BadBoysDriveAudi:
I think that’s true to a certain extent (guy goes for naughty girl instead of nice girl). I think most guys long for the naughty girl but don’t really understand how to stay or keep a naughty girl. It’s an interesting phenomenon.
Case in point – I have a friend who bragged and bragged to me about this hot firecracker girl with whom he somehow found himself in a relationship. He loved the naughtiness…when they were alone! He found himself, however, fighting to control her sexy impulses when they were out in the crowd.
We all go out to Fat Tuesdays in Cozumel. We had a great day and wanted to get some drinks and dance it up before boarding the ship to our next destination. Everyone is dancing and having a good time and she decides to jump up on the bar and give the world a cross between Coyote Ugly and a mini striptease. It was actually kinda cool, she wasn’t technically removing her clothing and she also got the bartenders involved in her “show”.
Needless to say, just about every guy in the joint was hollering and ogling but instead of my friend taking in the moment like a “yeah, she’s hot and she’s going home with me”, he kept trying to grab her arm and pull her down. Apparently five billion pair of eyes on your girl all of the sudden makes you a wee bit apprehensive.
Well, gentlemen, what do you want? The nice girl that wouldn’t even do something like that in her dreams or the girl with a naughty streak that’s capable of giving everyone in the joint a rise at once?
A lot of guys say they want a naughty girl but when push comes to shove, they are in no position to actually keep her. They try to tame the fire and she gets bored. No need to guess what happens next.
There’s an “old” saying that “a guy wants a chef in the kitchen and a pornstar in the bedroom but never wants anyone else to try dinner or “dessert” at his house”… i only wish that perfect balance between the two was more common