I don’t wanna go into details but I need a good respect mix so people will stop wanting to fight me.
I wore 2 A314 1 AMMO 2 Instant Shine and 1 CTTM and a girl actually cut my arm… theirs just so much disrespect people think they can walk all over me I don’t care if it’s an expensive complicated mix I have cuts and bruises everywhere because people like to fight me.
Thanks… 
You earn some respect by respecting yourself. 2x A314. That is it! Adding IS and AMMO would soften A314. At your age, just learn to respect your body, ok? 
Dude, please no amount of pheromones can help that situation.
No matter what pheromone you wear, if you just seem like you’re a pushover, then you will be a pushover.
Here’s an analogy. You’re sitting next to this gorgeous girl next door type and she lets out the nastiest silent fart out there. People around you two, would think that’s you because they would assume it didn’t come from her.
Kinda get the point? No matter how much respect pheromones you wear, if you’re still giving off a vibe of a pushover, they will push you over.
I don’t know how I’m giving off that vibe! I flip out every time someone says anything to me I don’t put up with any crap..
It’s not like I can’t fight either I take killing martial arts private lessons I just don’t like hurting people.
People still did it in elementary school when I could take 6 kids at once, people just LOOOOOOVE to mess with me.
Back the fuck up…some bitch CUT you? I’m sorry, im all for chivalry and all but that shit goes two ways. A gentleman doesn’t hit a lady, but your pushing being considered a lady if you put you hands on me…you actually cut me and I would hold back about as much as if you were Chuck Liddel.
Girl cuts you you very seriously ask “bitch have you lost what little mind god gave you?” And the swing at her jaw like she’s a well endowed convict that thinks you have a cute ass.
If I fight back again I go to jail sucks doesn’t it.
And whenever I fight back people get mad at me I don’t know wtf is everyones problem.
This isn’t as black and white as you claim to say it.
I’m no complete expert, but you’re leaving something out.
Go to a school counselor, a psychologist, the cops. But this isn’t a place for you to go and air out your issues because this is way too serious for us to even deal with online.
No one can help exept online I’ve tried everything I just need some advice.
Okay maybe you’re not pushover, but you’re walking around with a chip on your shoulder thinking everyone is taking shots at you.
Maybe its time to take a look at your attitude when you leave the house…you may be giving off a “fuck with me I fuck with you” kinda vibe and antagonizing people.
I’ve got a younger brother who’s amazingly adept at pushing people’s buttons, he can know you for five minutes and then he’s in your head pushing those buttons and then you kick the living shit out of him because he’s the biggest pussy and doesn’t know how to fight..that’s his way of fighting.
My point? He thinks he’s a victim. And yeah he can do it in a way that others around him don’t see how he’s pushing your buttons. We all have people like that in our lives.
So maybe you are causing these interactions to go so badly and you’re living in a victim mentality.
Don’t want people to fuck with you, then don’t talk shit, don’t make aggressive eye contact and flip out if people are actually looking at you. Change your clothing to something non-threatening or less ghetto fabulous if that’s your style.
Get some nice jeans, regular tennis shoes and a shirt that doesn’t scream “I’m a skinny white boy from Iowa who thinks he’s hard.”
I don’t know you, but for some reason I’m thinking like P51 is, that you’re leaving a lot out.
I don’t know what I’m doing really it’s confusing I do think that if someone fucks with me I fuck with them back and if someone looks at me aggressively I’ll do it back because I don’t want to seem weak then even more people push me around.
I have a shaved head and an ear piercing before I did people called me gay now people give me shit about the shaved head it’s like people whine about every single thing I do.
Don’t get me wrong I have a pretty good life and alot of friends its just people mess with me alot and I don’t understand why.
Ok. I’m going to mention what everyone is leaving out. You are 15 wearing 2 drops of a314 and 2 sprays of ammo…
Hmm… What kind of congruency would you need to pull off 2 drops of a314? Is it even possible to do that at 15? Also you sound aggressive. Erone is passive alpha male. It’s usually found in older men. Ammo contains none. You may already have too much none.
Yeah but I think these issues started before wearing mones.
Seek out a professional to address these issues, such as social workers, or a therapist that has understanding and experience with dealing cognitive-behavioral. This is too serious, you have to much at stake and need those kinds of support groups.
respectfully,
MVK
Lol I already have it’s really not that serious I just need to know how to get people to respect me more I don’t really see at all how I would have to go somewhere else to get help with that this is actually the perfect place for me.
How will I need to act to be congruent with the A314? I really want that to work.
And yes I am aggressive sometimes I need to be because if your not where I live people think you a “pussy”
MHarris actually had James Bond in mind when he created A314. Now don’t go showing up to school in a white tux talking with a fake English accent…that’s just choady.
But look at how the guy acts and reacts to shit. How often does he lose his temper?, how often does he lash out in frustration or anger? With women does he promise to give them the world and kiss their ass if only they’d accept him?, or does he act like he already knows they want him even more than he wants them?
Now as for real world respect, do you play a sport? I’m a big advocate of sports. They foster a competitive will to win, teach work ethic, patience, teamwork, leadership, the ability to handle defeats and setbacks as well as enjoy victories. Besides which the jocks and guys with garage bands are the celebrities of most campuses.
Open people and groups, strike up friendly conversations with as many people as you can. Avoid being too self centered and trying to convince them to like you, instead focus on them, learn what you can about them, dig and probe to find out what their best qualities are and offer value in the form of some form of compliment. This is particularly good if it’s a passion of theirs. Find a guy that practices guitar and wants to be in a band someday and express your admiration for the dedication it takes to learn an instrument and even express some friendly jealousy at being able to express oneself through music. When you make people feel good about themselves they want more of it and they will come to you more often looking for approval. Who is more alpha in this situation?
The guy who’s showing off his shiny new car saying “it’s pretty cool isn’t it?”
Or the guy leaning back looking at it and says “You should be proud man, that’s a pretty sweet ride”
Do you see the difference?
Yea I definitely understand what your saying I was acting wrong and not being congruent with it I can probably just ignore anything people are saying it’s just that if I do sometimes i’ll feel bad about it later.
I play hockey but I didn’t sign up this season I’d like to play football but the thought of hundreds of people that I know watching me when I might screw up and the fact that i’m too short and not very good also that they might mess with me in the locker room keeps me from signing up for that.
I’ll try to strike up conversations.. I’m kind of shy and my way of talking to people is joking around with them like cocky funny.
Thats good advice though I never really compliment people because I thought it would be a bad thing I’ll try it.
Is there a post telling you how to be congruent with all the pheromones?
Just took me to the website broken link.
yeah I know, the link feature wasn’t working so I just bumped the thread
I think this really sums it up. Personally I did a complete 180 in HS. I was skinny and short. I stopped caring what people thought. I avoided hanging out with just one group. By sincerely having friends in all clicks, social proof was easy to gain. Once you have social proof it nothing else matters because everyone will think you are someone great even if you aren’t.
I’m reading a book right now that you may need to look into. It’s called “The Way of the Superior Man”, thanks again TheGentleman. The first section of the book is all about passion and giving everything you have to what you are doing no matter what people think. So go play football. If you suck at it but you gave your best, people will still love you for it.