bored as hell and I wanna get ill…
in my bored stupor as I wait for jerk to go away… I’m going to rant.
Man pheromones. I never thought of em in the way I do now. I remember seeing them in psychology magazines (was really into psych) but was really skeptical. I mean, how could you not? Stuff like Athena 10x was always in magazines claiming to improve your sex life, guaranteed! Honestly, when I decided to purchase the first bottle, I was hopeful. AND extremely cautious. Went with the mentality “Its a 50 dollar bottle… I hope its not a scam, and if anything I can just smell nice” Epic fail. IMF is unscented. A very big L O L moment. Just goes to show how I went from that to a consistent phero user. Anyhow, this is really me frustrated with a lot of the same posts over and over again.
Ok, seriously. Use. The. Search. Function.
Pheromones. Think of them as an article of clothing, an accessory, a nice car. It’s something that ADDS to you slightly. It doesn’t make YOU. YOU make IT. Do the clothes you wear make you? Does that sick car make you? No. You dress a certain way, act a certain way, do certain things to get others to notice you. Same shit with pheromones. This is NOT a magical fucking potion. For you guys out there. Think about it this way. You’re chillin, walking, maybe going to class. You see a female. She’s in sweatpants, sweater, no make up, just walking. It looks like she’s been up late, stressed and tired. You don’t really give her a second look. Buuuuuuuut, a few minutes later you see another female. She’s wearing a skirt, legs shaved and tanned, has a nice tank top on, hair and face is all made up and DAAAAAAMN she is looking NICE. Point being, we all wear, accessorize to pretty much “show” everyone around us who we are. When you go out and buy a nice watch, a nice car, whatever, you KNOW a part of that reason is to raise your social status. Pheromones do the same shit man. Don’t let that stuff make you, cause in the end, its only synthesized molecules and really, its pathetic if you want to let that run who you are. All the stuff we accumulate, stuff we do to attract or try to attract others, is the same with pheromones. They’re nothing without the person.
So now that you know, here are the “pitfalls” of using pheromones in my experience.
1. Works best on strangers. I bought pheros cause at the time I was trying to get with a girl I’ve known for a long long time. Wow. Epic failure for what I was trying to achieve. I went at it the wrong way, wore the wrong stuff, was not congruent and pretty much treated pheros as a magic potion that would mind control her into falling for me. Yeah, fuck my life moment. The thing is this. Strangers don’t know you. First impressions right? Pheromones give off what you can call a signature, an aura. So generally strangers will take you at face value, don’t you? Your family knows you. This just being a theoretical situation for example sake… say you are a lazy ass loser who doesn’t do shit. Your family knows this. Your friends know this. You bust out the A314 to win some respect to show you’re a responsible person. Works well on a stranger. You will fail around your friends and family. They KNOW you. They’ve been around you. They KNOW you’re a certain way and now you are projecting this aura that is pretty much the opposite of you. Think about that.
2. YOU NEED TO BACK UP WHAT PHEROMONES ARE TELLING OTHERS. I CANNOT stress that enough. Huge mistake I did was ride on the rush of good hits, never backing it up, and then crashing and burning. This means being congruent to your pheromone signature while you have it on and even when you don’t. What I mean is this. Say you’re after a target girl. You project a cool, suave laid back and fun guy with say… MX272, AMMO, shine and IG. Target girl falls for you. You spend more time with her. Let’s really hope you really ARE this guy or CAN be that type of guy. Cause bottom line is this. Pheromones initiates things. It’s the starter of something really good, really bad or hell, everything in between. She falls for you, but if you can’t deliver, well pheromones only do so much, just like how if you drive a nice car, it’s appeal goes down after a while. You all probably know a girl who’s done something like this. She met this cuuuuuuuuuuute guy at a bar. He’s funny, playful, makes her laugh, fun to be around and confident. They get in a relationship and a month later he’s this jerk, loser who isn’t all he’s cracked up to be. Don’t be that guy. Please. If you’re not naturally an alpha male am I telling you to never use A314? Hell no, but keep in mind of the consequences. If you talk the talk wearing pheromones, walk the fucking walk.
3. Be congruent with your pheromones. Be congruent with your pheromones. Be congruent with your pheromones. Think of how you look. How you’re acting. How you’re talking. How your body language is. If you’re getting ALPHAMALE ALPHAMALE ALPHAMALE signature from a homeless bum, you’re going to ignore it. If you’re getting fun, cool, talkative from some emo kid dress in black at a party sitting by himself, aren’t you going to be confused? When you’re confused, you ignore it. Oh shit, did that sound familiar? No hits, no looks, everyone is ignoring you? Yeah, sometimes it can be congruency, sometimes its not.
4. Be AWARE of WHERE you use them. Stop fucking complaining that pheromones don’t work. That’s so ambiguous. If you’re going to say that shit, tell us more info. I’m going to take the most extreme example I can think of. You go to a funeral. They’re giving his eulogy and you’re trying to hit on this hot chick next to you and talking to her. Now, unless you’re the brother/father/son of the deceased, you’re so handsome that 90% of the population will forgive you for being disrespectful, do you REALLY think people are going to be receptive and really happy about that? Given, there ARE situations like this and there have to have been occurrences where a guy HAS flirted/talked with a chick and picked her up in said situation, but really, is that realistic? If you’re in class, a meeting, places where there is limited conversation, MOST people generally follow the social norm. Put yourself in their shoes. You see this cute girl sitting a few seats to your right during class. A few people inbetween you. Are you going to get up, sit next to her and start talking to her while class is in session? If you are and you do, damn, you got some cajones, don’t give a fuck about the class, or you really want this girl. Instead, you’d probably find a good opening to chat with her.
5. Don’t be dependent on pheromones. Man, I remember when all I did was let pheromones do alllllllllll the work. Bad bad idea. You’re then letting really synthetic molecules that illicit base reactions represent you. You ride that pheromone crutch too long and you won’t know how to go without them. It’s like learning how to ride a bike. Well fuck, at least how I think you’d learn how to ride a bike. You try, fall a lot, fail a lot, then get training wheels. DAMN BIKING IS EZ. But you never take off those training wheels, you’re never gonna really learn how to bike. You always rely on pheromones, you’re never going to know how to really be that way. You want to portray confidence? That’s great, use some pheromones to give you that jump start. But while you’re doing that, learn to BE confident. Have none? WORK ON IT. You want to be that sexy hot guy? Yeah, I guess you can jerk + AMMO it but if you’re so overweight that Rosie O’Donnel would call you fat, then damn, how long you think that’ll last? Hit up the gym, and be and feel like someone that girls find sexy.
6. DAMN! PHEROMONES ARE HARD WORK! Fuck yes it is. Just like how buying a BMW has an upkeep. It uses premium gas, constant oil checks, constant maintenance, so does pheromones. Like I said earlier, treat pheromones as an accessory to enhance you. So you’re always refining it, finding the best doses, seeing how certain people react to what. Not everyone likes a BMW right? Not everyone reacts to pheromones the same way.
7. I don’t see hits when I wear pheromones. By far the biggest pitfall of pheromones. Again, it seems like everyone says this, but time and time again, they all forget one thing. Pheromones illicit reactions from us. Anywhere from happiness to respect to lust. Another example. You see a hot girl, definitely a 10, walk in. Are you going to stare at her as soon as she walks in, mouth open and gawk at her? No man, you have been socially trained to NOT do that. So you play it off, cool like you didn’t even see her. Same shit with the ladies. They’re not always going to drop obvious IOIs. And hell come on, you’re really looking for that one or two hits from that one or two targets and ignoring everyone else. Or you’re looking for a CERTAIN hit and ignoring a lot of other ones. How do you combat this? Fuckin stop LOOKING for hits. When I stopped caring whether or not I got hits, it really became more obvious. Hits can be silent, a person holding in and controlling how they act and talk. They can be subtle, getting a smile (that you probably wouldn’t have gotten but wouldn’t have known), a timid shy look away, change in words or body language. They can be less subtle and more obvious like flipping hair, imitating body language, suggestive wording, etc. And yes, they can be very very blatant from strangers kissing you. But think about that, how likely are YOU to do something OBVIOUS AND BLATANT? Yea… think about that.
8. Can pheromones make you more attractive? Define attractive. Cause that definition of attraction is probably different from other peoples. Just like how no matter how awesome someone is, if there is no attraction, nothing will happen. Women and men generally have different ideas of attraction, and guys, let’s face it, women care less about looks than we do. So if you’re hoping that pheromones will make women think you’re hot, you are in for one hell of a disappointment. Put it this way. If you look like quasimodo from the hunchback of notre dame, you sir, are fucked physically. No matter what you spray on, very little women will find you physically attractive, but it can bring out other things that women find attractive. Here are 3 topics all posted by the same person all asking the same thing, always getting the same answer. Just keep in mind, attraction is unique, just like how you can find someone hot and another may say she’s ok.
I´m not physical attractive...are pheromones going to work anyway? (I´m not physical attractive...are pheromones going to work anyway?)
If Im not physically attractive, will Ammunition help me attract girls? (If Im not physically attractive, will Ammunition help me attract girls?)
Some girls think I'm ugly...will Ammunition attract these girls to me???????????????? (Some girls think I'm ugly...will Ammunition attract these girls to me????????????????)
And really, think about it this way. People value different things. Some women, you don’t need pheromones. You just need money and the shit a lot of money buys. Some guys, they don’t give a fuck if a women is intelligent, independent, w/e, they just want a fuckin hot girl. Some of these attitudes can’t be changed by pheromones. Some of them can’t be changed, PERIOD. If you’re on here hoping to change someone completely… well, have fun with that one. You can’t change other people all the time, but you damn sure can change yourself. Just remember to be happy with yourself, be happy with the change, be happy with what you want to turn in to. Don’t be someone you’re not, cause it will be a long hard lesson and often frustrating being someone that you don’t want to be.
Really, pheromones are a social product just like everything else we use to attract the opposite sex and garner respect from our peers. From nice clothes, watches, purses, shoes, socks, cars, houses or where you live, ALL of that whether you want to admit it or not, has been influenced by you wanting to raise your value to someone, not necessarily the opposite sex. So before you complain how pheromones don’t work, take a GOOD look at HOW you’re using them, WHERE you’re using them and your knowledge of the social situation around you, cause really, I lose faith in humanity every single time I see a question that is answered hundreds of times and at times, there are stickies that actually tell you the answer to the question.
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What pheros can do:
What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers (What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers)
Is there an Intelligent, witty, smart pheromone, not a jerk one? (Is there an Intelligent, witty, smart pheromone, not a jerk one?)
I'm fed up (I'm fed up)
Phero usage:
re-using pheromones in the same day (re-using pheromones in the same day)
Long Term Effects and Tolerance? Advice Please :) (Long Term Effects and Tolerance? Advice Please :))
Why does this spray work best? (Why does this spray work best?)
God this was exhausting. Time for a smoke. PHYA WHERE YOU AT? =D
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