This report consists of 4 days worht of testing, last weekend and this weekend, all nights at Cape Buffalo.
Mix worn Last Friday:
2 drops FPPX2
4 sprays ICM 0.25.1b
I had IOI’s from 3 girls all night. 2 were from girls that were there with guys though.
The first girl had come up to the bar to get a drink and started talking to me. We seemed to be hitting it off somewhat, then a guy walks up and looks at me kind of funny. The girl introduces him and I reach out to shake his hand. Instead he ignores me and leans over and kisses her, then kind of dragged her off.
Next another girl comes up to the bar and asks if she can slide in to get a drink. I make room for her and she reaches over, puts her hand on my arm and asks my name. We talk while she is waiting on the bartender, and she stuck around talking for a few minutes after getting her drink. Then she says “Well, we’re playing shuffleboard if you get bored you should come over” and she walked off. I looked over at the shuffleboard a little later and she was clearly with a guy.
A while later the first girl comes back over and tells me that the guy she’s with is a blind date and asks what I think of him. She said she wanted an honest answer, so I told her that he came accross to me as a wannabe Alpha. She didn’t know what that meant and asked if I was talking about a fraternity. I told her no, and that what I meant was that he didn’t seem to like her talking to me and seemed to feel the need to prove that she was with him. I said that I felt that showed a lack of confidence and self-assuredness. She said well OK thanks, bummed a cigarette from me and said she’d see me later.
About 10 minutes or so after that the club manager comes up to me and tells me that he had a complaint that I was hitting on a girl. I asked him who and he told me that he wouldn’t say. I responded by telling him that I’d only talked to 2 girls, both of whom started talking to me first and that I didn’t hit on either one. He said that he wasn’t going to discuss it any further, but that I need to leave the girls that were taken alone. That suggested to me that it was either the wannabe Alpha. Although I guess it also could have been that the girl decided that she didn’t like what I had to say about him.
Around midnight or so, the shuffleboard girl and her guy come up to the bar to close their tab and the girl puts her hand on my back and says she is leaving, then asks if I’ll be there next weekend. I told her I would and she said she’d see me then and said goodbye. I took notice that she didn’t say we’re leaving, but instead said I’m leaving, and kind of wondered whetehr they were actually together or not.
Anyway, last hit was toward the near of the night and I had moved over to a spot closer to the stage to watch the band play their last set of the night. There were 2 girls several feet away and I had noticed one of them glanicing over at me a good bit, so I decided to go over and talk to her. We ended up dancing to a couple of songs and hanging out till the band quit and they were ready to leave. I probably could have got a phone number but just let it drop and gave her a hug and said goodnight.
Last Saturday nights mix:
2 drops of A314
2 drops of Raw Power
2 drops of FPPX oil
2 sprays of ICM 0.25.1b
I got a couple of IOI’s, one of them came from a girl that is there all the time, but who I have absolutely no interest in and who has never shown any interest in me. That night she was standing next to me the bar and kept bumping into me over-and-over. I had moved over several times and everytime within a minute she was right on me again. She was there with another girl and the space between them kept increasing. I made no effort to talk to her or even acknowledge her, and finally ended up moving to another spot, close to a cute girl who I had been making a bit of eye contact with.
I started talking to her and it turned out that she was waiting on some friends to show up. While we were talking I noticed her playing with her hair a good bit and making an effort to show off her chest, as she had kind of turned toward me and was sort of leaning forward. Anyway, her friends eventually showed up and they took off to get a table.
There was another girl who was there with a guy sitting several feet away from me, and I noticed the girl kept looking over and smiling at me. They were clearly a couple, but I got the impression that the guy was far more into her than she was into him. At one point she got up to use the restroom. It was pretty crowded and was a tight squeeze for her to pass by, but as she did she had to kind of turn sidways to get past and she glided her chest up against me and put her hand on my leg. Definitely a bit more than she needed to do to get by me.
And that was about it for that night.
This Fridays mix:
3 sprays of ICM 0.25.1a
3 sprays of ICM 0.25.1b
I got to the club and took up a spot at the bar. It was pretty slow, I guess cause it was Thanksgiving weekend.
Anyway, there were 2 girls sitting with a guy several feet away, and I noticed that both girls were clancing over at me a decent bit. I probably should have gone over and talked to them, but the guy was acting like he was with both of them, and I just wasn’t much in the mood anyway.
I was there for maybe a half hour and I felt a nasty sinus headache coming on, so I just called it a night and went home.
So, absolutely nothing to report for the night.
This Saturday’s mix:
2 drops of A314
2 drops of Raw Power
2 sprays of FPPX2
3 sprays of ICM 0.25.1b
I got to the club and took up a spot at the bar. I noticed a really cute girl walk up to the bar several feet away and was making a decnt bit of eye contact with her. I expected her to get a drink and walk away, then when she didn’t and it appeared that she was there by herself, I started to go over to her. Another guy beat me to the punch though and she started talking to him, so I passed by and used the restroom.
I came back and took up my spot. A girl came over to get a drink and I noiticed she just kept looking at me and smiling. After she got her drink she walked off, but 30 seconds later turned and came back and started talking to me. About this time the 2 girls from last week showed up and took up a spot right next to me again. The same shit started with the one girl repeatedly pushing up against me. I wasn’t really interested in the other girl either, but was paying attention to her, mainly in trying to ignore the other one. I finally just got pissed off enough that the next time she bumped into me I said “God Dammit” loud enough for her to hear. After that she backed off, then within a minute they left and grabbed a table.
I told the other girl that I was glad they were gone and that I really didn’t like that girl! She said that she thought she was my girlfriend and was jealous for me talking to her. I said not at all! About that time a couple of her friends came over and she introduced us. One of them was pretty cute and I started talking to her. The first girl says “I like Mark” and after that the cuter girl didn’t pay much attention to me. Bummer, cause I really wasn’t interested in the first girl, but could have been interested in her friend. Anyway, several more of their friends showed up, and I kind of slid over and away to give them room.
There was another cute girl that I’d seen at the club a few times before, and tonight was making a bit of eye contact with her, but before I had a chance to talk to her another guy got to her first too. 2 in a row, dammit!
Next, I noticed 4 girls sitting at a table behind me, and one of them was holding a driver’s license, which she apparantely found and was looking for whoever lost it. She had kind of a befuddled look on her face so I went over and told her that she could just give it to the girl at the door and have the DJ announce that they had the persons license at the front door. When she came back she clanced over, smiled at me and kind of nodded her head, so I took that as a cue to go talk to her.
We talked for a bit, then several guys walked in and came up to the girls. I had noticed earlier that she and the other girls were all wearing wedding rings so it was just a friendly conversation, but I was kind of looking for an excuse to walk off anyway, so when the guys came up I said hello, then told them that I’d leave them to their women and walked off.
The I went over and took up a spot on the other side of the bar where 2 more girls were standing. I had noticed a few looks from one of the girls earlier, and thought I’d go over and see I could could spark something up with them. I had barely said hello, when the girl that I wasn’t interested in from earlier but had the cute friend comes over, puts her arms around my waist and asks where I’ve been. So, the other 2 girls see this and assumed that I was with her I guess, becasue I get a drity look from them and they walk off.
I talked to her for just a minute, then told her that I was tired and was going home and I left.
So, there was lots of potential tonight, yet I got nowhere with no one, and left the club wondering what the hell’s wrong with me lately.