but are a couple. Remember this. It should never be when you are still not ‘official’ yet.
As for mones, you need a connection. For her to want to be with you, she needs to feel a connection. IH is the main component. To stay out of the friend zone a little Ammo is nice, but you need to steer it sexual.
Remember to use what worked on her in class, if you change it up she may not see you the same way. IO is mindless chatter. It helps but you want the connection more so. I would IO at school to get her chatty so you can get the date set up.
I find IG and Ammo is an interesting mix, as would Ammo and P130. Younger gals love P130 and IG. Socials are the way to go.
I would use IH x2, Ammo x1, IS x2, P130 x1.
Ammo on neck/chest, IS in hair, IH on forearm, P130 on jawline.
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