Okay here’s my situation. College started last Monday, and I met this one cute girl (We’ll call her Y). She was a freshman, and she was having a hard time finding the classes, so I helped her out real quick. We were just having small talks while I walked her to places. Before I left, she gave me her full name and number, and so I didnt even have to ask for them. She also inquired the same information from me before I could even bail. Monday ended well for me.
On Tuesday when I was working she started texting me, and so we met up right after I came back from lunch. We talked for a bit, then we had to go to class, and she said she’d text me when she got out. She did just that, and we met up to hang around school. We ended up talking for more than an hour and getting to know each other a lot better. At that point I think she seemed interested.
I didn’t get to see her on Wednesday because her phone crapped out. On Thursday she went home early after class. We were going to meet after class on Friday real quick, but she had to rush home to get ready for works. Here’s where I made a mistake. Friends advised me to take it easy and let things develop on their own, but I got impatient and went to her workplace to ask her if we can get together to do something this weekend. I got there and proceeded, and she told me she has to work on Saturday and go to a friend’s birthday party on Sunday. She said we’ll talk about this later, and so I left. Friday night I texted her saying I shouldn’t have disrupted her working, and she said it was okay she forgot to tell me that it’s usually that busy there. Small talks via text then I said good night and called her a cutie.
I believe that she was interested because otherwise she wouldnt be giving out her digits just like that, and she wouldn’t start bombarding me with attention otherwise. I also think that I should’ve listened to my friends’ advices and take it easy. We’ll probably run into each other at school on Monday, and I’m wondering as to what I should do next. Did I just blow everything up by pushing it too quickly? And if any, what pheromones should I use to help me remedy this situation?
I don’t think you blew it completely. You can recover. I think the best advice I can give you is, “Don’t get too fixated on this one girl”. Sure, spend time with her and stuff, but while you’re at college, just make lots of friends (both male and female). This will have two good effects. Firstly, you’ll come across as less needy. College only just started, there’s a zillion hotties there you haven’t met yet. Secondly, just being a social guy will make you seem cooler. And lastly, (I know I said two, but here’s a bonus) just having lots of friends will make your time at college more fun!
Yeah I know when you REALLY like a girl it’s hard to just let it develop naturally, but you’ll just have to learn to do it.
Pheromone advice for making friends: Instant Honesty. Instant shine to just seem like a cool guy. Ammo to have a bit of a sexy vibe. Maaaybe Instant Gentleman if you want to seem more mature.
Making friends (both males and females) isnt a problem for me at the school. I know most of the people who have been in the school previously. I guess it wont hurt to get to know more people. It’s just hard to meet a gal who’s cool to talk to and is similar to me in many aspects. Good advice you gave, regardless. Now, I believe I’m supposed to just chill and wait for her to contact me again or say hi if we do run into each other at school again. Correct me if I’m wrong lol
No you didn’t blow it, by what you said, but you might, IF you continue to act desperate. It’s all a roll of the dice … she may have not read all those books that give examples of desperate guys and gals.
To look at it another way, you’ve met one girl before school has really gotten on its way. There are lots and lots of beautiful girls for you to meet, but you’ve latched on to the first one that talked to you so to speak. Not good. Walk through the water a bit before you put tags on who you wanna spend time with. BUT! If you’re in a hurry and/or desperate, continue on … but with caution. Slow down, my friend. Slow down.
One can never fail starting off with AMMO, IS, IO and IH. AMMO to push the seriousness side of things as for getting a bit sexual … IS and IO for lots of crazy, fun, wild conversation, and IH when you want that deep and serious conversation.
The above is my thinking, and MY THINKING only. With that being said, I’m reserving all rights to be wrong.
