instant sexiness is a must.
IO in addition has removed personal space for me, people get very touchy feely (even just friends. its like the 60’s)
IH is pretty deep.
dont get me wrong, its definately one of my favorites ( i use it more than others) but to get into a carefree-where-is-your-head-at, i would do :
IO 3 or more sprays 
instant sexiness B with extra copulins
if he doesnt act on that, he’s not going to,period.
its true that pheromones wont make someone do something they wouldnt ever do, but anyone sitting on the fence will surely get pushed off in one direction or the other!!!
just my