Ladies - Non Mone Questions?

Moved to lounge :slight_smile:

I’m a little disappointed by this posting and really should give you a neg rep. Where’s the babe driving the car and you should have at least been wearing lingerie or a bikini! Terrible what you do to us :wink:.

Depends what a girl is into. Like you guys, that have your rack, trunk and pin preferences; so we girls do too.
I’m first a legs girl. I tell you, all the chicken legs up here is disappointing. :open_mouth:

Damn it was to cold that day for a bikini LOL

Ok sorry to hijack but I have to share this… I cant believe I am gonna tell people.

When I first got my mustang me and my sister went up to the family farm upstate for the weekend and left the hubbies home. My brother lives there and runs it now and my parents went up on most weekends before my dad passed. Anyways we made some margaritas and were sitting in the sun talking and the subject of driving naked came up. We were a little tipsy but not bad. Well my sister in law dared us to drive down to the main road and back naked. If we did it she would do all the cooking and clean up for the weekend and we didnt have to help. You hardly ever see anyone on the back road so we took that dare and did it.

So me and my sister get naked, wrap a towel around us and get in the car and just as we are pulling out we throw the towels out the window. LOL It was quite liberating. We get all the way down to the main road about 3 miles and turn around to come back. Half way back old Mr Coalchester and his tractor are right in the middle of the freaking road and he standing there next to it waving at us. My sister says holy fuck what are we gonna do now. I didnt know what to do there is only one road back LOL

So I went around him as fast as I could and bottomed out and broke my spoiler guard thingy under the car LOL My sister screamed out the window “we’ll send help Mr Coalchester” Oh my god it was so embarrassing. He told my father and we denied it. LOL Poor old Mr Coalchester he is like 100, I think he was 100 when we were kids to (snort).

We said he must be getting dementia. I think my dad knew though he just lifted his eyebrow when we said it :stuck_out_tongue:

Ahhh good times

Tisha

My personal experience has been that women in general tend to respond to dance a lot. However they seem to prefer interactive dance as opposed to performance dance. I’ve taken Salsa and Ballroom dance classes with girls in their early 20’s that you would expect to hate ballroom and think it’s for old people. On the flip side I’ve gone clubbing and seen the reactions from women when some guy decides to start breakdancing and while it’s entertaining to watch, it doesn’t help to build attraction. In fact I remember once seeing some guy dancing like he was auditioning for the next sequel to “Step Up”…I could see his date looking around uncomfortably like she was hoping he wouldn’t draw too much attention. Time and place I suppose.

With regard to muscle, tastes vary from woman to woman. Some women will swoon over a six pack and pecs as thick as slabs of beef, others as you have already been told prefer a leaner look. Personally in my training I strive for a classic Steve Reeves sorta look. When I was younger I wanted to be a mass monster like Lee Haney or Dorian Yates. The thing is, that sort of look is all but impossible without steroids, cannot be maintained year round (pro bodybuilders look like crap during off training times) and the number of women that actually find that extreme a look attractive is so small and niche that it’s more of a minority fetish than an actual attractive trait.

Ultimately with regards to physique, what matters the most is your own comfort level with how you look. You can have a great build by some woman’s standards, but if you’re not secure with it and it’s not how you would want to look than it won’t be attractive. If you work out, train for function rather than form, substance over style, train to be healthy and feel comfortable with your own appearance and your masculinity and women will respond.

I’d like to add to what RAD said in that the most important aspect of your physique is that you are comfortable with how you look. I know girls who are a little thicker than skinny girls and yet they look great. Its because they like how they look so that radiates outwards and people pick up on it. I’ve seen big guys look great and have babes on their arms because again they are comfortable with how they look.

The most important bit of advice I can ever tell anyone on these boards is to not care to much what others are attracted to. If you did that you would have to change your style and everything about you to reflect the flavor of the day. You need to find what makes you comfortable, what you like and go with it. Not half-assed but be passionate about it and be you.

I never think about it to much but sometimes I do wonder if people ask Johnny Depp if he knows that he looks a lot like me. :slight_smile:

Johnny DEPP**!?** Looks like you?! Who came up with that? Everybody can see - plain as the nose on your face - that it’s James Franco that resembles you. Granted, only in looks since you are way more real than some actor . . . :cool:

PS we need an EEK! face for the Post Icons.

This is another one of those “be yourself” sorts of things - be the best self you can be. As someone said, there are women out there that are attracted to all kinds of stuff, all types, all styles. But the thing of it is, you want one that’s going to be attracted to the authentic YOU, whatever and whoever that is. Otherwise, you’re acting, and at that point there will be an inevitable breakdown in any relationship based on that acting, when she realizes you aren’t who you’ve pretended to be.

That doesn’t argue that you shouldn’t work on improving yourself. That doesn’t argue that you shouldn’t breakdance now and again if you want to, or get your abs ripped to shreds for a summer, if you’re willing to put in the sweat and pain to do that. (You can’t keep it indefinitely, and you shouldn’t try - it isn’t healthy.) If that’s what you like, that’s part of who you are. But don’t expect every female to automatically be attracted to that - just like you’re not attracted to every female.

I AM happy to see you coming into the ladies’ forum (even if it did get moved) to ask us what we like. That shows maturity and understanding. If you respectfully ask for opinions from us, we’ll happily give it - each and every one of us. :wink:

I Am just now getting back into beach shape. Have let myself get fat 7% body fat. Gotta cut to like 3-5.

:open_mouth:

:smiley: :wink:

Bella

:open_mouth: Whoa, you really let yourself goooooooo… :stuck_out_tongue:

Bella

Jabez, FWIW, I used to be an ACE certified personal trainer, and a male getting cut down to 3-5% body fat is DANGEROUS. At that percentage, you are at the level of essential body fat required TO SURVIVE. The leanest male athletes typically compete at 6-13% body fat. YOU DO NOT need to lose weight if your current BFP is 7%. If you think you do, I strongly urge you to see a counselor, because your body image is dangerously skewed.

Ummm yeah I’m with Boudicca on this one. For the most part at 7% bodyfat you should be able to see very clear muscle separation (defined abs etc) and possibly even a little striation in certain area’s.

3% bodyfat is like where pro bodybuilders compete at, and even they know that that’s not a healthy level to maintain year long. They cut down to that level to peak for a single nights competition and then eat like a horse for 6-9 months until the next show. Look at the averages for various athletes…

Baseball 12-15%
Basketball 6-12%
Football (backs) 9-12%
Since the winner of the decathlon is considered the worlds greatest athlete I’ll include…
High Jumpers/Long Jumpers 7-12%
Sprinters 8-10%
Swimmers (who along with divers seem to have the build that makes most women swoon) 9-12%
Even body builders on average measure about 5-8%

Now…if you stay on the low end of each of these ranges and divide by the number of sports listed, you come out with an average bodyfat % of 8. Which means that at 8% body fat you would look very athletic.
The ideal average for men below the age of 30 is 9-15% so at 7% you’re already cut more than the average HEALTHY guy. In fact unless you’re a male stripper, professional model of competitive athlete with a college scholarship or million dollar contract on the line going lower than 7% bodyfat doesn’t make sense.

Jabez, I reread my above comment and thought I should clarify because you might misconstrue it for encouragement. I just want to confirm that I was being facetious. :slight_smile: You most certainly don’t need to loose any more body fat. Why are you doing it? Are you competing professionally?

Bella