Fantastic! Good luck and happy trails!
Nothing phero related here, but since I’ve still got one or two friends left around here I figured I’d update on the Brazilian girl from Friday and Saturday.
I came about a blink away from buying a plane ticket and heading to Miami on Tuesday, then came to my senses and realized that she might not have had time to spend with me, or might have seen it as just a bit off the cuff. And realistically I had to much work to do anyway.
So, we’ve just talked on the phone and text messaged back and forth a bunch all week. I’ve told her I miss her a couple of times and she responds in kind. And, this afternoon I got a text from her of only 6 letters saying “U’re hot” 
Yeah that got a BIG smile oughta me!!! Then another saying that she’d be back in Dallas the first weekend in July.
So, when I realized that I couldn’t really afford to take the time away from work to go to Miami on Tuesday I ended up going to the strip club where the Filipino/Black girl works and hanging out with her all night…Well until they pulled her away and made me leave, because we were getting to close.
But, that was really nothing, I’m gonna try and stick it out with the Brazilian girl (Danielle) and see where that may go. This could actually be really good for me and force me to take things slow. I mean she is a whole Continent away, at least for now. 
Now now Mark, you’ve got more than one or two friends on here, stop negging yourself, let the rest of us have some fun 
Love the mental image of having to have a filipino dancer prised off you. Perhaps you and data should get together and hit one of the joints at the same time.
So what’s next, chill for a month with just the occasional trip to the river to keep the hand in or the life of a hermit in the short term?
keep posting, we all learn from you!
Damn, Mark, did I miss something? You’re still cool in my book.
Regarding Diamond’s suggestion… eh, well… hehe… I didn’t make any huge fanfare of it, but I’ve quit stripclubbing. I might do it as a “night out with the guys” in the future, but I quietly hung up that little aspect of my life to focus on other things. 
-D4
Yep, gonna try and chill! Something I learned a long time ago is that when I am in a relationship, whether it’s real or in my mind only, I get a lot more attention from women. Tonight at Red River was no different. I could have gone home with at least 2 girls, if I’d wanted. I didn’t!
My little Brazilian sweetie really got to me, big time! Which is really surprising, since I at least thought my defenses were on higher alert.
BTW, she wants to buy a house in Dallas too, so I gotta at least give it a chance.
Not even “S” grabbed my attention this quick, of course I realize that part of it may be that being a continent away, this is even more of a challange, and if I come back posting about some new love/like interest in the near future give me a break ok? But I really, really do want to try with Danielle and see where it leads.
I’ll post about tonights hits after I’ve got a good nights sleep.
hey Mark, don’t go into hiding too much you “bad” person you. I hope you don’t disappear, I’m sure a lot of people get good info from your journal, they just don’t make themselves known.
OK, so I went to Red river again on Thursday night, wearing…4 sprays of MX292 and 2 sprays of MX272, surprise, surprise!
It was kind of a slow night, but I had two girls hitting on me, one of them pretty damn hard!
I talked about Gina and Cece awhile back, the 2 girls that I wrote out of my life, cause they were bad news. Well, Gina showed up and I tried to ignore her but she was persistent and I finally caved and started talking to her.
She would NOT leave me alone, and kept hugging me and kissing my neck and cheeks. She asked me to dance over-and-over and I kept refusing, telling her I don’t dance, and finally telling her that I only dance with girls that I’m interested in and think I might end up having sex with! I thought that telling her that would get her to back off, but not even that worked.
There was a song that she really wanted to dance to and tried to pull me off top go dance. I refused and told her that she should go find somebody else, and she actually did!
While she was off dancing another girl that I kind of knew came over and jumped up and sat next to me. I met her several weeks ago. Several paged back I posted about meeting a girl and giving her a piggyback ride at the end of the night, this was the other girl.
Anyway, she sits next to me and starts leaning into me and being pretty flirty. A minute or 2 later Gina comes back over and I tell the other girl that she needs to protect me from her. She jumps down and starts dancing (stripper style) for me and being really touchy-feely.
Gina really doesn’t get it and takes up her spot right next to me again. So, I basically ignored her and paid attention to the other girl. She dances for a bit, then jumps back up and sits next to me and puts her arm around me, pulling me into her.
And now she’s asking me to dance too. I told her that I would dance, but that Gina had been trying to get me to dance over-and-over and I kept telling her no, and that while I really didn’t like her I just couldn’t be that mean.
She ended up telling me that she’s a dancer (read stripper). I don’t really know why she decided to tell me that, but I had kind of figured she was already.
Anyway, we hung out for most of the night and she kept showing IOI’s all night long. I’d thought about asking her if she wanted to go to breakfast at closing time, but then decided I was going to be a good boy and go home alone, and think about Daniela, (Yeah I had the name wrong before )
And another update. I think I’m gonna go broke on my cell phone bill, texting and talking to Daniela in Brazil. We’ve text back and forth over 100 times since Sunday, and talked at least once a day.
She has a cell with a New York number, but can’t text from it in Brazil. We have e-mailed back and forth a couple of times too and she’s sent me a few pics, but e-mailing just isn’t the same.
Anyone want to see the pics?
http://democomputer.com/forum_images/pics/daniela/Photo 32.jpg
http://democomputer.com/forum_images/pics/daniela/dani.jpg
http://democomputer.com/forum_images/pics/daniela/pinklips.jpg
http://democomputer.com/forum_images/pics/daniela/Dani_RR.jpg
Blowing women out when they are kissing your neck, behaving yourself when off duty strippers are giving you the come on and then you get photos like that 
I thought you were going to be taking it slow!! Sometimes you can really go off people
Yeah Mark, what is up with that comment? I count at least 4 friends … 
Whoooooo-eeee!
She certainly is HOT and EXOTIC Mark!!!
Be careful though…
She could be one of jamesbonded’s girls, “scent” over to seduce out your pheromone secrets. 
Well, if it’s my phero secrets she’s after for jamesbonded, it’s not gonna take much for her to pry them out of me. He can have them, but I’m keeping Daniela!
I need to go to Dallas. Its only a 3 hour trip from here.
And I need to go to Brazil. I actually told her that after she comes back to Dallas in July, I’ll make the next trip to Rio to see her. It would probably be cheaper than all the text messaging we’re doing. And I figure there are worse places she could live.
Anyway, on to another report:
The stripper (Misty) that protected me from Gina called me yesterday and I ended up dropping by her to see her at her club today. Sunday afternoons are absolutely dead in strip clubs in Dallas, especially since the smoking ban went into effect.
I wore, what else, 4 sprays of MX292 and 2 sprays of MX272. I got to the club and was only there a minute or 2 when Daniela started texting me, which didn’t bother me a bit because going to see Misty was just something to pass the time. I wasn’t gonna be her customer and I wasn’t interested in anything more than just spending a bit of time with her.
She was less flirtatious than she was on Thursday, probably because I had told her that I’d stop in, but not as a customer, and that I liked somebody else. And, she acted the perfect lady.
Now, there was another girl who was just a bit more on the sexual side, knowing that I was there to see Misty, and knowing that I wasn’t just going to blow Misty off and become her Customer! But, she started massaging me, rubbing my head, leaning into me and then sitting on my lap.
That type of behavior would be normal for a stripper trying to pull money from a customer, but she knew things were going nowhere with me, as I made it clear that I was only there as Misty’s friend, and while she was there Daniela and I text back and forth a couple of times.
Anyway, I hung around for maybe 2 hours then took off. But, before I left Misty asked me what I was doing tomorrow and if I wanted to get together for dinner.
So, I’m gonna have dinner with her tomorrow, and before I walked off she asked if she could give me a kiss on the cheek, so I of course turned and gave her my cheek, but as she leaned in she maneuvered herself in front of me and kisses me on the lips, then pulled away just far enough that it seemed like she was waiting to see if I’d move in for another kiss. I did not and said goodbye and went home.
I’m not looking to hookup or get involved with anyone else, but I’m not gonna sit around doing nothing till Daniela comes back in July either. Besides I got another text from her saying nothing more than “U’re Hot” while I was at the club!
I miss her!
from the trend of the last two ladies you’ve been interested in, you might want to hit up sao paulo while you’re in Brazil…
lotta beautiful women down there.
Heya, Mark. Do they still serve alcohol in the joints down there? As I’ve mentioned before, all the strip clubs up here in WA are juice bars, which limits the going to JUST seeing the girls. I mean, I’ve quit going, cut off communication with Stephany, and haven’t looked back, but chilling with a cold beer and pretending to watch some game on the tube that I’m not the least bit interested in, while having beautiful, naked women dancing in the background would be a nice way to wind down. I just have no desire to go to a strip club purely to sit there like the chump I’d been for the last couple of years. LOL.
-D4
I think you would get a very good “lay of the land” as far as your relationship with Daniela goes and see her in her element. Not to mention visit a very fun place and have a good time. Just be a little careful. The crime there can be … bad. Never experienced it myself but heard stories from friends - plus reading.
There ya go … to thumbs up on that one.
Hey Jon, We do still have liquor in the strip clubs in Texas. They can get one of 2 types of SOB (sexually oriented business) licenses: The first is for topless only clubs and allows them to sell liquor on premises. The other is full nude and they cannot sell liquor on premises, however, BYOB is allowed.
Yeah she told me the gangs are pretty bad and it can be kind of dangerous. She had been living in New York for awhile and says she’s having a hard time re-adapting.
Well I got another report, but first I’m gonna update on Daniela! We’ve cut back from 20 to 30 text messages a day to around 10 or so, cause we started IM’ing lot instead. I don’t know if I’d mentioned it or not, but she wants to be an actress and went to acting school in New York. Well, she auditioned for a part on Monday and text messaged me just a little while ago as I was taking a nap to tell me that she got the part in the movie!
OK, so on to a report from last night at Red River.
Application:
4 sprays MX292
2 sprays MX272
2.5 mcg’s P75
2 drops Raw Power
Cover scent: Djin
I got the the club and took up my usual spot. A little later 2 girls and a guy came over and sat a little ways down from me. One of the girls was clearly his girlfriend, but I noticed the other one smiling and looking over at me a lot. A while later the guy gets my attention and tells me that the girls name is somethingorother? I say hello and she looks really embarrassed and kind of slithers away, then comes back a bit later. I wasn’t much interested though so I didn’t pay much attention.
Next this girl that I see there all the time but don’t really talk to much comes up and says hello, then says that I smell really good and sits right next to me. She is nowhere near my type and I’m not at all interested in her, so I’m friendly enough toward her so she doesn’t think I’m rude, but I really didn’t show any interest at all either.
Anyway, there was another girl that came over and stood right next to me and tried to hop on on the subwoofer box, but couldn’t quite make it. She looked up at me with this really shy kind of starry eyed look and a plea for help, so I jumped down and helped her up. I could definitely tell she was into me, but wasn’t really the type of girl to make the initial opening. So, I started talking to her and I told her that she had to rescue me from the girl on the other side of me. A few minutes later she leans into me and says that she thinks the other girl likes me. I told her I knew but she wasn’t my type and that was the reason I commented that she had to rescue me. She asks me what my type is and I tell her that she’s a lot more my type than the other girl.
We end up talking for the rest of the night. She asked for my phone number so she could call me next time she came out and I gave it to her but didn’t ask for hers in return. When she was ready to leave she asked me if I could help her down, so I jumped down and took her waist to help her down. As her feet hit the floor she put her arm around me and kissed my neck, so I reciprocated by pecking her on the forehead. Oh, and she also commented that I smelled really good too.
Not bad for being out and not really looking to meet anyone.
I’ve been preaching the MX292/MX272 combo for awhile now, but adding P75 and Raw Power really ramped up the sexual effect and had even the 2 shy girls acting in a way that was probably outside their comfort zone. The other girl was older and looked quite a bit more seasoned, and was a lot more upfront about showing that she was interested.
But, I’m being a good boy, and being faithful to a girl that’s a continent away, that isn’t even my girlfriend at this point, and who I haven’t slept with. Patience is a virtue right? Can infatuation carry through till July when she comes back? I guess we’ll see, but I’m gonna try.
I know it’s been awhile since I posted, so I figured I should at least step in and update.
I’ve been going out and wearing my pheros, still playing around with the MX292, MX272, P75 but have pretty much starting leaving Raw Power out.
I have been getting hits, although nothing over the top spectacular.
And you know what? I could care less, cause I’m still talking/texting/chatting with my little Brazilian sweetie every day and I’m perfectly content in keeping it going and seeing where it leads.
Funny, but I’ve never had a relationship that grew out of a friendship, and guess I’ve never really become true friends with an of my ex’s. With her, we’re building a real friendship and have already become closer than I have with just about anyone else.
So, for now I’ll step in and say hi from time to time, and update here and there, but I probably won’t have much to report cause I’m not looking for anything. I’ll keep playing with my pheros, but unless I stumble across some killer combo or get an over the top hit, or things go sideways with Daniela, I’ll just kinda be lurking around from time to time.