The Restaurant Manager is a Babe

Sunday night in Orlando and finally a quick post.

NLP training with Bandler, and one word to sum it all up.
Unbelievably Freaking AMAZING!:slight_smile:

Bartender is not really digging me. I’ve haven’t had very much success there. Tonight I was heading to Universal City Walk to get some dinner, but Mr. Feel Good leaves early morning so he couldn’t go. I went to hotel restaurant so he didn’t have to eat alone.

Hostes is very sexy Latino. She tells me her name is Nicole and asks me mine. I tell her I am Mr Mystery Man. She eats it up. We banter a bit and have very good rapport. I use a few of my newly learned NLP techniques on her. She’s eating out of my hand. I have a taxi coming, so time is short. Only about 15 minutes left.

We have pretty good connections talking about NYC and how I ended up living in TN from Dominca. She is laughing at my jokes, even ones that arent funny. She is smilling and looking delectable. A private desert that should be on the very exclusive SteveO menu.

We go over the places I want to see. I ask her if she is going to give me a personal tour of Orlando and I could see the sprakle in her eye. She is about to answer when all of a sudden Norton the dorky hotel customer comes in to be seated for dinner. She takes care of business. She comes back quick, but the ambiance of the kill has been stripped away.

When attempting a quick interaction like this the key is to move swift, but smooth. No delay, after all, a man of mystery must be cat-like. The connection was lost, and she mentioned she had to work the next day. She did tell me that I need to come see her in the restaurant. I told her I would be going to do the tourist thing.

I do finally tell her my name then and she banters with me, accussing me of making it up. She says when I see you tomorrow and call out your name you wont even remember thats what you told me. Notice she was the one that said she would see me again and would be calling out my name.

There were other verbal ques as well. She also mentioned something about something not being to hard so I pushed it and said it just depends on what is making it hard. The right girl would do the trick. She knew exactly what I was saying and was A-Ok with it.

She got a phone call and that was my exit. I excused mysef and said my goodbye to Mr. Feel Good and called out “Hey take it easy Nicole” and turned and walked out. I never looked back.

Oh I almost forgot that at one point three Latino guys walked out from a service door. She blew them a kiss and said “love you guys.” I could see when she said it she took a gander in my direction. These are what many of the PUA guys call shit tests. She is throwing a test at you to see how you respond, if she can push your boundaries. I stretched my legs out and open and leaned back in my chair. I never broke my eye contact and had a big smile. In effect I disarmed her completely. Never mentioned it, never an obstacle. As I see it, its my reality and she was lucky that I let her into it.

On another note, the other night when we arrived a guy I met tried to pick up the bartender. She told him she was married. He mentioned it to me and I just completely ignored it. I haven’t got anywhere with her yet either, but the point is she has never once mentioned it to either me or Mr. Feel Good. In fact she isn’t married and I am suprised that a certain person didn’t have her in his hotel room :open_mouth:. Eh hem!

Tonight I wore some MX292 3 sprays to neck nothing else.

Mr Feel Good told me she said to him after I left something about him not bragging like I did. The only thing I mentioned that could have been construed as bragging was my time living in the Caribbean, of which she inquired. The key to that though, is that I was on her mind after I had left. Regardless of how you want to frame it she was still thinking about me even when I wasnt there. My fellow forum friends: Always make an impact on the people you meet. Regardless of whether its a good impact or a bad impact, make a freaking impact. This was a good impact and I have a strong feeling that I will be seeing some more of Nicole.

Damn it, I’m so jealous! I’d give my left nut to attend a live training with the man himself. Kudos to ya, Steve. Hope it turbocharges your PU… er, life exeperiences. :wink:

-D4

where’s Dominca ?

Bugger that, imagine what MFG’s head is like at the moment? Bandler seminar and then watching Steve put the theory into practice.

How’s that for a PUA lesson :open_mouth:

Sounds like fun time

i never even heard of NPL with bandler no idea who he is or what that is? give us some more details?

Bandler was the co developer of Neuro Linguistic Programming, think of it as a supercharged self help programme and you are still nowhere close.

Just google him, you won’t regret it. He is to people skills what Linus Torsvaldt is to UNIX :wink:

NLP stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming and it is an uber powerful therapeutic technique for reprogramming the subconscious script. I’m not certain, but I believe this was based on Huna principles and expanded from there.

Awesome that Steve got this opportunity. I’ll never forgive him for not inviting me to go with.

Diane

What do you mean I am nowhere close? close to what?

btw I am guessing you mean Linus Torsvaldt is to Linux? since UNIX was around way before Linus Torsvaldt

Ross Jeffries is a student of NLP. He’s still a student of him and calls him his teacher. Bandler is the father of NLP. Richard Bandler and linguist John Grinder are legally considered the co-founders according to a court ruling. Neuro-linguistic programming - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Check out Bandler on youtube. Guys like Derren Brown and Ross Jeffries use NLP. Ross Jeffries specificially uses it and teaches it to help get women and build better business relationships and such.

I hate you!!! :angry: So what’s he like? He seems like a really cool nice guy. Ross loves him. Wait until you get the doggy dinner bowl look from a super hot female. It will blow your mind. You will feel like a rockstar, famous athlete/actor all rolled up into one. It feels great that you can make somebody feel great.

Nowhere close to imagining what Bandler is to self help, positive self talk, whatever you want to call it :wink:

I was trying to indicate that he is in a different league to anyone else, the same as Linux is in a different league to UNIX in terms of user friendliness.

Anyway, the point is, I’m sick with envy,

Sometimes I really really hate MFG :smiley:

Hmm sounds interesting I will definitely Google

I understand now, you guys are really putting him on a pedestal he must be really that good

Who is MFG?

LOL

So many questions, Denec, so many questions. :wink: MFG is Mr. Feel Good from the forum. It just takes too long to type that out sometimes.

You cannot get the answers if you never ask the questions :slight_smile:

If you want to take it even further back, then you can look at works of Milton Erickson. Everybody acknowledges the brilliance of Milton Erickson.

http://www.nlpu.com/bandbio.htm

Richard Bandler is a co-founder with John Grinder of the field of Neuro-Linguistic Programming. A student of mathematics, Richard began studying the work of Gestalt therapy founder Fritz Perls when he was asked to edit transcripts of Perls’ lectures and workshops for the book Eyewitness To Therapy (1973) for Science and Behavior Books. He also began to work with family therapist Virginia Satir at this time.

Richard met John Grinder, a linguistics professor, as a student at the University of California at Santa Cruz. In 1974 Bandler and Grinder began to make a model of the language patterns used by Perls, Satir and Hypnotherapist Milton H. Erickson, which they published in their books The Structure of Magic Volumes I & II (1975, 1976), Patterns of the Hypnotic Techniques of Milton H. Erickson, Volumes I & II (1975, 1977) and Changing With Families (1976). These books formed the foundation of the field of Neuro-Linguistic Programming

Enjoy women :slight_smile:

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here is a great story about Milton Erickson and importance of rapport