Biologists have noted two types of species with distinct physical and behavioral characteristics with regard to mating. Those are called tournament speciesand pair bondingspecies.
In tournament species males compete for the opportunity to mate with females. They may compete via fighting like the elk, or via displays like the peacock. In pair bonding species like the swan a male and a female form a lasting pair bond. (In a very few species it is the female that competes to mate with the male. These species are the exception rather than the rule. In the rest of this discussion I’ll refer to the male as the competing sex.)
Contrasting the traits of pair-bonding and tournament species.
Tournament species usually have a high degree of sexual dimorphism, since traits in the males are selected for by their success in the tournaments. Males are often larger than females in fighting species, or equipped with weaponry the females do not possess. In display species the males will often have coloration or display features the female does not. In pair bonding species the male and female are often very similar in appearance.
Generally males in tournament species do not participate in rearing of infants. Many tournament species males practice infanticide against infants not their own. This frees up the reproductive capacity of the female for mating with the current alpha male. In pair-bonding species both parents share in rearing infants. Since both parents are optimized for this parental role instead of competitions, this accounts for some of the similarities between males and females in the pair-bonding species.
In tournament species most of the mating is done by a small percentage of the males. In pair-bonding species a much larger percentage of the males mate successfully.
In tournament species the female is more committed to rearing the young, as there is often no back-up resource. In pair bonding species females sometimes abandon their young to mate again elsewhere, because the cuckolded male will complete the rearing of the offspring.
Non-mendelian imprinted genesare a characteristic of tournament species, and are largely absent in purely pair-bonding species.
Tournament species females select males on their ability to win competitions, which also is an indicator of their health and survival abilities. Pair bonding females also consider the child rearing abilities of the male when selecting a mate.
What are humans?
Humans exhibit a medium degree of sexual dimorphism, with the males being on average somewhat larger and stronger than the females. Humans also have an intermediate number of imprinted genes between clearly tournament and clearly pair-bonding species. Even leaving all observed human behaviors aside, these two clear biological markers indicate that humans use both (or some mixture of) pair bonding and tournament mating strategies.
Role of pheromones
One must wonder what role pheromones play in these two mating strategies. Is it possible that some pheromones play a strong role in mammalian tournament selection, and others play a role in mammalian pair-bonding selection. This question can probably be answered experimentally, but to my knowledge the experiments have not been done.
Anecdotal reports on this forum indicate that –none worn by a male can inspire fear/respect/aggression in other males, strong sexual responses in ovulating females, and aggressive/protective responses in non-ovulating women or women with infants. This seems entirely consistent with –none being a marker for a “winning” alpha male in a tournament species. Females are interested in such a male when fertile, and need to protect themselves and their infants from the male at other times.
-rone in contrast has been noted to have somewhat of a older, pater-familias effect. One might speculate that this pheromone could indicate a male optimized for child rearing.
There have been reports of the mixture a314 creating a “stalking” response in women. A314 contains both –none and –rone. Stalking would seem to be an attempt at pair-bonding. Perhaps the -none/-rone combination can indicate both fitness and child-rearing abilities. A male sending both signals might be considered a valuable partner for a pair-bond.
The alpha and beta –nols seem to affect communication. This suggests that they might be more effective in pair-bonding than in tournament play. However, in humans winning a tournament may require developing a certain level of trust and secure feelings in the female, so these –nols may also play a secondary role in a tournament strategy.
I can’t help but think that there is sufficient investigation here for 10 or 20 doctoral theses. I suspect we will see an explosion of information on these communication molecules in the next few years. In the meantime, we are recording some very interesting data on the effects of these molecules in human dating/mating rituals.
Periodically people pop up on the forum and ask “What pheromone should I use.” I’ve come to believe that this question can’t be answered without knowing if the person is oriented toward a tournament or a pair-bonding strategy. The person looking to get laid and leave needs to send different signals than a person looking to establish an exclusive long-term bond.
Pair bonding and tournament strategies have repercussions outside of mating behavior. The social organizations of the two types of species also differ, and I am forced to speculate that the strategy and signals of the mating strategy adopted will also affect same-sex interactions. Again, there is a lot of work to be done before these signaling implications are clear.