I think i forgot height. I like independed “cool” guys with an ego and a sixpack.
Just a quick question for the ladies here, how does a guy look at you in a way that some of you find so attractive and “make you shiver”?
Wracking my brains, I can’t really think of any different way I would gaze at a girl other than the way I already do, someone want to clarify?
Wow I meet almost all of your criteria! Height, check, cats, check… Haha!
I’m not sure how to describe the way a man looks at you that makes chills run up and down your back.
It’s the intent behind the gaze, I think. The eyes are the windows to the soul, and what’s inside becomes apparent in the eyes eventually.
Perhaps it’s just the deliciously exquisite feeling of knowing that you’ve commanded his attention. I am in a faithful monogamous relationship, but I wear sexual pheros sometimes just for the looks it brings.
There is a smoldering fire burning behind the eyes of a man who makes me shiver. He has explored his options mentally, and is making plans. 
I voted for smell first, then muscle tonality, height and hair style. Please show me that you care about yourself and are willing to invest the time to be sexy.
Long Hair is a killer for me.
My top triggers would be an attractive face - not necessarily “jaw structure,” but the overall appearance of his features, height, build, hairstyle, clothing, eyes, the way he looks at me, and his voice. Voices are really important to me, and if he sounds nasal, whiny or doesn’t speak well, that’s a huge turn off.
Lillian: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
For me it’s not just the way he looks, but confidence level and the way he carries himself. Intelligence and civility are a striking must. When a man takes care of himself, whatever his style is…it’s so attractive.
Great thread here and judging from the poll I think this helps me out for sure on what to work on like how I look at my wife sometimes and scent seem to be really big.
I think every man needs to read this thread and go thru every post here and take all the good info and apply it.
Thanks for bringing it back from the past. I’ll be giving it a read over.
Definitely a good read!
I’ll for sure know what to pay attention to when going out
Wow this was quite interesting to see the polls..
I’m curious now, is there a men’s one?
Intelligence… an average-looking man can quickly become very hot and a sexy man quickly very unattractive after they’ve spoken to me a few times. Over a prolonged period of time this makes a huge difference to me. I’ve only dated very intelligent men in my adulthood. This comes across through articulation, chosen hobbies, and is usually coupled with a curious and sometimes (not always) passionate mindset.