Hello Dave and welcome.
In my opinion, you should see your doctor if you have not done so already. There are numerous medical treatments and programs for this.
Pheromones, whilst providing some self-effects, can help with communication, openness, general attraction and assisting you in becoming more alpha.
It would help greatly if you could tell us more about you, your personality, and what you believe is the cause of your problems. This will also help you to qualify for the $25 gift certificate that Tisha kindly provides.
Do have a good read of The Mens Guideand get a feel for the products and their benefits. Let us know if you have any other questions 