Woman are strange indeed. With the girl i’ve been after I noticed it was just her and I in the restaurant section so I told her “its just you and I here” and she looked a little upset and angry, then I called her over to me and gave her a compliment “I see you work hard serving people dinner all the time as a waitress, when’s the last time someone took you out for dinner?”
She smiled with a huge grin and went into a long speech about her boyfriend. I am sneaky too as I indirectly got her to admit she has one now I now without asking her directly
Nonetheless she went from cold facially,to warm facially , to cold verbally.
too nice? you’re kidding right. No nicely does it here. but perhaps one should curtail on the diplomatic behaviour and be rude and abrasive. Slap people randomly in the face if the mood takes you
But seriously, Kat bowled over to the kitchen again yesterday. I was minding my seafood paella and making tea, back faced to the door, she could have easily walked passed without my noticing. She started babbling on about stuff, i can’t remember exactly what. I said something about knock down ginger because i had heard a knock at my door just moments earlier and nobody there when i went to open it.
I asked her where she was going - to the shop she says to get some alcohol. Ok, brief talk about alcohol, what we like etc…Anyway i say, well give us a shout if u need company. personally i feel it’s a bit sad to be drinking copious amounts of alcohol on your lonesome.
she knocks on my door later, i rise from sleep to answer and tell her i will catch her in a bit. i was actually watching a programme and finished off then went to her place roughly 30 minutes later. chat till circa 00:00am then I look at my watch and bring things to a close. - to which she seems surprised.
tell her i’ll see her later and go to room to do more work. i think she’s kinda strange.
You have been cracking me up whenever I read your journal mamba. Great observational skills and exactly what I look for when changing someones status to reporting user.
I’m actually surprised you’re not one now, but the way they changed the system its difficult to know who is one and isn’t. Looks like you kind of fell through the cracks a little and for that I apologize. I am glad though I was able to change your status though so that now you are one. Welcome to the world of super awesome reporting users
I wouldn’t say I am good with women but I know something for a fact. Girls like what they can’t have. if I see a girl i like, I always make sure we have ample time to talk. Think more than 15 minutes. That way I can build a connection of some sort and show just a little bit of interest. Since she knows I am interested she would start playing hard to get and see what you really are willing to do for her. What do I do? I mirror her investment. If she doesnt come to me and I am sure she has seen me I also don’t go. I wait for a social situation where we would have to talk and then I would proceed and build more comfort. Then mirror her investment. If she talks to you ones, talk to her twice. If she doesn’t, don’t avoid her but keep you’re distance. Women like to be courted and she expects you to do so. I always second guess myself and that’s my weakness otherwise I would be quite good. My high school, lets call her GF, was the same. We would only talk once a week and when we did It was epic and I made sure she was thinking about me all the time. If you show a girl you really need or want her and she hasn’t given you an obvious green light, dont think smile, playing with hair, or the likes. Think her friends, how do they react to you. I knew she liked me from her friends. She never once showed me IOIs but her friends did. I sat next to the same girl my whole 4 years in high school and she taught me “stuff.” stuff that I would have never thought about by her telling me and me observing her date 3 boyfriends at the same time.
