I think I am starting to have a special fascination for this IJ fellow. The day I placed my first order i was going through a moment of: “That’s it!” enough of the good nice guy in me. So, Instant Jerk and TUTH loaded my arsenal, among the many other toys. I ordered IJ just based on the smartmones store description: “Fantasy fulfillment for men” it said 
The Jerk end-up sitting there, in the counter, for almost a month and a half because as I started reading the forum all the stories of guys being agressed wearing it start coming to my awareness. At some point I even consider returning it and exchanging it for something else without even opening the bottle.
It was only mikotorocks that constantly made me think about this one with his signature…“don’t let it tame you, tame it”. Then a month ago Metaltree appeared in here and started posting his daily adventures and misadventures with the Jerk. A couple of weeks ago Jeseejester posted about it as well and then M_P started the thread of the underrated products.
So, one day, a Friday, I chose to give it a try. What a heck. If I don’t like the experience I would send the product back and exchange it anyhow.
First Event: 1 spray (chest)
Environment: Coffeshop - Bistro
Effects on-self: I got a 15 minute rush of anxiety and mild “agressiveness”. This evolved into a mild sense of ease and comfortable confidence, though.
Effects on others: The two most significant to report are: waiters were not nice but they weren’t either aggressive. They were just like a little bit uncomfortable. I would have aborted the experiment but the waitress start giving the must amaizing looks and throwing her hair to me each time that she walked by.
i postitioned myself close to the counter as that way I could observe the whole place, wont have many people behind me (I felt like covering my back as I read about someone being attacked from behind while wearing the IJ). Therefore, both waiters and the waitress would constantly come by.
From the distance the waitress will be giving me IOI’s as I have never experienced before, given the quality of them. It was like a vampires kind of look she will constantly give me from the distance: like cheeky mysterious, astute sensual… grrrrr. As well, each time that she approached the counter, she would deviate her sight to the other side as trying to ignore me but would immediately start playing with her hair, turning it with her fingers in a steady circular motion and just the moment she would walk beside me let it go. It was a great discovery.
Second Event: Dancing. 2 sprays - upper chest.
Effects to self: Similar as the above but lasted a bit longer than 15 minutes, barely half and hour and transmuted into the nice ones.
Effects to others: The guy at the door was kind of concerned, as if I seemed threatening. He just babbled the cover price and kept looking at me. When I arrived to the place a very good friend of mine and initial dancing partner was sitting at the bar. She first, kind of avoid me. The owner of the place (a lady as well) seemed not to want to acknowledge my presence (even though usually she greets me in a cheerful friendly way).
I sat for a while, observing and pondering if it should be smarter to leave (I don’t want a to leave a bat impression in that place as I do enjoy being part of that community). A couple of minutes later, I reached out, touch my friend shoulder and greet her. She seemed to react to the smell, either I overdid the cologne to cover it or either she was reacting to IJ.
After that I stood-up, move away from the bar and stare at the dance floor. I was pondering if I should leave by then but I got the first “hit” then. I wouldn’t consider it anything but a respect hit as it came from an older lady. This woman seems to be, or have been, a heavy weight in the social dancing community some years ago. She only pays attention to the expert dancers, all the others might as well be phantoms for her. A lady with a lot of “bitchy” like attitude. i mean this lady ditches men in the middle of the song with no remorse and gentleness. So, here I am standing next to the dance floor and she is sitting in a corner staring at me. The phantom suddenly was and observable body. I thought that was it when suddenly I heard a feminine voice coming from behind. “Wow! You are here! Haven’t see you in a long time!”
To my surprise a younger lady, in my age range, was approaching me. What she had in common with the one mentioned above is nevertheless her reputation of a… you guess it. Yes, a b… I start chatting with her while thinking to myself, no way I am going to dance with this one, not at least my first round. She doesn’t ditch men in the middle of the song but she does put them you down with her looks and gestures if she thinks you are not dancing up to her level.
Note: Please be aware that the social dancing community is a fantastic one here in my city, is just that, like in any community there are some black sheep and here I am being hit by two of them, they are the exception, not the rule. Nevertheless, this makes it more significant as a result of this report.
Still, there she was standing next to me and I could sense how she starting to put out a sexual vibe with her voice and body and giving me the “looks”. OMG!. This is when I noticed how wonderful the self-effects were. I couldn’t care less. So, after a couple of songs, and the two of us standing, SHE asks me to dance! Not only that, she excuses herself even before we go into the dance embrace: “I may not be as good as you anymore” she said.
While we dance, each time that I tried something fancy (which half of the time I miss still) she would APOLOGIZE for not understanding my lead. Meanwhile she will keep flirting and showing meat - boobs. I mean, usually ladies correct their dress not to show meat, this one seem to be aiming for the opposite.
Anyhow, the series of songs were over, the rhythm changed. I ended it with my usual chivalry and that seemed to be the enchantment braking attitude, the bitch came out again. She just smiled, didn’t replied and turned around. Lesson learned. A jerk never excuses himself; hence, he’s a… Jerk. Congruency, congruency, that’s the rule of this phero game, the rule at least that I am learning still.
Once the first hour and a half after application was over, everything was really manageable. My friend’s behavior came back to normality, the owner suddenly smiled to me as normal, etc… The only thing that was different was an interesting increase in my sense of confidence and comfort around ladies. Not that I was not comfortable before, it just felt different, it just felt new, and yes, better.
Reflections: Definitively, this is one of those that I needed to try just once, just one shot and I could totally say this pheros do work.
Maybe there is a correlation with age as the one that happens with IG. It could be affording something for younger men and the opposite to older ones. metaltree, jesee and myself we are over 30. Mikotorocks he is close to the 30 range. Could that have something to do?
Still, even if the above is true. I can totally sense the edge. It can totally help as a good tool in the arsenal but I need to still use it with caution until i really understand it better. Anyhow, I am excited about this one. Even more, I mixed it the other day with an MX that I am fascinated with. This MX has become an attraction MX for me, while others in the forum refer to it as a great social. So, I thought it was worth a try as a buffer or enhancer of Jerk; results: radioactive. Yes, it can enhance the confidence and attraction of IJ in a good way BUT it has to be handled with total care to avoid unintended consequences - just like nuclear power. I am still fine tuning the mix of the two but I did love the results. My concern is there is a “Cinderella” effect; the enchantment brakes after 4 or so hours and what is left is far from desirable. Nothing bad happened but I did notice a shift in peoples responses - I am wondering how to buffer that. Anyhow, I will tell that story, another day.
. Maybe IH allows for those looks to be expressed in words and get the ball rolling…
