With jerk, I think that once you open people, it really doesn’t matter what you say. The girls generally want to talk with you. IOIs seem pretty obvious, especially if YOU instigate. This is not for those that don’t like to open, but if you find it hard to open people and see yourself as on the brink of it (as I felt like I was) then you should and can use this to tip the scales. Felt that this had to be mentioned…
PERFECT! I’m glad you like it! Try IJ, Spaceland, and one drop of A314. I am just curious to see if you will get the same feel I get when I wear it.
Another great one is IJ, Spaceland or IO, and IH! Wow, this made me feel great! I had tried it with some P103 though, but I feel like this could be optional. It’s in my journal if you want to read about it.
Today I wore instant jerk, p86, taf, meo-est, and instant female magic. I think I may be od-ing on none cause I had a bit of a ghost effect today that I didn’t really have previously…
In spanish, however, I thought it interesting that when I got to my seat, girls immediately started sitting around me, despite one of them not even sitting in her normal seat. I think a come talk to me, instant jerk, meo-est mix will go very well. May try the spaceland instead like mikoto says..
Decided it a bad idea to test jerk at home for the weekend with ex girlfriend who I still kinda have interactions with (She’s the jealous type).
Should I try jerk at two sprays? I don’t really feel the jerkitude, I am just not self conscious to ask questions in class or pretty much do anything. I just no longer feel nervous about much, which actually I can’t get enough of now that I think about it. If for no other reason than that, I think that this is an absolute must for dances, parties, clubs, or any other situation where you might face rejection. You will just move on to another girl and realize in yourself that you are a catch enough to not worry about the girl that refused you! Life is good.
Today with the A314 I think I might be too commanding for school, so this will be my gym mix haha. I didn’t apply instant female magic today and also noticed not as much closeness from girls in class and that they weren’t as comfortable around me, even from just the day before.
Wore instant jerk again. The girl I’d been pursuing who now has a boyfriend completely avoided me in spanish.
Two girls that are pretty cute and on the bubble with me were looking for reasons to be close to me and talk with me, and vying for my attention. I also wore gentleman with it. Got a lot of interested looks from girls. Range for that was surprisingly high, thanks to the issey miyake cover scent maybe.
Went down to lunch. Nothing special but some indicators of interest, curious looks. Sat by a cute girl who was friendly but very tired. Overall, testing jerk is pretty fun I must say. The friends I sat by I bonded with more cause I was less shy around them and kinda got the vibe of being better friends with the group than I actually was… good stuff.
I love the mix of instant jerk, instant gentleman, and instant female magic. I think it gives off this comfortable yet still bad boy vibe. In my spanish class, two girls, one quite attractive, the other average, turn around to get my approval on things, talk with me, and in general basking in trying to get my attention. The cute girl also used every opportunity she had to ask me something, such as if it went quiet in the class and we hadn’t spoken in a while, she would just want to bring something up for me. Also got male respect from the guy we were sitting next to. We’re relatively good friends, but again I’m glad I have noticed no adverse self effects. Except it can make me a bit of a horndog. I guess you can say I am “excessively appreciative” of the girls around UCSB.
As I left the classroom, group of around 4 people sorta surrounding me. The other girl I have been sorta talking to was waiting for me. She laughed at what I said pretty intensely again. The rest of the group was pretty much trying to gain my approval.
Went to the gym sick as a dog. Saw a bunch of girls around that I know. They were especially friendly. These I probably wouldn’t attribute much to the jerk, just being able to put up with the workout may have been helped by jerk. I do notice that I am typically more gentlemanly than not when I apply jerk. But then some time later I have this cocky mean side where I am pretty shallow, especially making fun of overweight girls that wear too little clothing. Neither nice nor necessary. Never out loud of course, just monologue. Normally thoughts nonetheless that I wouldn’t be thinking…
Instant jerk still works as advertised. I read a few of things off of approach anxiety.com and just kinda regained a lot of confidence through that and jerk.
Was assertive, actually got called a jerk and an asshole, both by friends, both joking with smiles on their faces. Nagged people, was the center of attention, started and steered conversations. I left the cafeteria with way more food than I was supposed to, was called on it, and just played it off with a big smile on my face. This with some shine is golden because it is so important to smile when wearing this product. I also have on some instant female magic that I tried for the first time to the neck, but quickly put on some shine to try and counterbalance its negatives.
I’ve always told my friends who’ve had less luck with girls to steer clear of the old “girls like jerks” thing. That really just spreads because meek guys who are always nice don’t get girls - and it’s taken to mean the opposite type of guy must get tons of chicks, which just isn’t true. I understand what instant jerk is meant to do, but you don’t need to change your whole attitude to accomplish it.
My issue is a little different. I am not a jerk when I use this, just more assertive and funny, less nervous, more domineering. I have had no trouble attracting girls by my looks, but my personality was a bit to nice guy, and I’d literally see girls attraction for me wane… So I think a little bit of reframing to act along the lines of my happily married father who is the epitomy of an alpha male would go fine. I’m not much beta anymore, but in my mind you can act half alpha half beta with jerk on and you’d seem so cool that it would be like you’re all alpha… I dunno.
I hate when people say to just be yourself, because we ourselves are always changing. I am a different me than I was a year ago. I think, talk, look, and act different. Whether that means I conformed to all the david deangelo, mystery method, how to become an alpha male, and the whole personality of being on a college campus and on my own just changed me. Pheros or not, I’m glad to be who I am, pheros enhance it, and I will be becoming a better me till I die.
All this aside, last night was amazing. 2 sprays jerk, 1 at 5pm 1 at 9pm, 2 sprays mx292, some A314, some shine and instant female magic all worked amazingly well. I also used spaceland. I felt like everything contributed to the night, as I was relaxed from all of them and confident. Had some great male respect hits, danced with some honeys, and was able to be the life of the party till I drank a little too much to be at the right level to entertain. Overall a fun night.
I really don’t understand why people still think IJ turns you into a jerk, as it doesn’t. You CONTROL yourself, IJ doesn’t control you. Non-congruency is you friend here, and I think yogalefty is doing a good job at using IJ!
Thanks man, you’re a loyal friend who obviously doesn’t take your signature too seriously, in that you are acting non-congruent and considerate! 
It is important to note that pheros aren’t that powerful, and your personality must be strong like you say enough to enhance and steer how you want others to act and perceive you, etc.
Haven’t posted on here for a while. So I have to say, jerk works its magic best when not buffered by A314. I have been putting on a spray of jerk while in florida vacationing, but followed by the A314. The edge of jerk just really isn’t there when so well buffered.
I said more things that made people turn their heads, such as “well at least you must be good at something!” If you were there it’d of made more sense, but I felt like my presence was more well known. Indicators of interest, more looks back and forth with animalistic urge. Am excited to try this for the beach tomorrow, and then wash off and reapply for miami!
I will continue to apply jerk before workout. Very valuable to get you pumped up and on your lone dog mode. I think jerk brings out an interesting phenomenon. Everyone (with the exception of narcissists, psychopaths, and people lying about it) are insecure and crave attention and approval from others, naturally some to more of an extent than other people do. But if you show that you crave the attention of others, they are creeped out by hanging with you and leave you alone. With jerk, you kinda draw people into you, gaining their approval and having them try and get yours. I hope that makes sense. Many a good night with jerk, can’t wait to try it with p75 and other products.
I agree, A314 does tend to overpower the IJ a bit. When I tried it (both of them) I felt the A314 more. Gave me the care to do better at what I was currently doing, made me work a little harder, and makes me care more for people than I already do. Not to say that I don’t care about people when I wear IJ, because I always care about people in general. However, A314 is some powerful stuff in its own.
Yeah I think they are different animals not necessarily blendable (that the right way to invent that word) for me. Good products, but each for its own crowd and nights. How have you liked 292 and A314? Most people have that as their bread and butters..
You know what, I just RECENTLY tried that and it felt great! However, the testing grounds weren’t that lively, so I’d have to try/test it again. However, I did feel the A314 but also felt the confidence raise of MX292. So it felt like they were both equally shining through, but I think I accidentally added more A314 than I should have.
The thing is that the dropper in A314 sometimes throws globs at you than a drop. Either that or two drops instead of one! So I ended up with more A314 than what I was going for, I’d say an estimate of maybe 5 or 6 drops? Not good when you’re in a hurry too, because you don’t have the time to be careful with its application.
I’m thinking of removing the stopper, and getting a bulb dropper so I can get an exact drop next time around.
You know that exact same thing happens to me! It will kinda short on a drop, then I’ll get like 2 and a half drops on the A314. I just bought some mxs that I can’t wait to try with A314.
The only thing I would be worried about is if that happened for the oil based products dirty and raw power when they finally come out. Can you imagine 4 and a half drops of either of those?!
Ha, ha it’ll be killer! And I don’t mean that in a good way! That’s why I think Raw Power test pack in its spray form is just as good. Although, oil does diffuse a lot slower (but still!)