I did have a fleeting moment when making my original post that it is possible the post could be taken as just a little bit offensive to at least some women which I do apologise for, though Tisha you dont seem offended you’re just giving your honest and appreciated feedback
I absolutely do see alot of worth in women regardless of whether or not they have sex with me
That said sometimes I gotta take care of business and that means an effective way for me to have sex and currently as I am under alot of stress I am not willing to undergo “work” for it, which is not really to reflect in the value part of it
But rather what I am trying to capture is those times when you and the women simply really enjoy eachothers company…and have sex 
Thanks for the excellent advice Tisha
Most interesting to me was how you said "
Women sense someone that arouses us, we entice him, we develop a connection to him (because we are more emotion driven) then we act on that arousal."
I’ve been looking at the male and female sexual processes for a long time because it seems god gave us some interesting differences there
20 minutes is also ok, in fact if I genuinely really enjoy the womans company then the whole night and no sex is also ok
Well I did accomplish that 5 minute goal with a lady who wasnt a hooker, also 10 minutes to sex, 30 minutes to sex, 1 hour etc. So what can I say, already done it with women who werent hookers, so it therefore cannot be required that they be hookers 
That said thanks for the second part of your great advice, regarding initially having a social sexual mix, and after you and her have enough comfort with eachother and good rapport, then you hit her with some P83 and TUTH
In my mind that kind of system would really work well
In fact I’m going to divide this into two tracks, the insta-sex, which may not be all that realistic, or track two just going for a social sexy mix and vibing with some women and after we’ve been hanging out together for long enough (that night) spray on an IS top-up, some TUTH and P83. I was going to make a separate thread about that
I was going to start another thread about the best way to bring your topup pheromones with you (as I suspect I would like to be able to re-apply IS, TUTH and P83, but 3 ToGos in my pocket could be annoying)
I have to be honest, I really really liked it those times when super hot women would just have sex with me, really quickly, with no effort on my part, and just enjoyment all the way through. and I really do remember them very fondly
For whatever reason at stages in my life I do all the whole chasing thing, including chasing a marriage-interest woman for a VERY long time, but usually I dont really like doing all that chasing stuff, I like them to chase me instead 
I try to give women self worth based on things I find really interesting about them, or if I know her better, based on things that I really think are valuable in her, most recently I met a woman who was really intelligent which I complimented her about
So far I’ve learnt I really should be putting IH in my mix, because building a good connection with the woman is really important right?
TUTH + IH + P83 is really interesting as thats sex, + connection, + disinhibition
Thinking back to the times when I did fast SNL, I was indeed master of the connection, and able to intuitively and immediately speed through the dance with amazing connectivity
Ammo + IS + P83 + IH + TUTH <– That is now what I am thinking of wearing
1spray TUTH
1spray Ammo
around 30mcg of P83 (possibly upto 45mcg)
I guess a double dose of IH would be good
and my old favorite, 4 sprays of double-strength IS… I know, I always overdo the IS lol
Then as for the pheromones I take with my to re-apply in the club, I want my old favorite IS, plus TUTH and P83, but now im thinking I need IH too lol
I really gotta work out how to premix some stuff so I only have to carry two ToGo bottles
Mobocaster that is interesting to see the A314 + TUTH strike again, the clubs I go to are mainly the 18-25 crowd though, as I am aware that is abit different than mixes that hit mostly 30+
Thanks ppl, I’ve got afew things to think about!!