Not this time, baby

OR, ask her what’s up.

Still … it took me the longest to learn that ‘I WANT A MAN THAT CAN COMMUNICATES,’ for lots of women, means ‘I WANT A MAN TO TELL ME EVERYTHING THAT’S ON HIS MIND, WHILE I TELL HIM ZERO TO NOTHING.’ :smiley:

Guessing and wondering at what’s going on in the mind of another, leads to ugliness and gray hair. :wink: Just hope that she communicates well, and tells you the truth. :roll_eyes:

Everything is fine. I’d heard from a mutual friend that she might be dating some guy so I understood this could be a night without confusion. And it pretty much was. Usually is when she’s in a relationship, she is classy so cheating would never occur. I wouldn’t let it happen neither, as it would certainly come back and bite us both in the ass later on.

We drank a lot, laughed a lot and then went out to a bar around midnight. At that point she told me about her boyfriend and I said I’d heard she had one. Everything was fine except that she soon started talking about how she didn’t believe in the relationship and wondered whether we’d make a good match. I said that’s something we might find out sometime in the future. Or not. Right now she’s in a relationship so it’s not an issue at the moment.

When we got back to her place I went for the couch to go to sleep. She sat on the floor beside me still going on about her doubts regarding her boyfriend. It was starting to piss me off a little so I told her that was between her and him. If she decides to kick him out, fine. We’ll see what happens or doesn’t happen between us then. After a while she went to bed.

Everything was fine the next morning. No awkwardness, at least I had none and I saw none in her. We watched youtube videos and stuff until 5 PM, then I felt I could drive home.

Oh, and I used two drops of A314, two sprays of Ammo and two sprays of IH.

I think it was admirable for you to leave little room for games knowing the possibilities. You protected her reputation and did what was right even when you could have decided for her what she should do. Instead you decided to make a firm decision on your own boundaries. You chose “truth” over physical pleasure. If she wasn’t in love before, I’m sure she will be now.

Thanks for the kind words. Thing here is that I’m not in love. Had I been, I’d certainly be trying hard to win her. Like I’ve been saying, I like her in every way and that could possibly become something more. Then again it might not. She knows she definately shouldn’t end her relationship because of me.

This all probably sounds more fucked up than I perceive it. :smiley: It’s not a thing that keeps me awake at night.

It has always been my belief that if a woman is giving you mixed signals she is really not interested. When a woman has a high interest level in you then you will know it. Her feeling that you find her desirable boosts her ego and self-esteem. Don’t let her wrap you around her finger. Say " we really would’nt make a good couple" Watch her reaction.

I met this lady and - for the first time - her boyfriend a couple of days ago.

Instant bromance. What a fucking guy. Obviously she’s been telling tales about my adventures. I’ve had plenty of absurd shit happen to me, I just wind up in crazy situations and this woman has been around to witness many of them. The guy had been thinking I was some made up character from a book or something and seemed truly happy to meet me in the flesh.

He on the otherhand is an absolute genious musician and I had to bite my tongue so it wouldn’t go licking his ass too much. I only complimented a few details on his bands latest record and he was very glad that I pointed out the things he was most proud of.

I truly hope they stay together. He’s the best guy I’ve ever seen her with and she’s the best damn woman I’ve ever known.