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Hi All

For some time I have wondered about buying and using pheromones and thought I would take the plunge since the activity in the bedroom had lowered lately. I dont know if this is due to the arrival of our first child or what, but my wife has been tired alot lately since our daughter wakes up anywhere between 4.30 and 6am. So I expect that will have been playing a part.

BTW - I was looking around my music room when coming up with a nickname for this forum and since I own a Korg Oasys synth thats where that came from.

Koasys, hello and welcome to the forums.

"For some time I have wondered about buying and using pheromones and thought I would take the plunge since the activity in the bedroom had lowered lately. I dont know if this is due to the arrival of our first child or what, but my wife has been tired alot lately since our daughter wakes up anywhere between 4.30 and 6am. So I expect that will have been playing a part. "

i expect it played a significant role. not much anyone can do there besides help her get some occassional rest lol. if you are going to be dabbling with pheromones in an effort to help her feel relaxed, comfortable and pretty damn stress free and ready to be taken, IFM will help you go a long way towards that end. Instant Shine can come through for both of you. together at higher mcg’s and it might make you feel like you are in college again.

you didnt mention how old you are, or your background so it is a bit hit and miss with other recommendations. once you learn the simpler, easier to use Instant line you will probably understand enough about these things to try TUTH to try and kick start things on the domestic front.

i’m about to be a father myself, i’m glad i’ve got a whole family to help tend to the 4:30 wake ups

Hey Koasys,

Welcome here! Turn Up the Heat and Instant Female Magic may get your wife hot and bothered and comfortable enough to spice up your bedroom.

Nice nick, so you play what type of music on your free time?

Cheers

Kai

I’m 41 and my wife is 27 we have been together 8 years and got married a few years ago as yesterday. It was our anniversary yesterday.

I will post what happened in the mens section today

Welcome Koasys!

Yeah, those babies are sure disruptive, aren’t they :wink: :slight_smile: . I know, I have 3 of them myself and you’re right when you said that it’s been playing a part in your wife’s tiredness. Mommies usually spend so much time and energy, both physical AND emotional, on our prodigies that we just poop ourselves out. My suggestion is that the BEST thing you can do is to help her out with the chores around the house and take turns helping with you’re little one, and help your wife to have some time all to herself or out with some girlfriends, or just the two of you. For me, there’s nothing sexier than a man vacuuming :smiley: Wow!

I really like Instant Shine and Instant Honesty for “everyday” kind of use. It’s a real mood lifter and helps to deepen conversations which is great for relationships. They’ll help you get that “connected” feeling which is really the first step of intimacy for a woman. Turn Up the Heat will help with her sexual arousal but should be used carefully as she may react negatively if you were to apply too much at once. I suggest starting with one spray and work up from there so a TOGO size bottle should do nicely to start with. A lot of the guys on the forum also like Ammo which is also an attractant but not quite as “raw” as TUTH. Ammo can be worn in just about any social setting but TUTH should probably be saved for the bedroom.

Connect with her and make her feel good with the Shine and Honesty and then, if things look “promising” and you’re heading to the bedroom, squirt on a little TUTH. It will really intensify your experiences.

Do you think you’ll be using pheros in any other parts of your life such as at work, at parties, etc?

Koasys, welcome from one noob to another.

Very similar situation to yours except two kids, eldest now well over 3 years old and still no “bedroom action”. My order is currently somewhere en route over the Atlantic and will, of course, report fully in due course.

My advice, listen to the guys and gals on here, read the forum, virtually every question I had has already been answered, most important, take it slow in case you freak the good lady out.

Hi Koasys and Welcome to Pherotalk!

How did you discover our forum ?

River gave you some good advice. Reps to you river! Children can be quite exhausting and we spend all our energy making sure we do all we can to be the good mommies you men love. :wink:

We need to know more about you before I dish out your Gift certificate.:slight_smile:

What is the relationship between you and your wife? I need to know a bit more about the situation.

I would definitely suggest you help with the chores and do what you can so she can get more rest. If your newborn is not too young and your wife agrees to get out, that’s fine but if not you can always wait till he/she is asleep and plan a romantic time in doors if that will make her more comfortable.

Instant female magic will definitely make her feel more comfortable. Will make her put her head on your shoulders, just like when you all first started dating. I would suggest Ammo which gives off that fun, sexy guy vibe and will arouse her. Take it slow and let things progress and you’ll see. She just needs time.

Looking forward to your reply so I can send your GC out.

All the best.