i dont mean to make this long but here’s the story. … PLEASE! I don’t want to hear about cheating or anything negative like that - I just want advice and how to find a product that will help me. I have tried several different thing like EoW, eros, edge and one other. not only do they not work on my man but they dont work when i wear them out in public. no man turns his head or smiles at me or even knows i’m alive. i am not an ugly person and i do not go out in public looking or acting sour. i smile at people but still nothing - so i really fear that none of this stuff works for my body. i’m sure it does work for others but just not me. i only started trying this because my man and i have not been sexual for a long while. he works 14 to 16 hours a day 6 days a week and 2 of those days are nights and he doesn’t get home until 6 in the morning. i work 10 hours a day 5 days a week. we are both tired and also have his 13 yr old to deal with. i was just trying to find something that will help spark his interest on his day off. at least once in a while. he’s so tired that he doesnt even work out any more and has put on weight which seems to make him feel uneasy around me. he is a wonderful man who is working very hard to pay down bills and take care of us but i am selfish and miss him touching me. i just want a product that will waken him up at least once a month. and for those of you who will start in on the cheat crap - 1 i would never be with someone i even thought Might Be 2- i can call him any time day or night at non scheduled times and get him right away and he will talk to me for however long i want.
i really do know that this is not a magic potion - but i really really do want some REAL advice on what to use and how to use it RIGHT
thanks
Heya Rhylee. Firstly, we are a group of people that would NOT tell you to cheat on your man. That’s asinine, and I hope whoever did tell you that got smacked. Hard. I think the best person to give you advice on this is my lovely friend Tisha. She’s the female phero pimptress. Judging by the few female phero reports I’ve read, pre-release Dirty is supposed to work wonders on men, even though the ladies think it smells bad. I think Androstenone smells bad, but I’m a guy, and the ladies seem to like it, so it only makes sense that the same applies vice versa. Tisha should be on here before too long, and she’ll give you alllll the info you need. I wish you and your man the best of luck getting past this slump, and personally congratulate you on being strong and NOT cheating on him. You get my rep points for that alone! Rock on, Rhylee… rock on.
It sounds as if what is needed is some sleep, exercise, and perhaps recreation. These are things you identified yourself.
Pheromones won’t compensate for low energy. Sometimes you just have to refill your tank if you’re running on empty.
I have to agree with Mr. Gone Wind. Ain’t no pheromone product is gonna cure the base problem of being overworked and dead tired.
I’m afraid the only real solution is a major lifestyle change: reduce the work schedule to a normal 8 hour day, work out 4 or 5 times a week and eat fresh seasonal organic food. He’ll feel great in a few months and everything will return to normal. I went through a similar change some years back so I know it ain’t easy, but I feel better and more virile than I’ve felt since I was a teen.
I know it’s not the answer you’re looking for, but it’s the only honest solution. An optimal dose of pheromones will be a stopgap at best and is unlikely to work effectively in his condition.
oh no - what i was saying about cheating was i have had very stupid people tell me that he is cheating. i would NEVER cheat on him!!! I have no interest in even thinking about being a low life. i would love to find something that could help us spice up. and yes - rest and exercise is needed. but i also see it - in a selfish way - if on his day off he can sit and watch tv or play video games with his son all day then by that night he should be somewhat rested from the long work week. he has made cute comments to my brother in law - telling him he feels bad because he doesn’t have the right amount of energy and that there are many times i just walk by him and he is excited but just doesnt have the energy for it. i thought that was so sweet to find out. at least i know he’s still attracted to me. and maybe i am being too selfish by trying to find something that will get his juices going.
Hi Rylee
Its been a while since you have been here so just to refresh what I posted last time I brought this over here to this post…
Did you try any of the above or the advice of the other girls who responded. This way we will know what methods you have tried already.
I recall that you bought EOW and you had edge and SOE and didnt have luck with them. When you used EOW how many drops in total did you use? If I recall correctly your around 42 or 43 years old so you may need alot more then a few drops. I use up to 10 sometimes.
Instant sexiness is a good product and you can use your eow with it. Alot of us do that to get more of a cop content. I would also get some Instant honesty and sit down and have a good talk with him. I recall you posting that you did have a talk but I dont remember the outcome
This part of your post says alot to me. He’s tired, dosnt work out anymore and works really hard. He is also approuching 40. I am sure he loves you and is attracted to you he’s just going threw a tough period right now. Have you ever thought of maybe getting him a product from here like Ammo or A314. He may just need a little boost himself and there have been some self effects of Increased confidence and even sexual arousal in the mens formulas.
If I were you this is what I would do. Get some Instant sexiness, shine and IH. Get your hubby some A314 or Ammo. Set aside some time that just for the 2 of you. Talk about how you feel and find out if anything is bothering him that maybe you can help him with. Make him aware that you know he is tired but that your relationship is important and you want to work on this together.
Tisha
Sorry for the double post 
Gegogi has a valid point as well. Your both tired and need to take care of yourselfs. I know your probably not in the finacial situation where he can just stop working so much because you mentioned trying to pay down some bills but I think at least taking vitamins, trying to get as much rest as you both can and eating healthy foods (they dont have to be organic if you cant afford that) this will help alot as well.
Also this may sound totally crazy because your both tired but for something to do together try some kind of exercise. Go for a hike or walk. Both me and my husband always feel great after working out. It really does give you more energy. The first week is the hardest when you start out tired but then the endorphines start flowing and you really do feel great. I think this will help the most at this point. You really need to solve the tired problem and I think this will do it.
Tisha
thank you very much for the honesty and replying to me. Yes - it is my natural nature to pamper him. I always come home from work, I do all the cooking and I draw his bath for him. I even set up his many pillows at night so he can sleep comfortably. The kids help with the cleaning and the laundry. All he has to focus on is working and sleeping. I know that we are both worn out but some romance would be nice. We have a treadmill now and have both agreed to find time to walk on it. As for the bills - we have hit some hard times and are working or i should say he is more than i am - working on paying them off. that is why he is working even more hours. i think my problem is i am selfish. i get a bit butt hurt when he can sit and play video games all day but when it comes to bed time he is just ready for bed and nothing else. i know coming home at 6am on sunday and getting up 5 hours later after working that many hours mon - sunday morning is not enough hours to catch up on all he’s lost through the week, but i thought maybe some mones would help out and since its been so so very long - i just feel more stressed about it all. i will give your advice a try.
thank you again for being so kind and helpful.
Rhylee you are far from selfish! Perhaps it is time you dosed up with some scent of eros plus a bit of eow and made some obvious advances, or even demands! If I were in your situation I would run the bath, and lather him up in all the right places to grab his attention.
Do you have any Androtics products I see you’re listing a few other good products but none are Androtics? Also how old are you, how much eow are you using? Which Scent of eros do you have, gel packs the roller for women, the mens version?
For public wear try using just Scent of Eros to exposed skin like your neck and wrists, you should see some chattiness or attention to give you faith in your products.
I can’t use edge unless I am definitely going to have sex, otherwise it is just too frustrating for me so lay off that one if it is making you feel that way for now!
Rhylee, just a thought. Playing video games for a guy is a way to wind down, stop thinking about work or whatevers on your mind. Hes trying to escape the world. Maybe hes even afraid that he cant get you guys out of debt. Being with you, making love to you, requires him to be engaged so that he can think about you. You cant trade one for the other that easily.
Maybe try dressing provocatively with the pheros inkling suggested (what about Dirty?), play video games with him for a little bit and try to just not push him for a few days. If youre expecting romance, thats not a stress-reliever for him. It requires getting in touch with his feelings and he may not be wanting to get in touch with his feelings right now. If you want a romp, and he has to know that youre okay with a romp, that can be a good stress reliever/escape for the two of you. Are you okay with having sex as a stress reliever or are you asking him to make love to you? Its not the same thing for a guy, but if you can handle just plain sex for a while, you may find that hell want to make love once you already have that intimate environment. Just dont catch him sleep-deprived, have sex and complain when he rolls over and falls asleep.
Weight gain is also a sign of stress and loss of internal confidence. Sleep debt also causes weight gain and lack of sexual interest.
Do you have a time goal for getting out of your financial situation? Sometimes you get yourself into a rut and you need to do something more than just charge ahead.
Hey Rylee, 
Sounds like you two need better jobs–where you can make more money and delegate more. I’m so glad you are an experienced user so I can recommend MX134 for you. Get some and use it at work. And, as Tisha said, get your man some Alpha 314. Either ask him to wear it or use your minxy little noggin to figure out a way to sneak some on him.
Wishing you nothing but the best!
Kitten
MadisonTate - I just wanted to say thank you very much. Being a girl I find I dont understand his way of thinking. I know he’s as tired as hell. I’m not trying to being rude to him about it. I just miss him. Having just sex would be just fine with me. I miss the connection with him. I wish I could find a way to even make sex just plain ol playful. I have tried to attack him for a quickie but he says he’s just too tired and doesn’t have the energy for even that. I also want to thank you for not even attempting to imply that he is cheating on me. I know with no doubt he’s not. He really feels that I am putting too much importance on sex right now and says it will all get better after the bills are paid. He also thinks that because I was cheated on in the past that I only identify being accepted and loved or even desired by what happens or doesnt happen in bed and that it is very wrong and I should put my past onto him because he loves me very much and is going no where. he wouldn’t work this hard if he wasn’t planning a future with me. i believe him but i still miss him. thank you for giving me some insight into what a guy feels. i truly appreciate it
I bet people look at you. Maybe low self esteem may be blocking you from seeing this. I pay attention to every woman I see. It’s nice giving them an ego boost. But I do subtle glances and If I catch their eyes great if not I move on with my life… And if you like someone be forward with your emotions a lot of girls that come around me hide theirs and women really do not have much to be scared of in the emotional realm.
God I hope you dont take this the wrong way. Ok here go’s. When he’s tired does his body part still work. You know does it stand at attention :o or are you saying that it wont because he is so tired. I am going to assume it still works.
Prehaps you should try taking the lead. What I mean is ( get on top) Usually even if he is tired this will get him in the mood and his adrenalin pumping and before you know it he is not so tired any more. Its worth a try. Hell sometimes depending on my mood I dont even wake him up first.
Tisha
Do you have a twin for me, Tisha? I’ve been trying to get a woman to do that to/for me for years… No luck yet.
Thats an incredible way to wake up and simple bladder control pressure almost ensures a guy is - ready for action - in the morning.
HAHAHA hell yeah forum love tactics!!!
Hey Rhylee…I think Tisha is right…if you are in your early 40’s, chances are you just may need more cops…I use a LOT of EW…at least 10 drops…works every time.
Almost two years ago, I was with a man who worked long hours at a shipyard…he would leave the house at 3:30am, and not get home till between 7:00-7:30pm. The ONLY thing that would wake him up was EW…and, it would really get him cranking! 
And, what Tisha said about getting on top…I totally agree…he may really get hot over you just doing that…my current love will be sitting on the couch, minding his own business, and I will just go over and sit astride him, facing him (of course) and plant a big wet one on him…doesn’t take long after that…no matter how tired he is!!!
If you do as Dolly suggests and don’t get a reaction, then you know there are issues … maybe physical, maybe emotional … depending on what it is, IH may help, or Viagra, or testosterone, or couples therapy …
Testosterone fueled couples therapy… Now with extra Viagra!
I should market that.