I wish you the best, man. You’ll find another woman better than her in the near future. 
So just a bit more of an update:
I guess getting over Daniela’s gonna be just a little easier than I thought, cause we did exchange another e-mail or 2 and she basically just said that she never promised me anything, that I shouldn’t have been upset about her ignoring me, and told me that she didn’t know what to tell me. Very cold!
I’d given her several opportunities after she returned from Angola to tell me that things were over between us, cause her attitude toward me had clearly changed, but instead of saying something to let me know that we were through she would say things to keep me hanging on: Like when I’d stopped texting her “just because” texts, then she messages me to tell me that she misses them. So I start sending them again, only to have them ignored and get nothing back from her. WTF?
I’m assuming that the story that hit last month about her and Ronaldinho being an item was true, and she figured that she’d keep me hanging on just in case things didn’t work out. Or at least keep me on the sidelines until I decided enough was enough.
Next note, Biata the stripper stood me up on Thursday again. Any surprise there? I called, she didn’t answer. I left a message, then text her a couple of hours later. She ignored both. I had even messaged her on Wednesday to ask her if we were still on for tomorrow and she said that we were. Another WTF? Anyway, she’s now deleted from my phone, and my memory.
So, I went to Red River alone and had a pretty good night, and of course met another girl. I’ll do a report on that later today or tomorrow.
Mark you find new girls quicker than anyone I’ve ever seen. Keep it up man.
So Thursday night at Red River:
Application:
4 sprays MX292
7.5 mcg’s TAK
3 sprays Instant Gentleman
2.5 mcg’s P75
Obsession Night for cover scent
I get to the club and take up my usual spot. There are 2 unattractive women several feet to the left of me, and 5 or 10 minutes later one of them left to get drinks or something, then comes back and stands right next to me, and her friend ended up having to slide closer to her. For the next hour or so she kept brushing into me, playing with her hair and doing just about everything she could top get my attention. I just wasn’t interested though.
Another couple of pretty huge women come over and stand on my other side, and I’m noticing that they seem to be looking my way quite a bit and acting rather fidgety.
A couple of women that I did know come over. One of them I’ve known for awhile, and they other we both just met last week. The one that I knew stands between my legs when the band comes on and is acting like my girlfriend. The other one took up a seat right next to me and I catch her looking at me a good bit too. But, she’s married!
The was a girl that was pretty cute standing behind me on the back side of the subwoofer box I was sitting on. Well, she hops up, takes her shoes off and props her legs up. I look back at her and say “So are you all comfy now, or do you want a pillow too” She smiles and says she’ll take a pillow if I have one, which of course I don’t. We end up talking for a minute or two, and she tells me that she’s really not high maintenance and that she’s actually a cowgirl who grew up in Oklahoma, then the band comes on and the conversation stops, so I turn back around and watch them play.
I did notice something that I couldn’t help but laugh at, and that was a really cute girl walks past me holding hands with her boyfriend, but as she passes her head literally snaps back to look at me and she catches my eye, and holds it for a good second or 2, as her boyfriend is pulling her along.
After the set I look back and the girl that was behind me is walking off with her friends. Awhile later they come back and she jumps back up Odin the subwoofer box and gets comfy again, so I look at her and ask “So, all comfy again princess?” She gets a pouty look on her face and acts that she’s offended, then hits me in the arm (but in a playful way) and says “I’m not a princess!” I said I know that, you’re a cowgirl, but I was joking and that was supposed to put a smile on your face, then put a little frown on myself.
So, she slide forward and sits on my side, right up against me and says “So what’s your story, are you married, got a girlfriend?” I tell her I’m divorced, had a girlfriend, but as of Monday I’m single again. And, for the rest of the night, at least until her and her friends left, we talked. At one point another girl I know comes over and sits next to me. This girl does like me, well me and everybody else, cause she’s desperately looking for a boyfriend, but she’s about the most homely girl you’ve ever seen and I have absolutely no interest whatsoever.
Anyway, the other girl starts backing off a bit, so I tell her that she’s got to rescue me. She says “Well, I don;t have a boyfriend, but I guess I can pretend”. I was hoping the other girl would leave, but she just kept hanging around.
Anyway, the cute one jumps down and I ask her where she thinks she’s going. She says they’re leaving, then turns around and gives me a big hug and a kiss, and asks if I’m going to be there Saturday. I told her I was and she tells me that she’s going to try to make it too, but if not she’ll see me next week. I thought about asking for her number, but didn’t.
Observations:
The MX292 seems to work better without the added MX272 I’d been using in a nightclub setting, or any setting where you’re looking to meet new people. The added MX272 works wonders on girls that you already know though.
The added P75 and TAK I’m still not sure about. The P75 may have helped a little to encourage a show of interest, but most of the interest I got wasn’t from anyone that I wanted it from, so with the exception of the girl that I did meet, I didn’t have a whole lot of interaction to see.
The TAK and Instant Gentleman I’m not all that clear on either. I’m thinking that the TAK might have helped caused the fidgeting from the women standing next to me, but again I’m not really sure.
The Instant Gentleman was worn because I wanted a bit of Rone, but didn’t really want to go with A314.
All in all, that combo seemed to generate attention mainly from older women, and I didn’t see much of anything from younger girls, with the exception of the girl that I met, who is probably in her early 30’s or so.
This isn’t a report but an update for anyone that’s interested in the situation with my former girlfriend/now roommate “S”, the Olympian.
As you’ll recall 3 days after we moved in together she told me about her one true love that she was still in love with and how she’d never love anyone as much. And, that killed the relationship.
Well, I’ve been miserable for the last 4 months. If you’ll recall, I work for myself from home, and it got so bad that I couldn’t wait till the end of the day so I could leave, get out of the apartment and away from her.
She had started a new job a week after moving in, working 2 nights a week as a hostess in a swingers club, but got fired her third week on the job. They warned her about her drinking the second week, then the following week she got so drunk that she had to be carried out of the club and driven home. And, that was the end of that job!
So, for the next month she did absolutely nothing. She stayed in her room, except to come out for food and to drink up the $300 or $400 worth of alcohol I had in my bar. She was extremely depressed and of course it was starting to affect me as well.
Then finally she seemed to cheer up a bit and started getting out, although she still wasn’t looking for a job. Apparently she found herself a new boyfriend to take care of her. She claimed that she’d known the guy for 3 years and that there was always an attraction, but they’d never acted on it because each of them was always with someone when the other was single.
They started dating and within a couple of weeks he got her a bartending job at some redneck bar that he frequented and the world seemed good again. Except, her first night on the job they fired her.
So, it was another couple of weeks of her not doing anything, and the new boyfriend didn’t seem to be going all that well. He wanted her to move in with him, which I of course whole heartedly encouraged, but she did not want to live with him. She also told me that they weren’t having sex and that she didn’t like kissing him. But, said that she really liked being with him and that he made her happy! ??? WTF
Anyway, it got to where it felt like the apartment was consumed in a dark pit of despair and depression, and was wearing really hard on me. If you haven’t already figured it out any kind of friendship between us was dead and buried and I really just wanted her gone. I suggested that it was time for her to start looking at finding a way to move out on her own.
So, going into the 4th month now, she found herself a job at a retail store in a mall, and again things improved and she was finally doing something. But, her second week on the job they called her on one of her days off and asked if she could come in to work because someone else called in sick, and she refused! So, when they wrote the next schedule her hours were slashed. But, she seems to think that they love her there and she has all kinds of opportunities for advancement. Personally, I think they saw that she wasn’t a team player and that’s why her hours got slashed and she’ll never go anywhere with them.
About the time she started that job her car broke down, so the boyfriend let her use his car for the next 3 weeks, which left him to get around on a bicycle. He ended up getting her car fixed for her to the tune of over $400.
Well, with the slashed hours she started sleeping the days away again, and the cloud of despair and depression thickened to the point that being in the apartment was making me physically ill. We had a talk last Sunday about how her sleeping all day and the depression was really getting to me and bringing me down. But that seemed to go in one ear and out the other and nothing changed all week.
She was supposed to be going to Houston for the month of August to see her family and help her mother take care of her dying grandmother, and was not going to pay any rent, because in her mind if she wasn’t here why should she have to pay rent. I was actually willing to accept that, just to have her gone.
Then she came up with a plan to save up enough money to get out on her own. She thought it would be acceptable to come back in September and pay rent for that month, but then go back to Houston in October and stay through Christmas. And, that when she came back here she would probably have enough saved to start looking for a place of her own. I told her that was not going to fly, because I couldn’t have her only paying rent for 1 out of 5 months. So she responds by saying that’s really the only thing she can think of to save up enough to move out.
Finally, by the end of the week I had absolutely had enough. Friday afternoon when she got up I told her that we needed to talk, and that she needed to be out of here before she goes to Houston, and that she should go live with her boyfriend or some other guy that she had told me was willing to let her live in his home for free. I told her that I didn’t care where she went, but she just needed to leave.
Wellll, she tells me that the boyfriend is no longer an option because they don’t talk anymore. She told me that she had a talk with him and told him that there just wasn’t any chemistry between them, and he won’t even talk to her now.
Let’s see, the guy has been giving her money for the last couple of months, let her drive his car for 3 weeks, spent $400 or $500 to fix her car, then less than a week later she dumps him!
Gee, that’s kind of familiar! There’s a word that come to mind for what she is, but so as not to offend the ladies I won’t say it.
So, now her plan is to call up one of her old customers from the Mens Club that she stopped talking to when she was dating the last guy and ask him if he will pay to put her up in a Budget Suites or some other monthly motel. Before she started dating the other guy she used to meet this guy once or twice a week, supposed just for lunch or a few drinks, and he would always give her $300 or $400 every time they met.
Gotta wonder about that, but I really could care less! I just want her gone. She turned out to be a total piece of shit and now she has 2 weeks to get out and find herself someone else to leach off of. And, one way or another she WILL be gone by then!!!
Sounds like a real leech. Good riddance.
Ugghh… I hate a mooch. Or whatever you want to call it. They not only absorb your time and money, they seem to suck the joy of life right out of you. From what you’ve stated here, I think you did the right thing by telling her to get out.
Gee, cowboy, I was gonna stop by for a martini but you’re outta vodka! 
Did she eat all the olives too? 
Bella
Oh believe me I did! Just ask Bella or Steve. I think every time I’ve talked to them over the last couple of months I’ve bitched about her.
From an Olympain who sacrificed her spot on the team rather than fighting a wounded friend, to a loser, user and alcoholic in 9 years, and thinks there’s nothing wrong with what she’s doing or how she’s living her life. It’s really a shame, but she did it to herself!
Don’t worry Bella, I’m gonna restock once she’s gone. I don’t drink hard liquor, but like to have it around for when I have someone over. Just know better than to bring anything in while she’s around.
Bummer man, that’s just a rotten situation. I’ve definitely had a couple of unreliable, cheap roomates that have stiffed me out of rent, and made my own apartment uncomfortable to live in, but I think this takes the cake.
I think that’s the best way to handle it, just tell her she needs to go.
Already done!
Did I mention that she was always sorta jealous of Danilela and made snide little remarks at every opportunity?
And, I know that I really did over react with Daniela, because I was so stressed out and on my last nerve. Yeah she is probably seeing Ronaldinho or at least seomeone, but we’re 5000 miles apart and it wasn’t like we did have any kind of commitment.
We have e-mailed back and forth a bit, and she says she wants things to go back to the way they were. I’m not really sure what she means by “The way things were”, but I wrote back and told her that I’d like us to at least stay friends, but that I wanted to leave everything alone and on hold till after the end of the month, because this has been a really bad month for me, and I wanted to start fresh in August.
We will see. Although this time around I am going to keep my guard up.
I was about to say something like that. Sounds like she’s become a delusional princess. Really sorry to hear what you’ve been going through Mark. Sounds like a few rough months for you. I hope things work out for you cause having a roommate like that can really suck the fun and life out of anything.
So on to a new report. Saturday night at Red River.
Application:
4 sprays MX292
2 drops Raw Power
2 drops A314
Covered with Zegna Intenso
I get to the club and take up my usual spot. It was a little slow when I got there, but soon it starts picking up and a couple of girls in their mid 20’s or so come over and stand near me. The one nearest me was rather heavyset, but still kind of cute. I notice her turn and look up and me, catch me eye and hold it for just a second. Then a guy walks over and joins them they walk off. Later they come back over though and I catch them both looking over at me from time to time for the rest of the time they were there.
I went outside to smoke a cigarette and when I came back in the guy that was with the 2 girls had taken my spot, putting the girls on the other side of him, but there were 2 cute girls standing on his other side, so I take up a spot next to those girls.
The one nearest me barely acknowledged my presence, but the girl on the other side of her smiled at me when I sat down, and soon both of them had hopped up and sat down too. Then the guy and the other 2 girls walked off and the girls on my other side got up and moved to take their place (it was more in the center of the stage), but in doing so, the girl that had been on the far side of me was now sitting right next to me, but on the other side.
When the band finished their set I went outside to smoke again, and ended up meeting a cute blonde outside. I nudged into her and told her to smile, and she said that she was there with some friends for one of the girls birthdays and didn’t know where they were. I jokingly told her that they all ditched her and took off. Anyway we got to talking and she told me that she’d got out of an 11 month relationship about a month ago, that the guy wasn’t very attractive, was kind of fat and wore glasses, but she had not really cared because he was funny and made her laugh.
When we finished smoking and were going back inside she invited me to join them, so of course I did. When we walked back in we went to the bar to get a drink and I figured that was as good a time as any to ask for her number, so I got it and we are supposed to go to dinner one day this week.
We got to her table and she had like 5 or 6 cute friends that she introduced me to, and I ended up hanging out with her and her friends for the rest of the night. They were taking a bunch of pictures, so I of course pulled out my camera and got a couple myself too.
When they were leaving I got a hug and a kiss goodbye, and we made semi plans to do dinner on Tuesday or Wednesday.
Observations:
The A314 seemed to add a nice level of commanding attention to the mix, while the Raw Power did its thing and slowly built upon it. The girls I hung out with were all early to mid 30’s probably, lived in one of the better areas of Dallas and were all professionals.
And so much for the dinner date, or any other date, cause she never answered my calls.
That irritates the hell out of me when it happens, which is not a lot, but often enough, and I started this thread: Rant on women! Anyone else agree? - #5 by djandarial
Sucks dude… just try the script… say it seriously as if off the cuff or start to do something call and say it half minded as if calling while busy but still making an effort… tally it up by % and let me know
Nope, just not something I want to try or approach that I’m comfortable with.
I looked at the pictures again. Last time I didn’t get a very good long look at them! I’m not very good at multi-tasking
I don’t know Mark…I think you deserve a better girl. You’re a good looking man and you have a sexy voice! so you deserve a really sexy lady and well, I looked at her again and hmm…nah, she doesn’t make the cut. I think you can get a better and nicer girl!
And no, not when your 70 in the hospital silly lol, waaay sooner!! You gotsa stop selling yourself short my dear! 
P.S: Curiouschic says hello back!
Selva, thanks for the nice things you’ve said, but I still think the world of Daniela and have nothing bad to say about her. She really is gorgeous, I just don’t think you saw some of her best pics, and the fact that she did like or love me, at least for a little while means a lot to me!
Here’s a few more pics that may show her off in a better light!
And tell curious chic that I miss her too!
http://democomputer.com/forum_images/pics/daniela_montage.jpg
Hey folks, for anyone that see’s this I’m sure you’re someone I consider a friend, so know that I’m not it’s not yoou that I’m bailing on, but I think I am gonna bail here, at least for some time to come.
This is not the forum that I came to love and respect anymore. We have too many idiots, assholes, cry babys, and just a complettely different atmosphere these days.
Maybe I’ll come abck some day, if things go back to the way they used to be, but for now I’m just a little fed up with it all.
Take care friends. Those that know me well enough and want to stay in contact, you know how to find me, if not call one of yoour friends and they will!
All the pictures I have ever posted have now been deleted from my server, so sorry folks, but there’s not much more to see here anymore either! 