Ah Ha
I found the post your referring to. 
Just for the record Tish is not the Mod who sent the PM.
I agree with your point though, you cant control who is attracted to you when you wear mones anymore then any other attractive person can control people hitting on them for being good looking. It just happens.
I do understand why you received the PM though. You did call him a name and although we are uncensored here we do keep a eye out for that. I have sent PM’s to people instead of posting in there thread to express how I feel or to give them a friendly reminder of the request that Michael made in the stickie section.
Tisha