Hey Guys…I would like to get something for my BF of many years, something that will give him more of an Alpha manly self effect.
I see that copulins are supposed to increase testosterone, but I wouldn’t want for him to feel anxiety or to be too aggressive. Should I also post this in the mens section?
thank you…
Ok, tough situation. What is he like now? What are his personality traits? What attitude does he normally show when around you and others?
Someone who wants to have a leader role around others needs to look into himself. I’ve gone through this process of understanding myself BEFORE I can project an ‘Alpha’ male role to others. In myself, and suspect in others, it’s still a work in progress as negative self sabotage is never far.
First off, you do have to assume your ‘role’. If he DOES NOT, then, whatever mone he sprays on, A314, AMMO, IG, IShine, etc will have the strength of its effects diminished to eliminated. The mones will highlight, amplify, the wearer of the mone.
When coming into a room, if he’s looking around to orbit around a ‘leader’, sticking to polite convo’s and safe humor, he’ll be cataloged as a follower. Now, if he does mentally assume his ‘role’ as an alpha and naturally expect others to follow him and show Him Respect. Being unsure, like unsure on what to say, fear of rejections, fear of failure, is evident, etc. will be contrary to his ‘role’. Rather, showing a calm confidence in his walk, gaze, and conversation and being ready to admit an error and laugh at himself, will be something that MUST come from him. Being ready with an honest, friendly, smile is ALWAYS positive. It takes EFFORT to do this, so that, with time, it will be EFFORTLESS.
Taking the lead in decision making, offering options DIRECTLY, without the fear of being rejected is one important aspect to continue with the ‘role’ of a leader.
As an example, if I say to my group: Hey, guys, let’s finish off our drinks here and go somewhere else. Let’s go to X club instead? I want to check out their awesome dj!
As opposed, to, say: You know what? I’m bored here. How about you guys? - Then, hope someone else will take the lead and make a suggestion.
The mones I alluded to will help out in a boost in self confidence. The only way that’ll be permanent is to be mindful of it’s effects and build on it with actions.
I guess he’s not naturally Alpha, he reminds me more of a child, a child that wants and needs attention from his mommy. What is really getting to me lately is his whining. He whines about things like he is powerless to change them or do anything about it, heck if he so much as bumps his foot on something not so hard, he’ll say “Ouch” really loud, like he really just did some serious damage! and roll on the floor until I acknowledge that he “got hurt” lol
I just wish he would whine less and do more, with actions. Sometimes I feel like “the man of the house”…if things are going to get done, I have to do them. I was hoping (maybe unrealistically so) that mones could help “wake up” his more manly side.
BeautyScent, this reminds me of a thread from a while back. River had a similar situation that she needed help with: Confidence: you have to have it, and no one can give it to you
You may want to read through it for inspiration and ideas. Hopefully, it will help.
Musk
Communication, sometimes, brutally honest will shake up his comfort zone. Letting him know in no uncertain terms what his actions and attitude do to you’re respect of him.
I was thinking about this a bit and was thinking that ‘possibly’ having this ‘talk’ will bring to the fore a need for an introspection on his part. In a way, I can see that he will need to bring out ‘his’ manly attitude. Can IJ help? Possibly. I find that this one in self effects, has a welling of an attitude to get my way. Though, he may become even MORE whiny!? Tough one to discern without ‘The Talk’ and seeing how mones affect him.
I do like MuskCloud’s link, which is right on what you are asking about. Each situation is of course a bit different, but, you can ‘pull’ what you can use, if anything for getting your manly man! 
Buy him a motorbike - not a Harley or anything like that - a real mans motorbike, like a Triumph.
Tell him to man up or ship out! Sounds like a weener who needs a large boot up the butt!
See my machine below - British iron, hard as nails, fast as fuck.
Thanks guys,
Yes he was very spoiled as a child. His father died when he was 4 and his mother put all her attention on him.
But I’m feeling kind of guilty for getting annoyed at him, because we just found out he is having issues with his heart. He has a heart valve and is on blood thinners and a new medication that makes his nerve endings sensitive to touch. So he was not exaggerating about the level of pain. I guess I can be a bit cold sometimes because I still think he shouldn’t whine, but at least now I understand it more and realize that as his woman I need to be more patient and guide him gently.
Have the talk 1Alpha mentions.
Make him wear a combination of A314 & Ammo. If that does not make him feel more manly and actually man up … well, time to get a real man.
If Im buying a guy a bike, time for me to get real one. Alpha buy their own things..and presents for their women
Very true but in in this case it sounds as if he needs a wake up call.