That was a little more on the vanity side. However, people keep telling me that I’m “pretty” yet I never believe it because I always feel like I’m 2nd best, especially when guys pick other girls over me nearly all the time.
I’ve only just started to be interested in Pheromones and this week, I’ve just received my first bottle (by Pheromone99). I’m a ballroom and latin dancer and although my overall dancing is generally better than most other girls (I’ve improved a lot since I’ve first started about 3 years ago), I still don’t understand why most guys would choose other girls over me to dance with (especially one of them…I feel invisible when this other girl shows up and I want him to be my more permanent partner). And I thought…what the heck…and just bought an Excite. I’m based in the UK, so hence the reason why I chose a local product though I may be switching to the US stuff later on.
Well, I’m still in the testing stages, but hopefully, results will improve over time through different products with your help!
Hey Richis! Maybe your beauty is intimidating to men or maybe you seem aloof orrrr… it could be the pheromones, maybe she emits a lot of natural copulins. There are many people here who have turned from being a wallflower to the life of the party with a little boost from pheromones. I am glad you already made your first move. It’s time to try some heavy duty stuff at Androtics. Search for Instant Sexiness, Lust After Me, EoW etc in the forum.
Also keep us posted about the results from your other purchases. By the way, what kind of woman does your target guy like, do you know?
Well, I guess they might be blind!! Ok, the next time you go dancing, gimme a call…being with you sure is like sitting in a garden full with beautiful flowers and birds singing the sweetest tones!
but I have to remind you that being pretty alone sometimes is not the main factor for attraction…there’re other factors which are as essential as well…
Anyway, try some of the Androtics products, who knows those poor sighted guys will notice you this time!
I would like to take this opportunity, to welcome you to the forum!
Nice to meet all of you! Call me an Ice Queen, but generally speaking, I feel awkward in unfamiliar social situations, hence my aloofness.
Dunno what he likes, but I can tell you a lot about his character. He’s a really sweet and shy guy initially, but his confidence is better over the past few months due to his improvement in dancing. At first glance, everybody thinks that he never really speaks, but because 3 of us (both me, the guy and another guy) socialise pretty frequently so we’d be chatting a lot. And when I initially told a 4th friend that I sometimes have 15-20 minute conversations with this person, he was amazed that I “managed to squeeze so many words out of him” at the same time “can’t imagine him speaking so much”. Recent record’s 30 mins though!
Anyway, yeah, when it’s just both of us (or with the 3rd friend), he interacts with me more (to the point when I almost feel like his girlfriend, but I’m not because I have a boyfriend - but that’s more of the dance partner chemistry stuff). But when the girl shows up, he ignores me at 70%. I’m not paranoid, but sometimes it does make me feel the rejection.
So he is a shy guy, huh? There are quite a few threads in the women’s section where women have similar problems with guy not taking the lead and sending mixed signals.
Typically Isexi mix B with loads of TAH, some IH and a strong copulin mix is recommended. Ladies, correct me if I am wrong!
Are you interested in him for just being your permanent dance partner? Maybe he wants more and since you have a boyfriend he is going after the one with future prospect of being his girlfriend.
It may sound trite, but this might be a case of self-fulfilling statement. If you believe no one is really interested in you? - or that you are somehow undesireable? it is probably reflected in the way you act and move (body language etc.). Maybe all you are really looking for is some confidence in yourself. I don’t mean to be presumptuous… perhaps I don’t know what I’m talking about. I’m sure you deserve to be comfortable in your own skin though - and if you aren’t already … feeling intensely yourself and comfortable and sexy will probably help your dancing too?
I know exactly what you mean! You’re pretty, you’re a great dancer, I’m sure you have a lot going for you. So why do they always choose the OTHER one? The unattainable one?
I think it’s the challenge, and the mystery. I have a friend who will without fail ALWAYS fall for the girl he can never get, even if there is a LINE of girls waiting for him.
One of my good friends (who is actually a female PUA) said once, “You want them to know, ‘I’m the best thing you’ll never have.’”
I guess the thing that keeps getting drilled into me is: make them fight to know who you are. It’s not about changing yourself at all! But it’s about letting them come to you. And this is where confidence comes in.
And if they’re too blind to see how wonderful you are – then it’s their loss! I hate hearing that, but at the same time it’s true.
And ballroom dancing is so perfect for pheromones! I can see it in my mind already – playing like a movie… heeheehee.
I did manage to get some results from the pheromones that I’ve just ordered, though it’s midnight here so you’ll probably hear more about my rambles in my blog (link in signature). Though I must admit that my attitude does fluctuate sometimes from a really high to a really low and vice versa.
Have to agree that ballroom dance is the best place to use them. Simply waving your wrist “innocently” in their faces gives you slightly more attention than usual, considering how physically close you’re forced to be when dancing together.
Speaking from a guy point of view, if he’s talking with you so much when he’s naturally reticent, then I think he’s probably attracted to you. He could find the distinct possibility of intimacy with you threatening, and so be creating/maintaining more personal space.
There are a number of compounds that have been mentioned on the forums that have an effect of decreasing personal space. More expereinced users can tall you which ones have that effect. You might try some of those. The guy sounds like he has considerable self-control and so this approach may be more effective than pheremones that more directly stimulate male arousal.
I would dance with you young lady but you would have to lead I have no idea how to actually dance but I would love to learn! Which kind of latin dancing would you recommend I learn?
I thought so too at about the end of last year. In fact, most of the stuff you said was pretty much what was on my mind. But I started doubting my instincts recently when he started to drift away a bit. Hopefully, the compounds will help reel him back. Meh…
I’m into both social dancing and competitive dancing Richelieu, and I’ve taught some people how to lead and follow (as well as look good!). Seeing that your location’s “UK”, have you seen Strictly Come Dancing? (US version’s called Dancing With The Stars.) I actually do all of that (except for Salsa, but even then I can still do the odd Salsa-ing if confronted with the dance and I know some moves of Argentine Tango). If you’re looking for a more social experience, go for Salsa because it’s pretty much a versatile dance, while at the same time very popular around the world now. But if you’re looking for some real ownage on the floor, I recommend looking around for ballroom and latin american dance lessons. Girls absolutely love guys who actually know how to dance (I’m serious!). Okay, some guys think it’s “gay” to dance, but it’s totally not. How many times have men heard their girlfriends drool over this one “totally awesome sexy dancer” and wish that this “sexy dancer” would die? They get jealous, but yet they don’t take the initiative to learn something other men would get jealous about when their girls’ thoughts flutter about.
Hmm…now what to spend on with my $15…I’m still an amateur in this stuff!
Ok, the next time you go dancing, gimme a call…being with you sure is like sitting in a garden full with beautiful flowers and birds singing the sweetest tones!
