Where to go to meet women?

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports
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In some PMs to me after a comment I made in another thread post it was suggested that maybe it would be a good idea to start a thread for suggestions/hints/observation about (or success stories about) where others have gone to meet and mingle with “pheromone test subjects” shall we say. (Guys meeting Girls)
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So let’s hear what all you have to say. Actual success trumps speculation.
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One tidbit: I once read somewhere that one way to figure out where to go to meet women, was to scan the various women’s magazines at the newsstand looking for any that had articles on “Where to go to meet Guys,” then go there yourself! Cool!
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Oh, and women can chime it too to drop hints to us guys.

And one of you fine lasses could start a similar thread in the women’s section about where to meet guys (that we can sneak a peek at - see above…)
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Here is where I go to test my pheromones:

Bookstores
The mall
Libraries (especially college libraries, where people spend long periods of time in one place)
College (classes in general)
Starbucks.
Restaraunts.

The best places I have found to test my pheromones are:

College classes, where people are exposed for 1-2 hours at a time.
College library
Starbucks on campus
Cafes in bookstores.

I’m not a geek, really. :roll_eyes:

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This is a favorite of mine as there are alot of young girls wanting to experiment and some older people sometimes go there. Best bet is sign up for some sort of “art” class at a local community college (preferabbly close to the city so you have more variety of people), as those classes people pick as extra curricular activity and its more relaxed so you can all have fun.

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here’s a hint on how to meet women- its a friday night, get off the internet!

jk

The weather sucks out here and I’m a little broke. I’m making it a Blockbuster Night myself. (picked up Office Space and Boiler Room)

Though this doesn’t really constitute a physical place, I’ve found that the best method of meeting women is to network through friends…especially female friends. Make friends, and don’t be shy about hanging out with them and their friends…bring a buddy along so it doesnt get awkward. The way I see it, the more people you get acquainted to, the more likely you’ll be to have exposure to some quality women.

Even if you’ve only casually been introduced to somebody once, it makes your life a helluva lot easier if you have a reason to talk to her later on.

As far as locations quality locations go…if its a good spot or situation for you to make friends, its a good spot or situation to meet women.

My College Campus has been a reliable source of women for me. I’m quite active in the extra-curricular events in our business school, and I’ve met quite a few women throughout the years I’ve been here. I think getting involved in any type of organization, be it academic, religious, professional, whatever is always a leg up. Statstically, if the groups big enough, theres bound to be a quality woman there. Even if you don’t meet quality women in the organization itself , someone always knows a guy, who knows a guy, who knows someone worth ‘hollerin’ at.

Clubs, Bars, and Lounges - bad place to meet women for the first time, great place to get ‘better aquainted’ with someone you’ve met, even just briefly. The influence of alcohol on people makes the effects of the mones much more blatant and in your face. Even if someone is completely sober, I’ve always noticed that the demeanor of people completely changes in clubs - the environment of a club itself lowers the inhibtions of people.

Coffee Houses - Find a local coffee house, and make yourself a local there.

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I like meeting women off the internet.

Chat sites as well as dating sites. That seems to be my main source of meeting women now. You can sift through the kinds of women you like and have good conversations before you actually meet! Plus you can prepare the right mix for the ‘type of girl’ right before the date. She gets to be exposed to your mones on a one-on-one basis for a long period (30 mins at least). Plus she hasn’t yet pidgeonholed you as may have happened if you had known her for a while before.

It is important though not to rely on the internet completely for women. I still look and have reasonable success elsewhere but have had the most luck in recent years from the internet…

Visionary

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Dance classes and dance related events and workshops.

Crowded rush hour bus. (Great test bed.)

-SwingerMD

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Office Space!:smiley: I had to buy that one.

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I would have bought it too, but I have it memorized. :roll_eyes:

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Yoga classes might be good, too. Karate classes usually attract men, but some women show up also. When I was in karate, though, the competition for the attentions of available attractive females was fierce.

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You’re not kidding. When I was taking Karate, there was a woman from work in the class whom I was highly interested in. There was a blackbelt from another style who had joined up after moving to town who would throw punches at my face to show off while I was trying to talk to the woman. What a jerk, and she had a look on her face when he’d do that, that gave me the impression that she felt the same about him. Neither of us ended up with her as she was dating a helicopter pilot at the time.

Interestingly, I had been warned that she was a “ball buster,” but I didn’t realize that she literally was until that class. When we would team up to spar, she seemed to take great pleasure in kicking at the crotch. :open_mouth:

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try a forum! :open_mouth: or,
meetup.com pick a subject…any subject…i love it there.

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There are women everywhere. Heck when I was still single I would get approached at the grocery store all the time and still do. Guys are fearless even when the girls got a ring on her finger. You just have to keep smiling and keep your eyes open and women will come. Nightclubs are great too. You just have to fight your way through the alcohol haze to find the real person inside. It too can be a fun adventure. I fell in love with a total stranger on a dance floor once. But like poof…he was gone.

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Try going to a place that interests you, and you will find women there with similar interests. For example: Hang out in a bookstore if you like to read. Be creative with this. This way you can be pretty sure that you and the girl already have similar interests.

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That is a good tip, Catlord. Also I would suggest for the guys to participate in something that mainly only women usually participate in. That way you will really stand out, being that you are a minority. I am not certain, but I would venture to say that mostly women participate in yoga or pilates. Those would be good choices. Just don’t get too pervy and stare at the chicks the whole time.:wink:

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So this raises an interesting question. Let’s say I decide I like a woman at Yoga class, and I stare 80% of the time. This is the level at which sexual interest is communicated, IIRC. Does this translate to 80% perviness, and if so, is that acceptable? lol

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Only if she isn’t offended, and she seems to be interested in you as well. lol But hey Catlord, some women like perverts. :slight_smile:

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Just don’t stare too hard

Women appear to be uncomfortable with the hard hungry stare… one bud of mine, a master at getting laid, would never stare at women or look at them too hard, it was part of his technique… and it worked.. his eyes might lightly pass over her at most, but he would look slightly past them while watching with his peripheral vision..

A second bud of mine, a sadly frustrated guy, would always stare hard and aggressively, like romantic, right ? First drill deep into their eyes and then straight at their crotch… bad technique… women just blanched and fled from this approach…

It seems that communicating mild curiosity, openminded emotional interest, and being in a listening mode, if the eyes can do this, is much better than having the eyes in talking mode…:roll_eyes: :roll_eyes: :roll_eyes:

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I always found this particular approach from a guy to be kind of creepy, and a big turn-off myself. It never worked on me. Occasionally glancing, like the first guy you mentioned, was always more alluring.

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I’ve had success all over!

Book stores, coffee shops (especially at 3:00 - 4:00 PM when women feed their afternoon caffeine-sugar addiction) , malls, the list goes on! Anywhere women go. Joining classes that women tend to go to is a great idea that I haven’t done yet, but I know some guys that do.

As far as the correct way to look at a women. Look at her (only her eyes) and smile (freindly, not creepy) and DON"T BREAK EYE CONTACT FIRST! The woman must break eye contact first, then glance back at you. This is a millenia old part of the human mating ritual that must be followed. It’s like trying to drive a car without first starting it. If you blow this one, her limbic brain will disqualify you as being lower status than her, she has no control over her reponse.

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mmmmm… don’t go overboard on the eye energy

the real deal is that women need to know what they’re dealing with… staring deeply into her eyes without content to back it up can be a little strange… one guy I know who has the best sense of style of all my friends… this guy rules on the style front… he carries it so lightly too… no self consciousness about his presence… very polite, excellent listener, respects boundaries, he’ll wear a unique, I mean unique, like he is on a mission of uniqueness, neck chain with some fascinating, never before seen, expensive rare object (he likes them small and discreet, no huge crosses or such metal overloads) that you can’t take your eyes off of it… it’s like a magnetic focal point that your eyes are drawn to and they stay there while you figure out what it is he’s wearing… so your attention is drawn to his face without him leaning into the conversation… I must say it’s a great trick if you have the chops to pull it off… he avoids rings because they draw attention away from the face… who knew ?