Mix:
A314 1 drop (applied 3 hours before the rest)
IH 2 sprays
IS 2 sprays
TUTH 1 spray
P74 12,5 mcg
Later added: more TUTH and P83
Location: 1-on-1 date in (coffee)-bars mostly
Went on a date with a girl I hooked up with 2 weeks ago - wearing a basic TUTH + P83 mix in a raunchy disinhibited environment. My goal was to re-establish attraction and display a wider variety of qualities. Also I just wanted to get to know the girl a little better and see if I could get some nice rapport in.
Still need to digest the date a bit. We met up in the late afternoon for some coffee. She showed up wearing leather dominatrix style heels and a cute black top - exposing her neck and arms nicely. Apparently she was a gothic in her teenage years - kinky.
Conversation went really smooth - no awkward silences. Stayed in the coffee bar for 2 hours till it closed, after that we both were still enjoying eachother’s company and ended up talking for another 4 hours over drinks and dinner and while walking through the park.
Things that went well: a lot of comfort and deep rapport. Drawback was that things were sometimes a bit too serious imho. Not a very playful or flirty vibe, even though I tried to steer it in that direction. Wanted to top up the IShine but I didn’t have it in a to-go and randomly pulling out a big blue bottle from my bag would’ve been a bit suspicious.. Reminder to myself: pour some IShine in one of my empty to-go’s.
I tried to sex up the mix over the night with 2 extra sprays of TUTH and up to 60 mcg P83 (topped up with 20 mcg 3 times). While I saw the attraction in her eyes (dilated pupils) she didn’t become flirty or touchy.
Two weeks ago she was super horny and flirty around me, I think now was her period. She sometimes steered the conversation too much towards some issues she’s having (college drop-out, trying to get her life together etc.) - usually not too good for attraction.
Zero kino from her side (I initiated playful kino a couple of times but she didn’t respond, not even after the introduction of P83); also sometimes she had trouble looking me in the eye. Maybe she was a bit shy or nervous, maybe my signature was too intimidating. She told me she hadn’t been on a date in a looooong time, so maybe that’s why she was nervous.
Tried to find a moment where I could escalate into kissing, but I didn’t find the right moment. Her body language was too closed most of the time. Didn’t want to push it.
Mones were definitely working. The two girls behind the counter were openly flirting with me (unfortunately my date was not standing next to me at that moment). Random people were engaging me in conversation a couple of times in a bar while my date was standing/sitting right next to me, so I managed to show my social side. Got a lot of looks from people in general. Definitely felt the high status vibe.
Good thing was she laughed a lot about my silly jokes. Managed to DHV, qualification didn’t succeed 100%, but decent enough.
I definitely succeeded in displaying a wider, more reliable side of me (A314) - but I’m not sure if I re-established attraction.
Took the evening train and she walked me to the station. I hate kissing at the end of the date -too forced and awkward - so I didn’t go for it. Gave her a hug and told her I’d be around town next weekend.
While on the train I received a text from her saying she enjoyed our date, and that she wanted to kiss me at the station - but that she felt a bit ‘in the open’ (not a fan of PDA apparently). So she definitely was attracted, but was hiding it the entire date..
Hmmmz. Don’t know what to think. Didn’t feel a spark, but she has potential. We have a lot of things in common - personality and hobby wise. Also some mutual friends. Will probably take her on another date and see if I can escalate more.
Thoughts on the mix I used: really good for bonding and comfort, but lacking in sexual pull. A314 sometimes makes me too relaxed and satisfied with the situation. I lose my playfulness and sex drive a bit.
On the other hand: this is my first try with a fallout mix around a specific target. I know repeated exposure is key, so I will go with a similar mix next time and see where it takes me. Just ordered some more fallout mones: P74, IH, P96 and also A314 spray (hits harder).