Ask her out while she's at work.

Hey all. I have seen a girl who i am really attracted to. Normally i wouldn’t be shy in asking her out but i’m not sure how to do it while she is working.

She works at the drive through of a fast food place and i don’t think it’s a very convenient place to ask anyone out. Especially if she’s busy.

Any suggestions?

First I removed the links you had embedded in your post. Not sure why they were there, but weren’t appropriate so they have been edited for continuity :slight_smile:

Work place affairs can be a tricky situation and you should carefully consider whatever choice you make. If it doesn’t work out sexual harassment charges could be levied. There are lots of fish in the sea so please make the right choice my friend.

Thanx dude.

She doesn’t work with me. She works at the fast food place that i visit every so often.

Hell yeah then! Game on. I’m a master when it comes to picking up girls in the drive through. Tisha has accommodated me many times (on the phone) while I work the magic.

Are you serious dude? I mean i was thinking of giving her a note with my number on it. Don’t want to put her on the spot in front of everyone.

Its a total ballsy thing to do. I do it all the time :slight_smile:

Yeah, so i gave her a note last night asking her out for coffee. Just realised that i forgot to put my number on it.

Should i wait till next week to give her my number or should i do it tonight?

How much interaction have you had with this girl before you gave her the note? Have you engaged in any friendly conversation not related to her job?

Just asked her how her name is pronounced and who gave her that name. She seemed pretty cheery about it. That’s it.

But she said thanks when i gave her the note yesterday.

Well I can’t say that was the best way to go. I think a better option would be to time it so you can go after the lunch rush when she’s not as busy, engage in a little friendly banter first and then when you’re about to leave, mention something you already have planned for the weekend, write the note down in front of her (otherwise she’s going to suspect you came with it already written and planning on asking her out) hand her the note and suggest she give you a call if she wants to come along.

I went along on Monday. She was not working. The girl who was there gave me the look " Yeah i know why you’re here but it’s not going to happen".

Should i call it quits?

No way! That look you’re assuming the other girl gave you may well mean nothing.

You may be just reading something into it because you yourself know you gave the note, so you’re naturally self-conscious about it. The other girl may have just happened to be in a bad mood.

Even if the other girl did know about the note, maybe she’s jealous, or just a jerk, who knows? It’s really none of her business anyway.

But don’t you dare give it up, that will make you look like a loser. What if she liked the note and wanted to go out with you and then you didn’t follow up? As they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

hey bro, i had a similar situation once upon a time. there was this girl i liked behind the counter of a McD’s (i would buy their over-sweetend coffee just to get a glimpse of her). anyway one day, during my break at work i came to order the usuall, only there was no line behind me, so i started a light chat with her, i then asked her out on the spot. obviously this wasnt the best place, and she said that her managers are watching and this wasn’t the best time for that . so after my shift i dropped by again, with a small folded paper which had my number and the following: “you seem like there is more to you then meets the eye p.s. txt me first so i know its you and not some creeper”. i just came up and discreetly gave it to her. She become my girlfriend shortly after. she said many guys hit on her @ work, but no one had considered that she needed to work too.

I’ll give her my number on Monday if she is working. Don’t think handing it to her colleagues is a good idea.