The Things I Do For My Bros.....Hate Myself For This....

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My friend was IN LOVE with this girl. Now, my friend is a virgin, and I think he’s a rookie when it comes to girls. He gets drunk and mopey (we’re in college), and he wrote her a poem, very beta male things.

She had a “talk” with him (he usually initiated all these talks), and she said she liked him as a friend (even though she led him on all this time, and they cuddled a few times) and she liked this other guy very much (she wants to be in a relationship w/ him).

I invited a bunch of girls to watch The Exorcist with me. This girl (who, by the way is a dime. Absolutely DROP DEAD gorgeous) came along w/ another girl. They drank my beers, and the other girl left halfway through the movie to go to a little party.

The dime was a little tipsy, and started getting handsy. I had on AMMO and IH. She then told me she liked me, which I didn’t think anything of.

She mounted me, and told me she wanted to hook up w/ me (this girl is DEFINITELY DTF). I told her it wasn’t going to happen cuz my bro really liked her, and I couldn’t do that to him (I REALLY wanted to, but just couldn’t). She started brushing her HUGE and PERFECTLY shaped boobs in my face. She said “I’m going to MAKE you. I bet you $100.” I said “so you’ll give me $100 if I hook up w/ u?” And she said “no, you are going to give me $100, cuz u can’t say no to me. Be honest, you wish you got to me before your friend did.” I admitted this was true, and denied her.

She said she had no reason to be there, left, and called up the guy she likes (hes a virgin, she’s not getting anything out of that).

I left my room dazed, drunk, and confused. I talked to my friends roommate and the girls roommate.

At 4AM, the girl FB’ed me, saying “So I heard you told my friend. I’m completely denying it, you should to, never happened.”

I said “that’s fine, it never did, good idea, but I’m still going to be around and hangout cuz your friends are my friends.”

She said "yeah thats fine. Besides, I like someone (whom I was trying to remind her of when she was trying to hook up w/ me, and she said “but he won’t date me or fuck me.”)

IDK if this opportunity is going to happen again, but I doubt it is.

Any comments on if I made the right move staying true to my friend, or should I have hooked up with this GORGEOUS girl??

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Friendship is infinitely more important and valuable than a little sex with some unstable chick who seems to enjoy getting drunk and climbing on guys she doesn’t really know all that well.

It sounds like a no brainer to me.

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You made the right move imo as they say “bros before hoes.” Seriously though a good friend is worth more then a night of sex and she sounds a bit crazy like most college chicks…sadly.

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good move on your part

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Props and much respect, usually guys around your age would jump on it in a situation like that, but you showed loyalty. Even though your friend is totally afc’ing himself into the friend zone and will likely never get the girl, the fact that he wants her would make shit crazy if you acted on that.
Now you have to get your friends head on right so that maybe he CAN.

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Thanks guys.

She told me on FB that it’s not gonna happen again, and I told her if it did, I probably would go for it. HAHA

Yeah, I did the right thing, and I’m proud of myself.

I also bitched out the girl that I liked last night too. I had nothing to lose, so I did it.

Overall, a good night for me. It would have been nice to get laid by SOMEONE though.

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you do know if your friend hooks up with hot chick she will turn your friend against you happened to me once.
think i would have went with the hot chick, you forget the girls you been with but you regret the ones you didn’t.

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From what I’ve read his friend won’t ever hook up with this girl without some help. Give your friend advice and help him get the girl, talk him up and wing for him.
If the girl turns out to be ok she’s your “in” for her social circle. Hot girls tend to run in the same crowds, now you’re an inside guy.
If she tries to turn your friend against you, well if he has brain one in his head he’ll see the irony of a girl bad mouthing the very guy that helped him get her..and he’ll give her her walking papers. If he doesn’t and he buys her line, then he’s really not much of a friend to begin with.

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Wish things were this easy for me >_>

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Always put your friends before a potential girlfriend. You don’t even know what this chick really is like in the end but you (should) know your buddy.

Betraying a friend could be a move you’d regret for a long, long time.

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I had a situation I regretted not pulling the trigger on. A friend of mines girlfriend from home made a surprise visit to where we were going to college… Needless to say my buddy had other plans and her and her friend ended up staying in my room. “He is my friend and this is his girlfriend” I thought. I, knowing full well what he was doing in HIS room didn’t pull the trigger and should have cause we carried this philosophy as a group “Bros B4 Hoes”, but our take was “if you don’t do her, I will” and we were cool with that. We were always friends and no hard feelings about who actually “got the girl” I learned more from college about picking up the opposite sex then any other time in my life. We had a survival of the fittest mentality.

You did the right thing by not sleeping with her solely based on your personal morals. I however think your “virgin” friend would “un-virginize” himself really quickly if you would have shown him that other guys don’t stop hitting on “your girl” just because you like her. Liking someone doesn’t stop the world from turning! If he would have given you a hard time for screwing her then it would be him who is not living by the motto IMO. Even if a person is in the wrong the motto is still what!!! BROS BEFORE HOES… Right??? If you live by this credence then live by it. I’m not saying this gives you free riegn to go and take down all your buddies GF’s( off limits IMO), but EITHER way your buddy should not be happy or mad that you did or didn’t screw her.She wasn’t his GF or even really close to being even considered that(maybe in his eyes) so she is FAIR game. If you wanna help him “get the girl” than so be it.There are many ways to “help” someone “get the girl” maybe not that one, but the next. Let the tounge lashing commence :stuck_out_tongue:

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you write about same stuff all the time. Forget that girl. Don’t even mention her until you get at least BJ out of her. Don’t want to sound mean, but it is like 5 times in the past two months you dedicated some kind of thread to her, when she is not into you.

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Huh?? Thats a COMPLETELY different thread about a COMPLETELY different girl. OLD news.

And I can already see that it’s a war. She puts her head down around me when she’s sober, she comes around me when shes been drinking.