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[Eldros]

@tisha23

Hey did you get the homework assignment from Mr SHakaka’s class. This may seem like a a normal school type question not really caused by Instant Openness.

You Say sure here and then close off. They may feel chatty but you dont look open to chatting

Or say sure I have it, Mr shakaka is such a dick head isnt he ??? . This is when your Instant Openness will start to kick in most times. They have been standing near you for a few minutes and it has time to register and your open to conversation. Asking a question is important. Now you may say well thats me not the Instant Openness. You may have started them talking but the Instant Openness will help keep them talking and make it easier for both of you.

Looking for cues, Girls and guys in your age group havnt mastered the cues yet. Excessive giggling means they like you. Turning her back to you the minute she sees you walking by is a cue example…

Suppose your walking down the hall and there are two girls you think may have a interest in you standing down at the end of the hall. We travel in packs

The one who rapidly turns her back to you is the one who likes you. She is in the process of saying to her friend

Oh my Gawd, here he comes, he is so cute, is he looking at me, what is he doing, is he still coming, dont look right at him. Oh my gawd I am gonna die.

Then as you pass. She will give you a slight glance. You Walk right by and smile and wink. Suppose they just say HI Assetttt. At your age hun thats a hit. Her and her friend then go into a new tirad after you pass of …

Oh I think he likes you, do you think he likes me, he is so cute, he looked at me. Then she go’s home and writes your name like 2000 times on the inside cover of her notebook with little hearts around it. Calls her friend and asks her to find out if asset likes me in school tomorrow. LOL This is going on every day in high schools all across the country.

Point of my story is be observant. While your busy checking out the hot cheerleader with the short skirt there are other girls out there checking you out. Look for the cues. The giggle, the quick glance, the back turn when with there friends, The long drawn out Hiiii Asssettt. At around 15 girls still get effected by pheromones but they wont always react to it like you read the older women do here in the forum. They just dont have the experience yet. Does this mean you shouldnt use pheromones till your older. Not necessarily.

Just so you know, I have a big box up in my attic with a few notebooks from high school in them. They have little hearts and my husbands name written a million times. At 15 he didnt know I was alive even though we hung around with the same people.

There we have it, the life story of our most beloved tisha.

As for this ‘cues’ thingy, yeah, you really should try to learn to ID these things. I know that there are a few good posts that have lists of what you should look for in a lady’s actions. Lemme dig em up for you. The most important advantage this knowledge give you (or me at least >:D) is calling them out when they do something, but I don’t do it so that everyone in the room hears, lol, then I’d be an ass. This is useful cause it’s a good conversations starter (for me at least) and it shows them something about you; you’re a learned guy.

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My favorite topic would prolly have to do something with here eyes. Make and keep eye contact whenever talking, but don’t oogle. Comment on her eyes; color, difference of color, uniqueness, what it makes you feel, etc. And whenever some of her hair is hanging over her forehead, I’ll brush it to the side (this one knocks em dead for some reason, anyone got an explanation?).