How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List"

[terry0400-40]

@Pagodeiro

Terry as you´re living in Australia … check out Aussie Bums Wonder Jock Underwear

it´s fun to see the reaction of the girls …

Pago

Thanks man, they are just what i need when i next go do some sun bathing, its wet today so can purchase a few pairs and then get a dose of sun tomorrow

[ScienceStudent]

@thomaslavoie

How do you tell if a girl is attracted when: half of the sexy snobbish girls in my entourage know this “How to Tell a Women is Interested In You” list making them hide their reactions to cover how they really feel about you thinking they will get better males?

I have talked to many, many males, friends, guys, studs, muscle monsters, soft guys, basically, it all comes down to girls being snobbish in my region and refusing almost all of male offers, hiding their emotions and indicators of interest.

It’s so amazing how: the moment i leave my territory and go into any other city, girls are just so amazing and nice, cute and cuddly and just really want to know you, test you and easily accept you after a few hours, hoping to see you again the next day.

Girls in my city expect to get some sort of perfect male, even I don’t cut it. It’s amazing considering I’m some sort of guy that is perhaps the most knowledgeable and wisdom rich male in my region, living extreme health from a 100% pure raw (no food is denatured by heat, cooking, pasteurization or any modifications) organic vegan diet making me super mentally quick, very good looking and well proportioned, a guy that speak with a rich vocabulary in all languages and hangs around with the 5 most successful males in a whole province of 7 million people, what the hell is going wrong! Funny to think about that well know correlation’s with hight, head size and intelligence. Basically, I walk around with 5 guys measuring at least 6 foot who actually took part in the resent national assembly, are extreme over achievers.

Basically, we have a circle of friends of very large size and we all conclude that little males are fucking or loving (excuse my language) in the 17-21 age group.

With confusion, i honestly say that attracting these girls is actually more detrimental to my success with females due to female’s covering up of indicators of interest (what Jasmin was talking about in the start of this thread) thinking they can get better.

Me talking to a girls senses: well excuse me little materialist lady, billionaires don’t exist unless you drive down to Montréal or Toronto, well good luck with the guard dogs. (Knowing well the importance of hiding my money because the cash is flowing in the Thomas Lavoie family.)

Wow, you sound snobbish: ‘name-dropping’ the “5 most successful men in a province of 7 million”, “perhaps the most knowledgeable and wisdom rich male in [your] region” – major turn-offs. Not to mention raw vegan – too inflexible to (almost) ever share food with a lady. In short, maybe there is something about yourself they pick up on, being more (unfortunately) jaded as they are used to city guys, and the gals in other towns are just more naive.

[cjw255]

You sound like you’re too much work for a girl…u shouldalso move

[ScienceStudent]

@00greena

As you probably know, most women decide in the first three minutes of meeting you whether you are lover material or simply another lowly “friend.” What you may not know is that those three minutes are also the minutes during which you run simple, low-risks tests on her to find out of she is interested in you romantically. If she is then you have “pre-qualified” her, and can move forward with more confidence into asking her out, initiating, going for the first kiss, etc. If she is not interested then you have found out, you haven’t taken much time, you’ve risked almost nothing, and can move on to someone else. Youve got to make use of those key three minutes to find out if she is open to the idea of being lovers with you. While it’s not completely effortless, if you run a few simple tests during that critical period, you can find out.

These first three minutes are the best time to both find out if she is interested in you and to help generate and increase whatever interest in you she does have. Let’s recap a woman’s first experience of you: When a woman meets you, even if she thinks you are cute, you represent a problem to her. While you are thinking about great she’d look naked, and wondering if those are her real breasts, she is thinking about how you will probably leave her like all the others, and is convincing herself that she shouldn’t even bother with you. Her natural inclination will be to put you into the “friends” category right away, just to keep her life calm. And if you act like a friend, that is exactly what will happen.

When you show romantic interest right away, however, you are throwing a monkey wrench into her “friends” plan. You are not going quietly into that dark night of “just friends.” No, you are putting yourself in the “potential lover” category by doing the things a potential lover would do. When you do those things, it is easier for her to go with the flow, and–provisionally, at least–to think of you as a potential lover. After all, you are acting like a potential lover, aren’t you? It’s easier just to think of you as one.

When you do these flirting moves, you are not only trying to stay out of the “friends” zone. You are also testing her, to get a sense of how open she is to being seduced.

For instance, does she blush when you wink at her, or look angry? Does she smile when you check out her body, or does she reach for her rape whistle? Does she glow when you compliment her beauty, or does she give you a stern lecture about he patriarchal nature of the way men treat women and the disgustingly phallocentric practice of modern dating? By testing her with the flirting moves, you can find out her level of interest or disinterest without doing much work or taking much risk.

We’ve been over these moves before–the difference now is that you are thinking about these flirting moves as tests, rather than as initiations. You are finding out, through these tests, how open she is to being seduced.

Here’s what to do:

The wink test. You can wink at her from across the room, or wink at her during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, give her a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of. If she relaxes and laughs, she’s interested in more. If she gets cold or more remote, she’s not.

The body-check test. The goal of this test is for her to see that you notice her body, without leaving her feeling objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking her in the eyes. This should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking the glance. If she seems relaxed or happy when you meet her eyes again, she’s interested in more. If she gets cold or more remote, she is not.

The eye-contact test. While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once, hold the eye contact a little “too long”–just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you. If she holds your eye, she’s interested in more. If she looks away or seems upset by it, she’s not.

The compliment test. In this test you give her a compliment, and see how she takes it. The only trap here is that the compliment must be one a potential lover would make, not one a tepid friend would. Here’s the difference: A man who is destined to be a woman’s friend compliments her by saying something like, “You have a very nice briefcase.” The compliment doesn’t show that he is interested in her romantically. It doesn’t test her, because it hasn’t give her anything romantic to react to. A real compliment is something like, “Wow, you have beautiful eyes,” or, “I have to tell you, you have really great style. You just light up the room.” If she smiles at your compliment, and thanks you warmly, she’s interested in more. If she seems uncomfortable, she’s not.

Any flirting move can be made into a testing move. The key is that romantic-interest testing moves must 1) make it clear in some small way that you are romantically interested while 2) not be so risky that you are either scary or putting your ego on the line.

With a little practice these moves (and more like them) will become second-nature to you, and you won’t even have to think about them–you will automatically do them every time you meet a woman you are attracted to. Her responses will tell you if she is interested or not, and you can assess whether or not you should initiate more aggressively, and take bigger risks, from that knowledge.

Greena, two things:

1.) Women can be shy. Have a little patience. Women can be smart about themselves and others. Have a little patience.

2.) From your descriptions you go a little overboard/heavy/strong on the flirting – those are the only (cute) guys that are ever permanently on my “no-fly” list. I think they are players and not to be trusted. Have a little patience!

I won’t decide I will sleep with someone in ≤ 3 minutes, but I can decide I won’t! Primary reasons for this include:

Physical: active (not necessarily “fit” but not overweight), overall looks, dress, and hygiene (trying too hard can be as bad as too little)

Mental: I have a brain – stimulate that. No, no, up here.

Personality: trying too hard, pretending you don’t care, being drunk, being sleazy (includes most of the flirting techniques mentioned here if done “overboard”), plus I’ll assume if you’re THAT into me without knowing me, that you are “just looking for a good time,” and let you “go fly” on your own!

[smiley2493]

This is such a cool forum.

Definitely true about all these signs we get from women. Have you ever noticed how its almost like their telling a lie??

Right?! Because think about it, what do you do when you tell a lie? All the household telltale signs

1. Blushing
2. Eyes darting around
3. Repeating the same stupid phrase over and over again

etc…

just a thought

S

[smiley2493]

sorry to get off topic..im new here and didnt read the whole thread.

S

[GCM-Daniel]

Nice post Jasmin!!! I have a ? though. Theres this girl i know and she does a lot of these when im around her. I could just be sitting there a glance her way and shes always looking. But i know shes already but me in the " friend zone". what can i do to “fix” this.

[Phoenix]

@terry0400-40

Thanks man, they are just what i need when i next go do some sun bathing, its wet today so can purchase a few pairs and then get a dose of sun tomorrow

hello Terry and welcome back

[terry0400-40]

@Phoenix

hello Terry and welcome back

A welcome from a great man is always warmly appreciated cheers terry TAB

[Fly_So_Hi]

@00greena

…

When you show romantic interest right away, however, you are throwing a monkey wrench into her “friends” plan. You are not going quietly into that dark night of “just friends.” No, you are putting yourself in the “potential lover” category by doing the things a potential lover would do. When you do those things, it is easier for her to go with the flow, and–provisionally, at least–to think of you as a potential lover. After all, you are acting like a potential lover, aren’t you? It’s easier just to think of you as one.

When you do these flirting moves, you are not only trying to stay out of the “friends” zone. You are also testing her, to get a sense of how open she is to being seduced.

But according to Mystery, if you telegraph interest before creating attraction, wouldn’t it lower your value? I like the general idea, but i think you shouldn’t show romantic interest right away, but maybe sexual interest, like the following:

The body-check test. The goal of this test is for her to see that you notice her body, without leaving her feeling objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking her in the eyes. This should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking the glance…

This one is really good!

The eye-contact test. While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once, hold the eye contact a little “too long”–just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you. If she holds your eye, she’s interested in more. If she looks away or seems upset by it, she’s not.

I like this one too!

Fly

[shaunkik]

Hello Jasmin… Thanks to you for sharing this wonderful “Interest list” here with all of us… Really the information mentioned by you in your post is very good one to consider ,what a women is thinking off… Shaun Kik.

[bullyhill]

Hi,
New here, Thanks for great info Jasmin. I will update my profile to reflect who I am and why I am here after this post.

I wanted to add to this list of signals that we might come across out and about. I have not read all 24 pages of this topic but most so I hope I didn’t miss this.

I have never, not been with a girl who gave me their foot to examine their nail polish or lack thereof. Feet are a sensual region and barrier or door for women as I see it. Maybe this can be supported or not just my findings.

This may be obvious but figured I would contribute…get that foot and be nice to it men. The foot bone is directly connected to the thigh bone.

[level]

I could use some insight, I see allot of women watching me when I’m out and about at night along with having my mones on. My question is what are you thinking when your looking at me and watching me during the night are you just curious to who I am or attracted
Thanks Level

[bullyhill]

IMHO if you are not the type to pursue without confirmation of whether or not they are attracted to you, yet you are catching them look then respond in the same manner add an approving smile/grin/nod…see how she responds

Now she might look away fast or smile back…could mean nothing but you just made your introductions. and easier for her to look again…Of course I’m a guy and might have this all wrong but seems to work even if to break the ice for a casual evening. You need a girl to answer this one…lolol

Good Luck

[Dave_Rogers]

@00greena

As you probably know, most women decide in the first three minutes of meeting you whether you are lover material or simply another lowly “friend.” What you may not know is that those three minutes are also the minutes during which you run simple, low-risks tests on her to find out of she is interested in you romantically. If she is then you have “pre-qualified” her, and can move forward with more confidence into asking her out, initiating, going for the first kiss, etc. If she is not interested then you have found out, you haven’t taken much time, you’ve risked almost nothing, and can move on to someone else. Youve got to make use of those key three minutes to find out if she is open to the idea of being lovers with you. While it’s not completely effortless, if you run a few simple tests during that critical period, you can find out.

These first three minutes are the best time to both find out if she is interested in you and to help generate and increase whatever interest in you she does have. Let’s recap a woman’s first experience of you: When a woman meets you, even if she thinks you are cute, you represent a problem to her. While you are thinking about great she’d look naked, and wondering if those are her real breasts, she is thinking about how you will probably leave her like all the others, and is convincing herself that she shouldn’t even bother with you. Her natural inclination will be to put you into the “friends” category right away, just to keep her life calm. And if you act like a friend, that is exactly what will happen.

When you show romantic interest right away, however, you are throwing a monkey wrench into her “friends” plan. You are not going quietly into that dark night of “just friends.” No, you are putting yourself in the “potential lover” category by doing the things a potential lover would do. When you do those things, it is easier for her to go with the flow, and–provisionally, at least–to think of you as a potential lover. After all, you are acting like a potential lover, aren’t you? It’s easier just to think of you as one.

When you do these flirting moves, you are not only trying to stay out of the “friends” zone. You are also testing her, to get a sense of how open she is to being seduced.

For instance, does she blush when you wink at her, or look angry? Does she smile when you check out her body, or does she reach for her rape whistle? Does she glow when you compliment her beauty, or does she give you a stern lecture about he patriarchal nature of the way men treat women and the disgustingly phallocentric practice of modern dating? By testing her with the flirting moves, you can find out her level of interest or disinterest without doing much work or taking much risk.

We’ve been over these moves before–the difference now is that you are thinking about these flirting moves as tests, rather than as initiations. You are finding out, through these tests, how open she is to being seduced.

Here’s what to do:

The wink test. You can wink at her from across the room, or wink at her during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, give her a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of. If she relaxes and laughs, she’s interested in more. If she gets cold or more remote, she’s not.

The body-check test. The goal of this test is for her to see that you notice her body, without leaving her feeling objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking her in the eyes. This should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking the glance. If she seems relaxed or happy when you meet her eyes again, she’s interested in more. If she gets cold or more remote, she is not.

The eye-contact test. While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once, hold the eye contact a little “too long”–just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you. If she holds your eye, she’s interested in more. If she looks away or seems upset by it, she’s not.

The compliment test. In this test you give her a compliment, and see how she takes it. The only trap here is that the compliment must be one a potential lover would make, not one a tepid friend would. Here’s the difference: A man who is destined to be a woman’s friend compliments her by saying something like, “You have a very nice briefcase.” The compliment doesn’t show that he is interested in her romantically. It doesn’t test her, because it hasn’t give her anything romantic to react to. A real compliment is something like, “Wow, you have beautiful eyes,” or, “I have to tell you, you have really great style. You just light up the room.” If she smiles at your compliment, and thanks you warmly, she’s interested in more. If she seems uncomfortable, she’s not.

Any flirting move can be made into a testing move. The key is that romantic-interest testing moves must 1) make it clear in some small way that you are romantically interested while 2) not be so risky that you are either scary or putting your ego on the line.

With a little practice these moves (and more like them) will become second-nature to you, and you won’t even have to think about them–you will automatically do them every time you meet a woman you are attracted to. Her responses will tell you if she is interested or not, and you can assess whether or not you should initiate more aggressively, and take bigger risks, from that knowledge.

Good stuff Thanks
If over a period of dating, the eye contact goes from almost always looking away to keeping longer contact,is that a sign of romantic interest or just being more comfortable with you?

[Gotchaz]

It’s a sign she’s into you and showing interest in what your saying. She’s also more comfortable and wants you to look at her. When they look away they are being shy and nervous and unsure to open up.

[Kfactor]

Thanks for list really helps

[mayro]

Hi Jasmin…I been to this farewell party and I noticed one of my colleague showed most signs.
First she notices me every time I pass thru in office as well, also she is Asian n I m Indian.

In this party she changed her place n sat in front of me.. We had a nice chat all d time, but when we went to buy a drink I bought her a drink n I said u welcome but u owe me one (I was jocking) n I noticed she didn’t like that lil, and I made my self clear that I was jocking.

After some time she bought me a drink even after I said no ( was that offensive to Asian girl?) and I told her I didnt like she bought me a drink even after I made my self clear about jock.
Then what happen her glass fell down n took a chance n bought her a new drink.

What u think have I made right immpression? No than tell me how to make it right we have another party soon.

Tnx for ur help

[7.80]

Is TAH for Women or MEN???

[1Alpha]

TAH…

@7.80

Is TAH for Women or MEN???

As it’s an experimone, it is usually used and reported by men and women. However, I’ve read some excellent effects TAH has on women…

Though, you’ll be hard pressed to find it, as it’s not available in the AD store… been out of stock, at least since I went looking for it late last year…