hey i am 15 years old and this is the second time this has happened to me 
ok well first i will tell you whats happening in my life atm.
Bestfriend - Abby
Boyfriend of Abby - Zach
ME - me
Well i recently bouht the product Instant Shine and Instant Openness.
But the story starts like this…There is this girl i really like, but just happens to be one of my best friends(Abby) and she has a boyfriend(zach) who is a complete ass. I say he is an ass becasue he used to hate me in the begining of the year and try to pick on me but it never worked but we started to grow a hatred toward each other. But as soon as he started going out with Abby during the begining of the year and later broke up but 3 months ago got back together with her. During these 3 months Zach found out that i had been best friends with Abby for a while now and started to be nicer to me probably because he doesnt want to make Abby mad. But lately he has been a jerk toward he by ignoring all of her calls and texts, lying to her, and making shit excuses that he knows she will believe to cover himself. This has all been happening recently and she told me that she even thought of breaking up with him over what he was doing but since she was out of town and he was in town he made up the bullshit excuse that their phones werent connecting but i even tried to call him for her with my cell and home phone which me and her dont have the same service and i got no response. i really hate Zach because i know he is an asshole and i know that she deserves better than him but she says she wont let him go!!!
well here are my questions:
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how can i get out of the friend zone with her and into a zone where she would consider me a possiable person to date.
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Does any1 know any other products that could help with this besides the Insant Shine and the Instant Openness?
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how can i deal with her ass of a boyfriend when she doesnt want to let him go again?
4.Should i just let it go and wait to see what happens?
- kinda random but i got a sample of ammunition with my last purchace. should i wear this because o my age?
Like i said this isnt the first time this has happened. But the last time it happened i lost touch with my best friend and we bairly talk anymore . i dont want this to happen again.
Well my friend I have some bad news for you…
You’re in the “friends zone” with the girl, there are two types of people that women know. “Friends” and “Potential Mates” you sir, are in the “Friends” section. It’s OK, I was in a same situation back in my day. It’s hard to win a girl over when you’re categorized as a friend. So here’s the only way to do it.
- See her less often
- When you DO hang out with her, bring some girls along that are definitely interested in you.
- Become more physically attractive (tan, work out, whatever).
- Start having a “cool vibe” (Instant Gentlemen could help you at your age).
- Whenever she asks to hang out with you, always give a “Can’t, going out with <insert girl’s name here>. I’ll take a rain check though”
Even after doing ALL of this, it still may not work! You just have to either:
a) Forget about her. Move on, there’s plenty of women out there. Who knows, she might just be one of those girls who you have to sleep with, but once you do you’re no longer interested in.
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b) Bite the bullet and tell her how it is. Worse come to worse you make the relationship awkward, but it certainly beats sexual tension.
Doing it the first way (girls, getting more attracted, and etc) is the best way. Say something like, “Look, obviously your boyfriend is treating you like a little girl. Listen, come over to my house tomorrow and we’ll go out and have an afternoon together with me and some of the girls.” Make sure you TELL the girl what to do, rather than ask. Just be yourself and be completely honest with her (Instant Honesty hah!) The WORST possible conclusion is that she says, “no”. Is it a lot of work? Yes, but do you like her enough for it? Well, that’s your answer…personally I don’t think any girls is worth that much, I’ve been down that road before and have learned my lesson. From my mistakes, I became a better, happier, man. 
But don’t listen to me, I’m just an old geezer compared to you. 
I’m going to have to agree here. Over the course of my life I have had many female friends who I never became romantically involved with. One came very close - to the point of actually being sat on her bed and ready…however, we both agreed that it was probably best if we didn’t. That was a great decision. She’d be the type of friend who I went to functions with as a couple when we were both between relationships, but with the understanding that we were not “dating”. Funnily enough, she’d often (and I mean “always”) run over to me and kiss me if she saw me chatting intimately with a girl. I talked to her, and it was quite unconscious of her. No agenda etc.
Anyway, my point is that you will have two types of girlfriend in your life. Girlfriends, and Girl-Friends. Don’t confuse the two. Don’t potentially ruin a great friendship for a roll in the hay.
I still am in contact with some of my girl-friends from twenty-five plus years ago. They are dear friends and my life is so much better for their presence. I cannot say the same for old girlfriends…
If this friend is “the one” - and without being condescending I don’t believe she is (given your age) - then go for it, and live happily ever after.
Or date her, and have her become an ex-girlfriend and disappear from your life. I’d personally want to keep a good friend. I was about fifteen when I met Liz (the girl mentioned above), and I still adore her today (but I haven’t seen her in a few years). I’m 42 now, so that counts as a great friendship.
Just think where your priorities are.