So I'm dating a porn star....Seeking some advice...

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So I have been wearing mones for about 6 months now (I registered here 3 years ago but was never a serious user of them) and am a true believer. I wear A314, Shine, Ammo, IH, and IO when I go out, and love it.

I recently went to an appearance for an adult actress there whom I’ve admired for some time. I brought my “A game” and wore the mones and was able to get this girls number and start developing a relationship with her the last two weeks. She is (needless to say) a girl whose had a rough life in some respects, and has had very few relationships according to her friends and her .

The A314 is DEFINITELY hitting and she sent me a text yesterday saying, “I love the way you smell… is that creepy?”.

Now, my Mones recipe is purely based on my friend’s recipe and I believe that deviation is the devil.

SO – My question moving forward is how do I “keep the recipe strong” and hang onto this catch? Any advice is appreciated.
I am curious to hear stories of people who stopped wearing mones for periods of time around girls they hooked with them, or changed things, or made it even better etc etc

I usually do:

x4 IH
x2 IO
x2 A314
x2 AMMO
x3 SHINE

Thanks guys! (And please don’t ask who she is - but I can say she’s in CNBC’s Top Adult Stars list every year).

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Who is she???

Damnit. I tried, I really did…

Seriously though, I’m with you. I wouldn’t share such info if I found myself in your shoes.

I think now that you’ve developed the relationship with her to the point where you’re talking and sharing, you can remove IO all together. Give it a week like that and see how she reacts. That’s the one social I think I’d do away with all together.

To hang onto the catch, I’d work on transitioning to a Fallout mix. Keep the a314 and IH and bring in p74. The IH and p74 will create the boyfriend/crushy vibe, but to keep it from becoming too beta, introduce p75.

Monesmadedoit has been doing a lot of fallout research, and im just regurgitating what he’s posted a bunch of times. Check out his threads and posts and I’m sure you can glean even more great info…

Good luck, have fun!

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Thanks for the tips bro!
Just a few questions…

  1. What do you mean by “too beta”?
  2. In a nutshell, what’s the goal / difference of P74 / P75.
    I’ve never used anything but the stuff I have now because it’s so good.

Thanks again.

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Alpha vs. Beta

In a nutshell, the Alpha male is the one in charge, he doesn’t just act in charge, he IS in charge. His general demeanor is one of confidence and demands a level of respect.

Beta’s are the guys who tag along, the ones that will sit in a corner holding up a bar, the ones who always have an excuse why they can’t or won’t do something. They’ll drop their eyes and back away at the first sign of confrontation.

The best comparison I can think of is Fight Club: Think Brad Pitt vs. Edward Norton portrayal of Tyler Durden.

Here’s a good write up with some good examples

Alpha Male & Beta Male Traits - Know the Difference

and a funny/cheesy video comparing the two

Alpha Male vs Beta Male - YouTube

P 74:

Empathy on women, attention, boyfriend and cool guy effect. Self effects are smooth and chill.

P75:

The strongest attraction getter out there. For guys it’s a deterrent, it has an extreme aggressive physical energy. Especially with the right buffers (P96 or example), women love it. Superb attraction, extreme space reducing and kino. This stuff makes women much more forward and upbeat.

Use the “Search” button and read up on Fallout, p74, p75, and keep an eye out from posts from monesmadedoit. He’s been saying for awhile now that if AD would just make a mix of IH, 74, and 75, we’d have a real gem on our hands.

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Ahhhh of coruse. Sorry, thought it was a specific phero effect. Thx again.

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Well in a sense it IS a phero effect. too much p74 can give off the vibe that you’re a beta. You’re best friend material, so it’s too soft to use on its own for very long, which is why it needs something stronger to steer it.

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I have hooked up with girls who are in such industry. You are wasting your time if you are truly interested in “dating” such a girl or impressing her.

All the pheromones in the world and “A” game are not going to save you from her issues. Enjoy the sex while you can..maybe wear the pheromones to intrigue her a bit more and keep it fresh for a bit.

It will wear thin quick,expect it. Don’t beat yourself up when she moves on.

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Preeeeeeaaaaach. Amen.

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Well, I can see that happening if you’re the same as every other guy that’s come along… Enjoying the sex and treating her for the novelty item she is.

However, I’m convinced every girl, regardless of issues, regardless of profession, still has the means to fall for the right guy if he’s the right fit. You just have to figure out what that is…

I say go for it, aim high. What’ve you got to lose?

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Aim high LOL i would say thats just the opposite. To each his/her own though.

You dont deviate from the formula if its working for you. To keep it “fresh” so to speak you would deviate from the typical dosage you use.

So here is your combo

x4 IH
x2 IO
x2 A314
x2 AMMO
x3 SHINE

Now suppose your going out to do something fun and want to send a more playful vibe. lower IH increase IO and Ishine. leave the rest the same

Want a more sexy intimate night… Up the Ammo by one lower A314. Leave the social to buffer the extra anone maybe trade out 1 spray of IO for another IH

This will produce the same signals just in differing degrees much like the signals we send that match our natural moods. The identifiers are the same but the signalers vary according to our moods and personality.

Tisha

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My advice, walk away. Her job will breed contempt and jealousy in you and make you rather miserable.

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She doesn’t do B/G scenes now, and she’s been nothing but good to me so far.
So I don’t want to “walk away” at all and she deserves a fair shake like anyone else.

I’m a very Conservative Republican guy, but in my opinion, if you are willing to WATCH porn, then you should also be willing to respect the people in porn. If not, then don’t watch it, etc.

Thanks all for the tips on mones recipes - I’ll definitely keep this stuff in mind. Anyone else with additional thoughts please feel free to share…

Enjoy your weekend everyone.

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No one said disrespect people in porn. However, sex is a job to her as a part of that job you must be 100% emotionally distant. People will recognize her in public if she’s done anything that even a small audience has scene. They will come up, they will hit on her, they will say inappropriate things regardless of if you are standing with her or not. One of my best friends is in the industry, her fiance has avoided assault charges multiple times by pure luck after beating in the face of people that come up to her in public (walmart, parking lots, you name it). Over the years (almost a decade) he’s gone from being a good guy to attacking verbally or physically any male that as much as like’s a fb post of hers on her fan page. They have a child together, people are always coming up to them in public “oh yeah you are that girl from cum guzzler donkey ass fuckers 77!”.

I’m trying to save you a lot of internal termoil from seeing it in a dear friend’s life. Eventually the nostalgia of dating a porn star is going to wear off and you’ll start obsessing about the number of men and/or women she’s had sex with, it will eat you up.

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I know you’re right, but I can’t put the brakes on now - I simply will not let myself…

I always become very emotionally wrapped up in any girl, and this girl is so “interesting” to me that it’s even more powerful. Honestly, I don’t care if people “know she’s a porn star”. I’ve already encountered that with her at dinner… most people don’t have the guts to say anything and I guess I’m a little of a sick bastard because I honestly find it attractive to know a women has been with so many guys and I am “competing” with them. I am a VERY competitive individual in business, sports, and women.

Additional thoughts are very welcome guys!

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Lucky guy! Pheros helped me catch my wife. Happily married for 3 years and easily the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I wore Ammo + IS and TUTH once we’d been on a few dates. TUTH, when timed right, is absolutely amazing. I’ve since moved on to A314 + IH for work, with a little P91 for the right occasions.

My advice is to move forward and give it 100%, if you’re not afraid to get your heart broken. I could name a number of adult actors that have moved on from the industry and lead respectable and normal lifestyles. Its not the norm, but it certainly could happen.

Go get 'em!

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I could say something on the topic, but it would be filtered out because it doesn’t support your plan of action . Just remember to learn from this. And wear a rubber.