I am hooked, I know that… BUT I am keeping it under control, SHE does not know I am hooked, at least she can’t tell from my actions… I only respond if she makes direct contact with me and I never drag it!
I don’t know if there are games played here. She was genuinely interested in a relationship and it didn’t happen fast enough apparently. Now if she wants to play games and her interest is still there, that’s fine, I can weather some game-time. IF she plays games without any serious intentions, well I guess this will be apparent in the near future and I will simply make my exit…
This is not an absolute nor did I state that I just noticed along time ago,when a female toys with you and drags you along that is girl behavior. A woman would just say hey you know what I’m not interested or lets just be friends. I do agree that their are variables in every thing.
Again I agree with you, but this is a different scenario here. She is not stringing me alone, she told me she doesn’t want a relationship for whatever reason. What I am trying here is win her back…
Hmmm tomorrow is a big day. Will see her at the office. She has no idea I am coming back. Fallout mix + truth sounds good ?
Over the coming week I will see her daily for At least 4 consecutive days. I guess this is bad for exposure and withdrawal. What should I be wearing those days? Could I do something like IS+ tuth or ammo? IH + p74 + tuth?
Any combination ideas here guys?
Also one of those days will be a big party day. So I am guessing a lot of ih, p74 and tuth is in order. Maybe add some is in there?
Stick to your base mix every time you see her. A short burst of exposures like this after a period of withdrawal will help hammer it home. Use the IS, or TUTH as steering/secondaries depending on situation but avoid more than one spray of Ammo, for the scent.
Don’t go too high on the P74 when it comes to the party - Keep it below 30mcg unless you have an awful lot of TUTH on. Otherwse maybe reduce the A314 slightly and ip the IH - in conjunction with a healthy dose of IS, which is a good social - then add the TUTH as you see fit.
Normally I keep the p74 at 15mcg. Maybe 22… As for travelling together should I change anything? We will probably have the same cabin in the ferry. Could I go just sexual there with tuth-only ?
Tuth only might be a bit too insistently sexual - but your base mix will do you throughout - Then add some TUTH and IS for the cabin. The IS will increase the pleasant/feelgoof aspect of TUTH’s sexuality.
In fact adding some IS shortly before you see her tomorrow would be useful - Again, it will help maximise happy feelings and the feelgood aspect of seeing you again. You won’t need a great deal - maybe two sprays.
Nice chat and fun for about 15 minutes. I think she was playing with her clothes exposing her shoulder a bit, also touched me a couple of times. I know this stuff are supposed to be IOI but they could just as well be normal behavior for some outgoing people…
A314 + 3 sprays P74, + 3 IH + 2 IS + 2 tuth-to-go on wrists which I made sure I brought close to her face…
Plan of attack, nothing for the next days, wait till she initiates ,correct ?
I am just a bit lost anymore, I don’t know what I should be waiting for anymore… Her hitting on me, her confessing her love, or finally me telling her I can’t do this anymore and I don’t want to see her again…
Well it seems everytime I am at my worst something will happen to pick me up… She sent me a message tonight asking how I was doing with some work I have to finish.
Then later at night at about 2:30 she sent me again asking if I was finished. Didn’t see it until later and texted her not expecting an answer. And at about 4am she sent another one. This is a girl that sleeps normally at 9-10pm… She was telling me she couldn’t sleep and asking me again about work… Fallout indicators here mobo? Regardless, I was on her mind late at night while she was in her bed, can’t be such a bad thing
If this is uncharacteristic behaviour, then yes it could well be an indicator of fallout - and the number of potentials is fairly racking-up now, which is usually how it starts to manifest itself.
So yes, its not bad at all - I’d say you are well into the first stage
You will have to persist in this a bit longer though - then change your behaviour again and get more intimate/romantic when she gets more determined about seeing you but even then you are going to have to maintain the exposure/withdrawal cycles until she is fully developed.
So I should not try and initiate any contact right now ? Since the messages at night I have not done any sort of contact. Keep it like this you think ? When we met she again mentioned that I could still crash on her couch, which I shrugged of without giving an answer… Tomorrow is Liberation day, maybe I could text her and meet outside, just for a small positive tuth reinforcement, not really press anything. Do you think I should do it, or wait and see if she does it first, else keep ghost again ?
Thanks mate, will try to keep strong. Seems every time I am about to fall of the wagon she makes contact herself… Let’s see if this will prove true this time too…
She initiated contact again… Seems like every time I can’t hold anymore, she “breaks” first and sends something… And don’t get me wrong, this is not a game for me. I genuinely feel so happy when she does… Dare I say that she thinks of me as much as I do ?
