In need of some assistance.
Hey all… I’m pretty new to the pheromone stuff and have been researching for a while now.
I’m not out for a one night stand here. I have a special lady in my life now and am very happy to have her in my life. We have known each other for 17 years. I fell in love with her the first day I met her but I was married and 25 and she was 16… Later she got married so … well you know… Anyhow… we both became single and back in May of 2009 we ended up together… We spent an awesome five months or so together and enjoyed a VERY healthy sex life.
However.. something happened along the way.. not sure what it was.. it could be related to harassment on the part of my ex or hers or something else not sure… Back in October she decided she wanted to back off and be friends for a while. We are still VERY close but there is no sexual activity. I can see she is still attracted to me and that she has these times when she looks at me like.. well you know… but something is holding her back. The fire is still there within her but it is just flickering for the time being… Neither of us have been with anyone else since we have been together and we are together a lot in a friendship kind of capacity.. but as I mentioned.. I can still see the sparks and so can everyone else around us.
So I’m wondering… will a pheromone work to pour some gas on her fire and get us back to how we use to be? Is this an unfair thing for me to do? If a pheromone will work which should I use?
Thanks for any input.