I am a straight male, approaching 31. I have a good career and considered attractive looking for a guy in my region. My only problem is I can’t seem to catch a break with girls, maybe because I work too much or they are just intimidated. I don’t know.
I am new to this Pheromones,any recommendation and advise would very much be appreciated.
Please tell us more about yourself and your personality. What’s the age range of women you are looking for?
I’m not familiar with the expression “catch a break with girls”, but if I understand well, you need help with flirting, eh?
Let’s see. If you think you come out as intimidating, I would suggest you try Instant Shine, this will help you be a walking sunshine. You will feel great and make people happy around you. This will help put all eyes on you, too. To break the ice with the ladies if you have trouble with the approach, Instant Shine will be good too and you can add a bit of Instant Openness. Get ready for a lot of talking. If you find a lady with whom you’d like to establish deeper conversations, you can use Instant Honesty. To help with the actual flirting, use Ammo, it will make you charming and send a mild sexual vibe to the ladies so you don’t end up in the friend zone.
By telling us more about yourself, you will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy.
Yeah, I’m with Conjurator. Could you provide more details about yourself? With better understanding of your situation, we can give you more precise recommendations. Do you think you might be intimidating because of your job status or because of your physique? When you meet women, are you able to at least talk to them, but unable to sustain a conversation? Or do they treat you more like a best friend and stick you in the friendzone?
There are various products to help you out. With a bit more understanding about you, we can put together proper combos that would work. In general, you will benefit from the products that Conjurator mentioned. IShine, IH, and Ammo is a very good combo that has worked well for a lot of men, but that’s a more general recommendation. You might be different than them.
Ok, a bit more about myself. I am Asian, with average Asian height but I have got my looks going for me, which is nice. Highly educated and have a very good paying job. I have an athletic built body. I workout a lot hence my built. I jog, do weights and body weights exercise. You can add me up in Instagram if you want to see how I look like, @adjasirinms.
Catch a break.. don’t have any luck with girls. The girls that I am interested in are either not available or is just not interested and the girls that likes me, I am not really interested in them.
It’s not that I have problem talking to people, I don’t. I engage with people for a living anyways. It’s also not that I have problem talking to girls too. I don’t know.
When I talk to my friends who are girls and when they find out that I am still single, they were surprise.
I think the recommendations Hank and I made above will apply to your situation very fine based on the information you gave us. You can consider buying the men’s starter pack which contains all these products plus more to try out. It’s the best bang for your buck for beginners. If you must choose, I’d say IS / IO / IH / Ammo in to-go format.
Thanks for the additional info. So here’s my take on you: You need to soften your Alpha-ness. The key here might be taking a look at the women you’re attracted, yet taken. What are their husbands or boyfriends like? That might give you a clue on what you might need to tweak in yourself to attract the right woman before she’s snatched up by another guy.
The women who are interested in you, but you’re not interested in them, are probably gold diggers. You’re right in avoiding them.
Here’s my take on what you should do. Get A314 (spray or oil), Instant Shine, and Instant Honesty. These three should land you the right woman for you. A314 will let the smart, sexy woman know that you’re a mighty fine catch. IShine will elevate her mood, let her know that you’re a fun and friendly guy to hang out with. IH will tell her that you can keep a secret; she’s safe with you.
Here’s another perspective. Do the same combo, but with Instant Gentleman instead of A214. If you have a strong Alpha presence, Instant Gentleman will soften it a tad, yet let women know that you’re smart, reliable, credible, and mature. IShine and IH will still do their job to attract her attention and let her know she can have an intimate conversation with you.
If you’re up for it, the Intro Pack for Men has these three and the other pheromones, including the ones that Conjurator mentioned. This way you can experiment with A314 and IG to find out which one is best for you. (Ask to substitute MX297 with A314.) You can also use the other pheromones in a variety of situations. But I’m sensing that A314 (or IG), IShine, and IH is a good place to start.
And definitely take a look at the husbands and boyfriends of women that you are attracted to, but are taken. Do you have those qualities? This might be an area that you need to develop in yourself.
Other users will likely chime in with their recommendations.
Thanks for the response guys. Hopefully these can help me out a bit. I am getting stick from my family too as a I am still single in my 30s where I should be married. haha..
You should also include Instant Gentleman. You’ll need to experiment to find out which is a more suitable base for you, depending on the situation. At based on feedback on the forums from other men, Asian women respond more positively to Instant Gentleman than A314. Not sure why, but that’s been the general consensus here. I’m Asian, but I prefer A314 because I live in USA. I need a stronger alpha vibe.
The drawback with A314 is that women can feel that they are out of their league. You’ll have to approach them because they won’t approach you. You’ll need to be friendly and turn on your charm to show them they’re the type you’re looking for. Instant Gentleman has a much friendlier vibe, a provider. (A314 is more of a protector vibe.) So do you want to attract women who want a provider or a protector? Instant Gentleman might also be more appropriate to use when you’re visiting your parents.
To apply these, read this thread about application:
Welcome to the site. I would look into the starter kit for men and maybe add CTTM2. This way you would get everything to test possible and then see what works for you. Economically this is the best way to go, but some like to get a few products to try out at first so I suggest
Ammo this is a must have. For attraction. Great standalone and nice cologne scent to.
Good for day game also.
IS will boost confidence and put everyone in a happy mood. Goes well with other pheromones and works well in any setting.
IO and IH IO is a ice breaker and will make the approach much easier and IH will promote bonding and deep conversation. They also have these in the smaller 5ML Togo bottles if you buy these items separate and you are worried about cost.
TUTH Now this one is highly sexual and best used for LMR(Last Minute Resistance). It is only $30 for the bigger 30ML bottle so if you buy separate I would get the bigger one.
I wouldn’t dwell to much on app points and which ones. As long as it gets heat so pretty much pulse points and anything from the neck to top of head gets plenty of body heat to diffuse these things. I usually wear what I want to hit my targets with more on my wrists. I woud wear the IH there because you don’t want it to effect you. I have great luck wearing IS in my hair on my head and this gets massive diffusion hear. I normally wear the Ammo on my neck and usually this is where I keep the Sexuals like Ammo and TUTH. I like to wear TUTH on my chest to. If you got the regular Ammo the scent is strong and when I would wear on my chest and put a shirt on the scent was still noticeable on that shirt a few days later in the dirty laundry. I would start low with Ammo just due to the scent.
A314 if you got the oil I usually wear on that piece of skin right above the ear lobe and spread on my upper jaw line. I do this because I do like the self effects of A314 oil.
Good Luck and I hope you start a journal we can follow.
No I didn’t get the old base A314 as it was out of stock so I got the to go spray A314a bottle instead. So maybe spraying on my neck would be fine as well I guess.
That’s a good start! Keep us posted as you start using these products. We’d love to hear about your experience. We’re also here to help you out if you got questions.
You seem to be overflowing with self-confidence. And it seems that it makes you talk. A lot.
I think you need IG and IShine and IHonesty.
But I see you got the A314/sp/B instead and gearing to test it. It would be a good alternative for IG.
Did you use your intro GC in this fist order of yours?
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Thanks Dee, yeah I did use the GC which was given. Thou the initial damage was still about $300 plus with the GC haha..
I am not sure if I am overflowing with self confidence but I am very vocal at work and always get the message across to the people I have a meetings with. Not sure if that is a good thing or a bad thing.. and this is without using any mones at all. I wonder what will happen with all the mones combined.
You just need to control it when with a woman you like. Women are very complex, sometimes hard to understand, sometimes easy to read. A slight misjudgment might put you into a friendzone as quickly as you can imagine.
Now, you must have a target girl, if you are looking for an ltr. This is a girl you really like and someone you think that has given you some good look. Use the mones regularly and make sure that she’s always exposed to it, as you do the basics of courting, you know, dressing good, approaching, chatting, that sort of thing. Until you observed something that might be a good sign telling you that it’s time to ask her out.
There are quicker ways too. Frequent a bar, wear AMMO+IShine for a general attractive+friendly vibe and make friends with the girl you find in there to fit your kind of a woman, and do everything you can to make her feel comfortable and relax while being with your company. Inject some crazy and sexy topic in your convo from time to time and assess how she reacts to it. Always look into the eyes. And then, when the party is about to end, sneak a couple of spray of TUTH and expose her to it, and pick the convo where you left it and observe what will be her reaction as she sniffs the TUTH.
I am not really into the bar scene so that’s probably something that is out of the question for now. Reason being is, I don’t drink . I am just wondering how I will meet new people now.. haha..
I suggest you start with the little circle you have now. Family and friends. Start with IShine. Wear IShine everytime you are around them, create an impression that you are a new guy, a friendly confident, happy guy. And little by little, expand your circle by be-befriending their friends, and start using A314 when you are engaging with girls you think are eligible for a long term relationship.
Later. If everything is settled and used to your new signature. You can use AMMO when you are taking some good time at a coffee house, or attending a wedding party, or other gatherings where friends and new faces are around. The new faces are your target, and your friends, now used to your new amazing sigs, will be an added “advertiser” of how awesome you are.