I have that one on my shelf, but have not yet read it but will.
There are so many great books out there, I wish I could get to them all!
This was indeed a very interesting (albiet long) watch it rings true in many ways, people of all levels will have worked out at least a few of the directions within it themselves but dont realise it until they watch.
Gets the thumbs up from me.
I tried watching it…but Tyler’s constant laughing to himself (as though he’s got some inside joke he’s not sharing with the rest of the world) or repeating himself with things like…“you just don’t know how all in your head it is.”
At one point I was like…OK I GET IT ITS IN MY HEAD… MOVE THE FUCK ON!!! SHOW ME THE WAY OR STFU!
Yeah there is a certain level of fluff you have to wade through with any of these … methodologies?
There are so many great books out there, I wish I could get to them all!
I’m actually reading The Game atm it does have some stuff I’m a sucker for myself mentioned in there.Mentioned to me by a guy I’m dating atm not sure how that happened. lol
Basic overly friendzoned geek type but also a pretty cool guy in general from what I can tell.Frankly as a bi-girl that has trouble talking to women I can kinda get what you guys run into.
Reading the game has me curious about other books out there and the different methods Pua’s use.
I’m by no means hostile to the community in general although like a lot of girls I wouldn’t want to end up on the wrong end of a one night stand when I’m actually a vulnerable creature beyond all the cockblocks and barriers.
I’ve always been more the nice girl type (actually among friends I’m known as the nice girl/sweetheart of the group even if I’m more of an alt girl) and I generally angle more towards the nice guy types.Shyness and insecurities included.
I just managed to tie up the loose ends on a 3 year mess four or five months ago and go on a friendly lunch only to find out oi I’m kicking it w a pua guy.
So I have a few questions for you guys.
Are there females in the pua community?
What kind of books should a girl read thats dating a pua guy?
And how often are pivots actually seen?
I don’t know about other girls.Some stuff I can confirm with me anyhow.
Funny is good approaching a bit from the front and to the side is good.Approaching from the backside of a girl is generally a bad idea unless doggy style is involved. 
Definitely don’t hover too long or stare too long without acknowledging the girl somehow.I tend to group back up with friends or find somewhere else to be if a guy does that with me.
Best recovery line I’ve ever heard in terms of the hovering and staring was “Oh, man I’m sorry you looked like my best friend from highschool.”
Conversation pieces are spiff.I’ve talked to guys I normally wouldn’t have because they had something intriguing going on.
Don’t slam on yourself unless you do it in a funny way and don’t do that too often.
Anyway, sorry for the girl on boy turf trespass I’m just curious. It’s actually a pretty titillating subject to look into. Any advice or questions would be cool but I’m more likely to notice them in pm plus that would make this less likely to hijack this thread which is so totally not my intent.
From my personal experience, Mainstream PUA has never really been a female orientated field since the game centers around understanding how women work and react with men and mens perception of realities and how to navigate them, women are naturally able to do these fundamentals that is to say an average females attraction and PUA skills would be akin to that of a male master pua. Infact I would go as far as to say reading all the PUA stuff could possibly jade the hell out of you and make any encounter a lesson in analysing the encounter for angles and removing your fun, some would say for most yes but when you get hit on by someone you find instantly attractive you wont be thinking about it… maybe.
Men and women are not equal - sorry to burst peoples bubbles, we are two sides to the same coin, so similar yet so intricately different. The only books that would translate well to female… er (inner)game is anything on NLP or the blueprint, since girls dont need to reinvent the wheel you are PUA precoded Looks can only get you so far unless you never want a LTR that goes anywhere and just a string of one night stands until they fade. Your best route of improvement is Inner Development and expanding your life experiences and knowledge.
Just my 2 cents.
Yeah, I’ve actually met 2 Lesbian PUA’s and one Bisexual (so she says though I suspect she leaned more strongly toward being lesbian) that specialized in “introducing” read seducing women that claim to be 100% hetero into "experimenting.
Anything and everything you can to be honest. Best way to look at it is in groups. The Game, Mystery Method, Rules of the Game, Magic Bullets, Love Systems,Revelation and the Pick Up Artist are all variations of Mystery’s M3 Model.
Some dismiss the model as being too predictable but I’ve found it to be more solid and consistent for what I’m looking for than many other schools of thought.
If you have no problems downloading torrents there’s Foundations, Transformations, Flawless Natural, the Jeffy Show and Blueprint Decoded by RSD Real Social Dynamics. This stuff is ok for a club environment and is great for scoring SDL’s (same day lays) and I’ve gotten my share trying these strategies but I’ve found too much buyers remorse when done this way. Some guys Like Ozzie and Tim come off very strong and aggressive sexually from the start and keep pushing for escalation in the face of resistance (which is very easy with drunk women) but I’ve found that the morning after the women are regretful, ashamed or embarrassed and I don’t get many follow up dates this way. The M3 model works better at making sure she feels a connection and see’s your innate value before escalating to help reduce both LMR before the fact and Buyers Remorse after.
Vin Dicarlo has some great stuff, Attraction Code is a great inner game foundation and S Cubed has some awesome techniques that can be incorporated into the M3 model where you effectively create a reverse supplication dynamic and the woman pursues you the way most men pursue her.
David Deangelo and Carlos Xuma are imo the truly advanced stuff. 99% focused on changing YOU as a man into the kind of guy that naturally attracts women without even trying. I prefer this because eventually I’m going to be a little too old to get away with waltzing into a club surrounded by people half my age. Techniques that work in club settings and day game techniques are two different animals.
Fairly often, although not always “in the know” most of the time the pivot is actually an uknowing pawn. Her presence and obvious attraction toward you works as social proof and then discreetly passed off to engage and occupy any obstacles, male or female leaving you and your chosen target unengaged and able to talk to each other without seeming rude or you being cock blocked.
Read “The professional Bachelor” by Dr Brett Tate. He’s a psycologist and the read is very entertaining and correct. In one section he breaks down females into 9 basic personality types. If you can figure out what type you are dealing with in a few minutes then you will know her greatest strengths,fears, and weaknesses. And they are bang on.
Did I ever mention this small masterpiece (think of it as PUA Through The Looking Glass) ?
His Amazon page was “1 Star Bombed” by a horde of pissed off women…
okay guys…just added those two books to my wish list. Thanks 
If you’re at all interested in serious self growth and development of your masculine side there’s “Way of the Superior Man”, and surprisingly you should consider reading “Living the Martial Way” by Forest Morgan, guys a retired Air Force Colonel and martial artist, he gets goes into some training tips and the like but even if you’re not a practicing martial artist the sections on cultivating honor and warrior presence are golden for developing inner game.
I have Way of the Superor Man, have read it 2x’s and listened to the CD lecture way too many times…LOL.
I appreciate Deida and his work. I’ve actually considered starting a Way Of The Superior Man meet up group here in Vegas. Basically a mastermind type group for men only, regarding men’s issues.
However, Living The Martial Way, I’m definitely gonna check that out too. I’m actually gonna be starting Krav Maga real soon for a variety of reasons, but to name a few… more confidence, more masculine energy in terms of hobbies and sports.
Thanks again for the title. I’ll definitely add that to my Amazon list.
I read this book a long long time ago - and it changed my life.
Hatchet. (Gary Paulsen)
Read it as a metaphor.
(Book for young adults, most people could probably finish it quickly.)
Dont judge me. 
I recently finished “What every Body is saying” by Joe Navarro
He´s a former FBI Agent Trainer for counterintelligence and his book is more about non sexual behaviour.
Helps a lot to see if somebody is comfortable around you and how they perceive you and react to your body language.
In my eyes knowing how to read body language signals is key to success with Pheromones.
LIKE “BAD BOY” Nessie recently said to me
---------------- IF YOU RELY ON WORDS YOU GOTTA LOOSE ----------
And i absolutely agree in this terms.
Other books i like are ..
- Allan & Barbara Pease - The Definate Book of Body Language
- Leil Lowndes - Undercover Sex Signals
- Martin Lloyd-Elliot - The secrets of Sexual Body Language ( great illustratet - a must read )
- The Body Language Project - only available as e-book on their site
Pago
I’ve said this many times before here, but Martial arts is a great hobby to have. I’ve been involved for over 10 years and am currently trying to get myself into the ring. I had a period in my life where I wasn’t training, and I was just not myself. I’ve seen training in martial arts make huge differences in some kids personalities and confidence too. Just make sure you find a legit gym and not some kiddy fitness based classes. At a good gym, you’ll get pushed beyond what you think your body can handle, and learn to be strong minded to handle it. I can not overstate all the positives that come out of joining a good martial arts program.
Off for the next 3 days, gonna go check it out and get signed up.
Good shit.
I want to get into martial arts again as well. I took “karate” at a couple different places when I was a kid but it was one of the less applicable types and I didn’t like it much.
I want to get into Krav Maga too and BJJ. Fortunately the place I want to go offers both. It’s about a 30 minute drive though so I’m waiting until I get better transportation.
This is a great conversation piece to have open on your coffee table..
hahaha… that and some pamphlets from your county health department.