Personal Thoughts on Mones… 1Alpha’s ramblings!
I have this nagging feeling that this has been touched on in my stroll through this labyrinth of a forum. I’ve been reading up on the forum and thought about how mones fit in the social equation. Some have proposed that certain none heavy products are prone to cause fisticuffs… others, that an other than desired response will be directed at the mone wearer. Or that the user will be getting women clawing all over him like a 21st century Casanova. Also, that being Ghosted, completely ignored, is a likely outcome to an exaggerated application of none.
At my current level of mone experience, I can see that all of the above are possible. Some are more likely to occur than others. This does not make it more so because of my own personal experience. Maybe when I’ve applied a certain product, I’ve seen brawls breaking out more commonly than being ghosted, as an example. There are several variables that would need to be considered to see what is LIKELY to occur. I’ll try to direct my ramble on this.
What Attitudes are projected?
I realized the attitude and ‘presence’ of the wearer will bear a strong influence in which direction the mone reaction will take. As to ‘presence’, that is, are they imposing or impressive in their character? Or is the user lacking in character and positive qualities? Is he/she a ninnyhammer? This will have a direct impact on the influence of mones. I think this has a reciprocal relation to the environment that the user finds himself in. Is he using mones in a clubbing environment, partying, work, school, gym, church gatherings? Some environments, such as the first two indicated require a disihibited tendency, more of an animalistic attitude to get a ‘response’ (Ex. Having sex). A shy wallflower will not have the same reactions. This brings me to the next point.
How does the mone affect to me and those around me?
Does the wearer have a general goal when wearing the mone or is he with a ‘set it and forget it’ mindset? This is either a good thing or bad… as congruence is not easily achieved without direction, a tendency or inclination of the user. Others have a ‘natural’ congruence to the mones they are using. This congruence factor has also been exhaustively examined in these forums. It’s a factor that is one of the most important variable to effectively using mones. You MUST be in a state of agreement with the mone signal you’re wearing. If contradictory signals are projected from your mones and yourself, either the mones effectiveness will be seriously diminished or completely ignored. I also include this as it can have a negating effect, when the subconscious of those around you cannot correlate the mones to the actions and attitudes of the user. You must be comfortable with yourself, at the very least, to let the mones signal do their thing!!! Otherwise, the mone signal is ignored.
What reactions does the wearer have to the mones, normally? Are they aware of how mones will affect their emotional balance? I was wearing a particular P in my testing and found that it completely exhausted my patience level. It brought out the inner bitch in me! I was short tempered at work, with friends, everyone close to me. I was ticked at any little thing that was said, in the wrong way… I was seriously pissed! I found that others in my mone cloud would also likely develop similar tendencies with sufficient exposure time. The P’s effects would diminish over time; it was about 3 to 4 hours when the effects would fade away completely. I DID NOT know what this P would do to me or those around me. Could I use it effectively in a social setting? Obviously not, until I eventually saw the trending of this P. Others have reported differing responses to mine on this P. If I would have used their experiences with this P as a foundation in a combo of mones for use at work, for example, I would have failed dramatically!
In what mental state are the people that I’m trying to influence?
Realizing that others have their own ‘things’ going on will help in understanding that mones will NOT affect everyone the same way. Just knowing that will temper expectations.
I was walking my dog, a beautiful retriever, and often get compliments on her expression, coat and temperament. While we were walking down the street, a women in her mid 30’s was doing her morning walk, walking up the street. I smiled at her and gave her a warm greeting. What was her response? She straightened her back, lifted her chin slightly, and continued walking. She wasn’t wearing headphones, listening to music. If that were the case, I would have just smiled, tried to make eye contact and just nod. But, she did NOT have a positive reaction to my greeting. I was considering that the smile, the warm tone of voice, some mone or even my dog’s presence would elicit at least a basic response, a salutation. Nope!
As I continued on, I also saw walked by a man who was opening up the parking area of an office where I supposed he works. As he had already unlocked and was in the middle of moving the chain off to one side of the parking entrance I was approaching him. I, again smiled, and gave my morning salutations. His response? No smile, but a nod in my direction. His was a minimal response.
I was slowly being overtaken by a father and his son, @ 7 years old or so. The boy was being taken to school a few blocks away. I had my dog heel next to me on some grass, a bit off of the sidewalk. This was to allow them more room to pass. Some people are nervous around ANY type of dog. As he approached, I also greeted with a similar enthusiasm and get a reciprocal response. His smile was infectious as well as his son’s. They briefly stopped and asked if my dog can be petted. I agreed and a few seconds later, they were off again with smiles and good-byes. I also had a mother and son walking close behind this father and son, greet and smile as well, to my offerings of good morning.
Were mones at work here? Not at all, as I wasn’t wearing any. The only output was the ones I naturally produce. However, what was going through the first women’s mind? Did she have an argument with her boyfriend that morning before going out for her morning walk? Did she have a disturbingly frustrated call from her mother accusing her of being distant with her? Had she been bothered by guys during her morning walk and I reminded her of those situations? I don’t know! She was not in the mood for conversation, even a basic human one, such as a greeting.
Was the man not responding to my natural mones? Did he have something against dogs? Is he racially biased? Was he late for work? I don’t know! His mood was leaning toward a focus on his ‘things’ and cut the small talk.
The man and the woman with the kids were more inclined to be friendly. Could it have been reversed, the man and woman with the kids respond coldly or not at all and the first two respond warmly? Sure! But, it happened this way, the friendly dog could have put them in a good mood. My warm smile could have been contagious. My natural mones could have a nol like aspect to them. My exercise wardrobe could have put them at ease as to my intentions.
In all of these cases, the synthetic mone aspect was not part of the equation. Their mental disposition was at work in their responses. This, tempered with the chilly external environment, would have either handicapped or aided a particular mone application.
Other thoughts….
I had another experience with IShine and A314. While I was wearing these, I met a girl friend that I hadn’t seen in several months. Her greetings were warm enough, but, I noticed her hugs on greeting and departure were distant, as if she was holding back. It was more of a slight hug from the shoulders, sideways hug. She will normally be more of a frontal hugger. In talking with her, she’s been having guy difficulties as well as family problems, primarily with her father. Her response to my A314 and IShine? Could it be that she was subconsciously taking out her problems on me? Seeing me primarily as a daddy/male figure?
A week later, we met again, I was mostly wearing IShine as I had only a couple of drops of A314 from 7 hours earlier. My IShine was refreshed from that early morning application, an hour or so before meeting her again. This time, her hugs lasted longer with a prolonged boobing upon greeting. Her smile and body language was inclined toward me. The departure was a basically a hug and a boob rub up and down before releasing. Surprising for sure, as I wasn’t expecting it, from my previous interactions with her. She was all smiles and honestly wanting to spend some time with my wife and I later in the week. Her mental disposition had handicapped my mones and later aided my mone application. That’s the way I see it.
Please feel free to comment on these points or not. I’ve taken this textual stroll to annotate some of my thoughts on mones. I like to share this reflection with others, as well as to my future self! 
… he made it a point to offer me some beverage before I left. He offered me some hot tea, soda, or water. I told him I had to leave, so a water bottle would be great! He obliged and was asking if I can be the one returning to the clients office, the following visit. I told him I’ll see if I can make that happen.
I’ve gone to see doctors…
