product testing based on positive results you have gotten. I need some definite, positive results.
There is a certain friend I think I’m hoping to turn into a “closer” friend. It feels like we are on the edge of something, but not sure if it’s my imagination or not? Any recommendations?
Welcome deanie! I have a couple of threads for you to read, one about copulins for women and how to use them, by Ail:
http://www.pheromonetalk.com/womens-pheromone-advice-tips-tricks/newbie-few-questions-1756.html
and the other is a thread that took a turn where the women started describing stunningly effective moves to make in such a situation - start reading at post #52:
good luck and I hope you enjoy your pheromone journey!
Thanks for the input, Carrie. Interesting stuff. I’d like to read more about the results with Instant Honesty, but can’t find the threads. Any help with this?
I used advanced search for the word honesty, in titles, show threads, and got this:
http://www.pheromonetalk.com/search.php?searchid=33103
Heya deanie
Welcome to the forum!
If there’re any other questions you have on how to revv up your friend from friend status to Ooh Lala status, give me ac all and we’ll see what we can do. 
In the meantime, check your email box… there’s a $15 gift cert waiting for you!
Thanks Jasmine and Carrie for the support–the Instant Honest threads were amazing.
About how many sprays are in the to go bottles? I was thinking a good way to start would be to order several of those to test. What do you think? I would eventually want some to gos anyway. I know you have a neat return policy, but knowing me and my adventurous nature, I will probably want to test several.
I don’t see my TM currently very often, which makes this unusually difficult. Like I said, we are friends and both extremely busy. Right now it seems outside influences, our circumstances and timing are off. I thought if the next time I see him I could push the envelope a bit, he might become closer. With him, it’s not like with my other male friends, even the ones I’ve been attracted to. I’ve been comfortable with them. But he’s like all of the people I’ve loved from little on, wrapped into one and I’m even uncomfortable thinking that!
So that’s why I’m thinking instant shine, instant honesty, instant sexiness, instant openness might be good ones to start with. What do you experienced divas think?
And thanks!
instant sexiness is a must.
IO in addition has removed personal space for me, people get very touchy feely (even just friends. its like the 60’s)
IH is pretty deep.
dont get me wrong, its definately one of my favorites ( i use it more than others) but to get into a carefree-where-is-your-head-at, i would do :
IO 3 or more sprays 
instant sexiness B with extra copulins
if he doesnt act on that, he’s not going to,period.
its true that pheromones wont make someone do something they wouldnt ever do, but anyone sitting on the fence will surely get pushed off in one direction or the other!!!
just my
Lor’s advice is perfect.
At some point you’ll probably want to get Essence of Woman from Love-Scent, too. It’s the big guns.
The To-Go bottles have 40 sprays each. Each spray gives a slightly smaller dose than a regular sized bottle does (83% of a regular spray).
Yes, closing the personal space would be one of the effects I want. At times we are each awkward with each other even though enjoying each other’s company. So the Instant Open sounds great for that. The last couple times we’ve been together he brought drinks which opened me up and helped him to do so too. I think he enjoys hearing what will come out of my mouth next. And the more he hears that confirms that I am into him, he appears to step up to the plate (almost like he’s waiting for my cue) I would love a touchy-feely atmosphere as that’s my nature, but not his-yet. We talked about touching the last time we got together-not sure how we got on the subject- but I told him that although it was my nature to be touchy-feely it was my impression that he did not like it when people touched him so that is why I was being careful trying not to touch him, out of respect for his feelings. Once I verbalized that, then he said it was okay!
So I made sure to get in 3 full hugs that night 
Later that evening, after the hugs and me having drinks I wasn’t used to,
I was feeling nauseous -not drunk- and unable to drive. Because of my state, I don’t think he realizes that I heard/remembered him saying “Do you want to sleep? I could take advantage of you?” I’m upset that I was so nauseous that I couldn’t respond positively or negatively and shortly thereafter I lost my drinks and dinner. But there was nothing wrong with my ears, so I think I’m on the right track.
All of my male friendships have withstood me falling for them and we’ve been close enough to talk about it, professing our different love for each other or not…and still remained just as close or closer friends. I don’t want to screw this one up as I’m not sure what I want, I don’t really know him any other way than as a friend. I’m glad things are going slow to help me process the way I feel.
So the Instant Openness will help him be more comfortable; I’m thinking of spraying it on the top of my head (I’m shorter than he) and in my long hair, and then can I spray some on me to make me more comfortable, like on the front of my ear lobes or front of my neck?
And since we all react differently to pheros, I’m thinking of using it first for whatever, putting it on like I mentioned before, to see how it affects me-- and whomever I come into contact with, realizing no one else will have the history or friendship we do… then will throw caution to the wind if it affects me fine.
The next time I see him he will be bringing his youngish children over, a girl and a boy. Any thoughts on how the Instant Openness could/might affect them? I really like them so I’m hoping we’ll have pizza and an ice cream dessert and lots of laughs. (I want the feeling like we’re a family actually.)
In light of his children being there, would you recommend saving the Instant Sexiness for another time, or go ahead and use it along with the Instant Openess to have him notice and thinking about me differently, or putting it on say an hour before they leave so he’ll make it a point to plan another get together soon, just the two of us?
Hey, Jasmine, thanks for the gift certificate! Can’t wait to use it!
Im going to ask Dolly to comment here, i can tell you my experience with kids:
wearing instant sexiness (both A and B ) has never affected them negatively .
at first i was limiting and/or avoiding their exposure to it only because they are young and i didnt want moody children lol.
once it happened a few times i saw no big deal.
instant openness is another thing-
i think they respond great to it!
the place i place the IO is always in my hair, thats where i got the biggest response so thats my new habit.
geesh, it cant make me talk more than i do NOW 
i spray of instant sexiness on the inside of your shirt is my fav, because it keeps the mone-cloud from rising until you flutter that shirt (you know… because its hot in here )
but IO will be a hit,i assure.
I have never had any bad effects from the Instant Sexiness and children…
When my son gets hyper, I spray either straight Beta -Androstenol or Instant Honesty in my hair, and he chills out.
A friend and I took our two eight year old boys and a 10 year old girl out, and the Instant Sunshine mixes were good…it made his two kids want to get close to me…they were hugging me all day, and had never met me before…and at the same time, MX 140 was driving their daddy crazy, and making him want to get me alone… MX 138 had the same effect…they both seem to have a mild sexual undertone that worked on him, but no negative effects on the kids…
Hey, Lor, what’s the difference between Instant Sexiness A and B, and in getting extra couplins? How many extra?
Lor and the other ladies are able to tell you much better than I, but for sake of a quick answer you’re probably waiting for:
I’m much more fiesty with A than B. Very rowr and take charge, while B is more of a meow and softer… I doubt that will help you, but that’s been my experience.
But what I really wanted to post is that it sounds like you’ve really got it together. Good luck with everything!
And we all love stories here, so let us know what happens!
saraunne had it in a nutshell.
i wear A for myself.
it makes me feel like im playing an instrument, and it sounds goooood…
A gives off an alpha vibe, your the boss, applesauce
i think of debbie harry, jaime pressly
i wear B when i know i need someone else to take charge, when i need to stop being the do-er and become the be-er.
mmmmm beeeeer…
seriously, its just nice. everyones nicer.
i think of drew barrymore, cameron diaz
both sexinesses though are sexxay…
and they contain cops,but when ordering you can put in the extra comments window that you would like 2X,3X, some gals here order 5X the copulins.
you can order EW and add your own, but you can also save yourself the time and request from androtics
The more the couplins, the more the “pull”? My order is going in shortly, but am taking all the advice given here–it seems to really fit the situation. And of course I can’t wait to tell you all the story that unfolds from there!
well deanie, pull is a good word, but experimenting really is key.
having some background in cops, i am comfortable ordering 5X cops in my sexiness if i were to do it, but until you play with it some, why not try like 3X ?
this way you get used to it before you get those “looks” you dont know what to do with 
they surprise me even now,lol.
You’re right on, Lor, guess I should be careful what I’m asking for. I’ll try the 3X.