Pull this
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I noticed some comments that are very much alike in the posts above. And they are about noticing the hits or signs women give, then wondering how to take it to the next level.
Being in the field of mens’ development I come across this a lot. The key is to cause attraction. From what I read the pheromones give you the advantage or the opener..which..in my opinion is a HUGE leap above what most men even can gander at. That being said, a person has to know the steps, and know what creates attraction in women. Also know, it won’t make sense to you as a man…because..you’re a man..she’s a woman.
If I could give even a small pointer..don’t be a “friend.” However, in conversation..it might help to say things like, “You seem like you’d be a great friend,” but in the same context do things that friends just wouldn’t do. Its unpredictable, makes her think that maybe you’re not just another joe, and gives you some status.
Another key, and this is used by PUA guru’s, dating guru’s etc…but it works miracles..and that is understand and use the combination of cocky and funny.
Not being so cocky you’re a douchebag or too funny that you’re just a silly clown…but sort of a stone buster and she wonders where you get your material.
I hope this helps..even a little bit. There of course is this wonderful thing called Google and heaps of info on it. Also, understanding the art of Body Language is a HUGE plus. In every situation. Its saved me on so many occasions.
Cheers
Very good advice. SOLID 
Exactly! me 2 !! :o
way to many ppl look for IOI’s in the end relying fully upon them and pulling a time constraint on themselves. This is all part of outdated outer game. Better to be natural and more alpha than looking for useless IOIs just to move in. Real men dont they are the ones to decide by natural belief to “have fun” and naturally create attraction.
Finished reading this thread, lots of good pointers, I suddenly feel like my hairdresser want to have sex with me (been friends for a looong time).
On to the next thread I suppose :- )
mind to share your mix to make all those girls crazy on you ? =D
Hi Jasmin,
Your list is great and depressing. I’m 44 and I have never seen any of these indicators. I guess thats what I get for being a nice guy.
When I was studying PUA with a bunch of guys, one thing that was helpful was to get the boys to just slow down and pay attention. Universally, everyone noticed a lot more women checking them out.
On average – A lot of guys are more internally focused, internal dialogue, internal pictures… less attention spread outwards with looking and listening. n average – a lot of women will at least take in enough of the external world to make judgments, i.e. internal dialogue normally shows up as a response to outward stimulus, compared to guys who may skip the outside stimulus entirely.
Just averages, that’s all. The other thing is, about 75% of men don’t have a strong enough sense of Self and are too aware of trying to keep the peace between themselves and the other person… can come across as pandering douchebags, lovable losers, etc. This comes from how men start their development, getting enthralled with girls a certain way, forgetting sometimes that they themselves (the men) even exist, then developing a sense of self that tries to strike a balance.
Contrasted with the girl, who grows up in a society obsessing over a certain kind of femininity, who makes the guy wrong (her friends too). Actually, if you learn to playfully roll your eyes at someone, you’ll be well on your way to cocky and funny in a way that puts you in rapport with about 75% of women out there. If you can roll your eyes in a girlish way (making someone wrong) and do it funny, and direct it towards someone that the girl also thinks is silly, stupid, etc. (or it can be suggested to the woman that the person is so), then you’ll be waaaay far along into rapport.
This is an easily implemented tip, I think
Jeannine
A Journey Towards Freedom
I don’t know if anyone in the past 11 pages had brought this up, but:
Lip biting - Specifially, the lower lip. A little lower lip caught between the teeth as we smile and have a conversation (or send you steaming looks) tends to mean we want you. Not to be confused with when we’re scared or uncomfortable with a situation, but facial looks tend to be way different with that kind of emotion.
I find myself doing it a lot! Especially if I have the feeling like I’m gonna look goofy with a big old grin, so I bite my lower lip instead and give you the ‘look’.
Any advice on how to look back and smile?
I know, there is this girl I think is interested but im a faceless
Still waiting for my pheros shipment but damn, I don’t know if it is desire so much tension.
To everyone and the OP: A very good indicator that a woman is interested is if she copies your body language. On several occasions, I noticed that the woman I was chatting with was copying me. If I had my arms crossed, she did the same; if it was my finger in my belt-loop, or my arm on my hip and she copied it, I pursued it by revealing my intentions (ableit slowly). Every time it led to sex!
I agree. Also no matter how much a person “knows” of indicators, the blatent ones anyhow, your body CANNOT lie. It can’t. Either your feet, arms, shoulders, chin, eyes, …will show it. Its hard, but not impossible to know indicators well and to see slight millisecond responses even if a girl is hiding them. And…say they are…who cares, you go out, you have fun and if you get a pick up great! The goal should always be to interact and have fun.
Trying to “Seal the deal” puts a lot of pressure on a person and also you will subconsciously give indicators that you want something from other people and they’ll feel that from you.
Use a salesperson for example. A good salesman knows how to hide he’s a salesman by going at an angle he really doesn’t need the sale and that he has the other party’s best interest. The ones who are genuine in the other party’s interest (do a degree) and by interest I mean good time, are usually the deal closers.
What if a girl ties her hair then unties it and lets her hair down a few minutes later? Is that an Indicator?
It cou;d very well be. It’s definitely hair play, but you need to pay mind to other indicators as well. Sometimes hair play is just that…hair play
It shows a certain of amoutn of anxiety or beuing unsure, She knows something ism happening not sure what. I have found that as well but with P75. My lady friend knew she was feeling kind of touchy but did not klnow why it was out of character for her.
try again, make notes of what you wore and number of sprays. Watch for similar results. I think you are getting close
Twogunz, if that was for me, I wore 2 sprays of Ammo on the wrist plus 2 on the neck. 3 sprays of TUTH on the sides of the neck and chest. Plus 1 spray each of IO on the back of my elbow. If I’m getting close with what I wore, should I up the sprays?
I noticed there were a couple of times where she was leaning a bit closer.
She was practically throwing herself at you. So what did you do about it?
If you can, pick up some P75. It is like instant magic for me. It breaks down all the socila barriers, makes them know they want to do something, sometimes they are not sure what tehy want to do, but usually it gets intense from there.
Some A314 for that authoritative feel and the self efects of confidence no more than 2 sprays. If you know she is warming up, then i would consider going one more spray of TUTH to push it over teh edge. You will probably notice a lot of kINO.. (TPOUCHY FEELY) WITH TEH EXTRA SPRAY. For me four of TUTH had things hot and wet
If she was leaning closer, lean towards her, slip your arm around her shoulder and be that Wise Domionant male (A314 time) let her feel protected and let her know that you are a man in charge of his own destiny. She may pull back, thats ok too. Just make sure she is exposed to the mones for a while. If you dont have A314, you will like the self effects. use a push pull with her. let her get a bit close, pull back she will start to chase you . Women just like men want to have what seems out of their reach. remember relationships are an intricaste dance. one wrong step and its off to friends land for you. hard to recover from that.
Now I have used MEO-EST, and P75 with IO and IG. A deadly mix. It broke down all barriers, got things close and the litle touchy feely this woman used to do was replaced witjh groping. I have never been groped before ina gym full of people. Some of teh guys smiled, some of teh women stared probbaly wondering what i did to deserve a grope or the could smell teh mones and wanted some. Either way. it was a good nite