This girl used to talk to me like crazy. I’m going to college w/ her, and haven’t met her officially yet. She’s in half my classes.
She used to say how we were gonna be best friends and made all these plans with me. Then, this other guy came along, and now she talks to him ALL the time, and never talks to me. I’m just playing like I don’t care.
She’s playing the game. Whenever I ask her a simple question, she acts all friendly and like she’s my best friend, but she still talks to that guy over me.
Like I said in other forums, I don’t care because I am actually starting to talk to another girl who is even more attractive than her.
The girl texted me today, and wants me to go on iChat video to help her with her textbooks. It seems the only time she wants to talk to me is if she needs something.
I don’t want to burn bridges, (she’s in half my classes after all) but I kinda don’t want her to think that I’m just her “go to” guy when she needs something. What do I do?
I think this woman is trying to turn you into an orbiter. (That is, you move around her but never get to touch her!)
I once heard someone saying the “Five Laws of Masculine Power”. I forget them, but one was “Don’t do anything that you don’t want to do, or that you wouldn’t normally do, just so someone will like you.” So help this woman with her textbooks or whatever, but only if you want to and ONLY if she contributes in some way. E.g. “I can’t do iChat, but I’ll meet you at Starbuck’s - and YOU’RE paying for the coffee!”
And by the way, how can you talk to someone a lot but not meet her “officially”? Reminds me of the satirical poem about two Englishmen who were shipwrecked on a desert island together, with no-one else on the island, but wouldn’t talk to each other because they hadn’t been introduced… 
HAHAHAHA
She lives in NY, I’m in PA, 3 hrs. apart. She added me on facebook and started talking to me.
I’m not tryna help her, but not that I don’t WANT to, I just don’t want her to feel in control.
If I have one strength w/ girls, it’s that I refuse to become their doormat. I ain’t whipped for anybody.