Hi I’m Armani, I’m 22 and I live in FL. My main interest was in gaining some insight on my relationship. I’ve been with my guy for 3 yearsnow but I suspect there might be another woman. I can’t confront him head on because he will deny it and twist it around on me. I love him, I know he loves me. I’m just so hurt and confused by it all. I just want to figure out the truth and rebuild our relationship. The sexual aspect is fine but I just wish he trusted me wnough to be candid with me. I suppose I need a truth serum of sorts but I really want to have my bf as my lover but more importantly as my best friend. HELP!
I don´t know what to tell you. I think that what you are asking goes beyond the use this forum is intended for.
I don´t think pheromones can help you with wat you want. No product is going to make your boyfriend go to you and answer all your questions, specially if you have not even asked. I don´t want to be rude, but maybe you should ask him what´s going on.
If you give us some more information about your personality, your situation and whatever you think may be of help, you will allow users to give you more accurate advice. Howeverm keep in mind that this is a board about pheromones, not about relationships. Anyway, I know that sometimes talkig about things can be of help.
I hope someone in the forum can give you some better advice.
If you want your boyfriend to be more honest with you, you should definitely try Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty helps to strengthen emotional bonds, others will feel more comfortable around you, tend to trust you more, and be more likely to open up to you.
Instant Sexiness/b is another that might help. IS/b enhances your femininity and will give you a soft, sexy vibe.
I hope this help, and if you have any questions, just ask!
Tough situation. As extraballislit said, pheromones won’t be the ultimate answer.
However, I think it’s worthwhile to try some Instant Honesty! I have been wearing Ammo and Instant Honesty and I feel that people are being more trustful towards me, even more than usual.
Life is full of people. I hope your boyfriend hasn’t cheated on you!
If in case (I’m just looking towards the future …) there comes something wrong between you and your boyfriend, then pheromones can boost your ego in the upcoming events!
All the best to you, I hope it all works out well!
I agree with extraballislit, mones won’t be the ultimate answer. You need to find out if he’s cheating. Love doesn’t cheat. Sorry, but I don’t believe that sneaking around behind someone’s back demonstrates love.
If it’s an open relationship, it’s an open relationship. If it’s just sex without attachment; why bother being in a relationship. It’s all too dodgy, in my opinion and reeks of manipulative situations (you said he’d twist things back on you) - this generally happens when someone is lying and covering trax. To confuse the issue and sidetrack you.
Is that love? I, personally, can’t love someone I don’t trust. Attachment - yes. Habit - yes. Love? I don’t want any, if that’s what it looks and feels like.
Sorry, but I’m notorious and infamous for calling it like I see and putting it in terms that aren’t obscured by “niceties”. Just my opinion, you need to tell us more than that about you for the GC; and who knows? Maybe you can find someone who will love you the way you need to be loved.
I agree with what my team has to say so far. From reading your intro it seems that you blame yourself and act like you owe him something as oppose to he owes you an explanation and if a man loves you he should understand when a woman feels the distance and that there is someone else and will make it his duty to remove your doubts.
We are not paranoid and trust me from someone who has loads of experience with being cheated on, if you feel it most likely it is there even if its not physical it might be emotional.
I would suggest trying IH to get you guys talking about how you feel and where you should go from there.
Love means u can be open about everything esp your feelings.
I am not saying this is the end as many relationships survive someone cheating but you need to step up and clear the air to see what is ahead for you two.
