Yeah it may be a selfish and jealous attitude, but it is human nature! If you liked a girl, let her know that you liked her, and had another friend that was into her too, and he ended up dating her, you would feel a bit hurt, jealous and betrayed too. You might not show it on the outside, but inside you couldn’t help but feel so.
Just trying to watch out for you buddy! Remmy was in a similar situation just a couple of weeks ago. Here’s the thread: melting in philly