Hello from Queens, NYC

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Hello my name is Pedro. I am 38 years old. I am American born, have travelled a lot, well educated. Decent Job. i live in Queens, which is next to Manhattan.

I’ll spill my guts here, so other readers can get an idea whats going on.

I guess the problem is my personality conflict.

Anyway, I’ve never been married. In my 20’s I never had serious relationships. However, in my early 30’s I began to attract woman on my own here and there. Im single right now. At the same time, at my career i’m described by my coworkers as quiet and even shy. Yet, with some of my very few close friends and ex girlfriend, I’m described as wild, funny, and very engaging once they got to me on that level.

For some reason, I just don’t know how to approach new woman, nor have I formed new friendships with coworkers male and female. Usually, at lunch I go alone because I’m unapproachable for whatever reason. Im average looking and dress neat so thats not the problem. My boss thinks Im a great worker but I don’t smile too much. I also don’t like to make new friends UNLESS the other person (guy or girl) approaches me to break the ice! It’s just my defense mechanism which kicks to prevent me from getting hurt for some reason.

I researched a lot and realized that some pheremones can make you more approachable or provide you with confidence and appeal to make new friends.

Im hoping to improve my social circle at work which helps one to network better, but ALSO to help me gain the confidence to approach woman for relationship.

For a first timer, which product do I use that can make me smile and take risks to make new friends, and potential relationships? P.S. im perfectly mentally healthy, typically happily, and physically healthy, so no worries there.

Pedro, Queens, NYC

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Pedro, welcome! Definitely go with the socials like IO, IH, and IS.

Basically IO helps to feed conversation, make you approachable, help break the ice, and help to also make you talk more by having it affect you too. IH on the other hand helps to deepen relationships, add a sense of trust, make people feel comfortable around you, and make people feel like they’ve known you for awhile while IS helps to make you and those around you feel good while also giving you a slight boost in confidence. However you can’t just spray these on and expect things to change automatically so you’ll definitely have to change your social personality. Pheromones need your help as well, in order for them to have them help you.

Hope this helps!

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I agree Mikotorocks, but would go with Instant Shine (2x concentration), Instant Openness (2x), and Instant Gentleman. Welcome to the forum and good luck.

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Hi,

Welcome to the forum,

I been reading your intro and some of the stuff you wrote sounds like me. I agree with reddog with suggesting Instant Gentleman It will give you a nice cool back laid back vibe and respect and for me I find that it keeps me grounded not as nervious when I put it on.

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The phero advice you’ve gotten is good.

I’d also advise you to go to a counsellor or therapist, they can help. And also try just pushing yourself a little out of your comfort zone every day; say hello to the checkout operator at the supermarket, for example. Then when that’s a habit, push yourself a leittle further.

Good luck and have fun.

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too :slight_smile:.

Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too :slight_smile:. Its cool!

Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.

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I agree with everyone. IO, IS, IH, and instant gentleman are great mones. I understand that you are shy when first approached but when relationships are formed, you are pretty outgoing. That said, I would push more on the IS and IO. The instant shine if worn close to your nose will get you a little confindence to get out of your shell. The IO will make it easier for people to approach you. The rest will be up to you.