hi everyone! i’m a newbie… haven’t even placed my first order yet!
i’ve got two reasons that i want to use pheros, and a few questions about which would be better for what (and if there are any dangers for mixing up the messages!).
first of all, my boss is a woman and we work in an almost entirely female office (there’s one guy, but he’s free lance and isn’t always here). she’s incredibly passionate, but over sensitive and often REALLY stressed out. there’s no way to calm her down or make her stop freaking out and listen when she gets like this, and i really want to make the office environment better. she also has a hard time trusting herself that she hired me because i can do things that she should trust me to be able to do on my own-- i really would like for her to calm down. what pheros would you suggest?
second, i have a target guy who has a bit of a problem… little background: he was my professor when i was in graduate school, but i’ve since graduated. he’s going through a messy, long, drawn-out split with his wife, and i really want to get him out and have fun with him. i’m not looking for him to be my boyfriend, but he’s totally tortured about being attracted to me, and we go out, but then it’s all “resisting temptation” and what not. i want him to stop resisting temptation and to not feel guilty about it. i was thinking of throwing in a safari and/or instant shine with instant sexiness? would that work?
finally, if i’m meeting up with him after work, will my boss directed pheros conflict with any boy directed pheros? should i not mix? will instant sexiness bomb in my entirely female office? will safari distract from my ability to pay attention?
alright, that’s more than enough first timer questions. looking forward to your responses, everyone!
I suggest Instant Female Magic for your boss and MX140 from the sunshine series and Shine. This will make her calm and feel good. Spray the Female Magic on her chair but only if you can get away with it without getting caught. If not wearing it will work just as well.
By the time you leave work to hang out with your TG most of you pheromones will have worn off. The sprays last about 4 to 6 hours for me unless its really hot and then its 3 to 4 hours. So they shouldnt cause a problem with your TG. Instant Female Magic makes some guys depressed from what I read in reports in the mens forum.
For getting him out and having fun Get MX135 and MX140 both happy feel good pheromones
For other things you want to do try Lust after me or get your hands on a bottle of EOW from Love scent. Read the stickies at the top of womens forum to learn how to use EOW.
Instant sexiness is also a good choice and will work good at work as well as when your out. I have never had trouble wearing it at work. Safari is a mens product and I have never used it. A few girls have but you should be experienced and know how to mix it with others things I wouldnt start out with it.
Also when you first get your products try them out one at a time for a few days so you get the feel for what they do.
For the guy, it sounds like his limbic system is already interested in you. His frontal cortex has these little inhibitory axons dangling down into the limbic system that inhibit responses. You need to deal with the thinking cortex and the inhibitions. You can take a several approaches.
1 - Increase the stimulations that are currently being inhibited by wearing explicitly sexual pheromones. I wouldn’t recommend this. It can work but if it does he’ll probably feel guilty. You run the risk of his thinking cortex deciding to just remove himself from the difficult-to-inhibit stimulus.
2 - Depress the cortical inhibitory activity. Alcohol does this. Numerous other drugs do also.
3 - Approach indirectly through the limbic system. Use pheromones like IO or IS to create limbic responses that are not being actively inhibited. This will give you increasing contact time and that may lead to gradual erosion of the inhibitory responses. I think this is the most promising approach.
On possible conflicts between pheromones used for your two objectives, IFM has depressing effects on some guys.
Thanks so much to all who replied… guess i’ll be putting in an order for Instant Openness (i got everything else earlier today-- have to overnight the stuff for the boss lady, as the situation is spiraling out of control). Would Instant Honesty do anything for my target guy? He’s pretty honest with how he feels, but would it have the sort of “work around” effect that Instant Openness would, too?