Is there a pheromone mix that makes this reaction?
I got an weak mate, which always get in trouble cause of lame hoes who only make a figth with the clearly weakest and harmless ones, to try to prove that their a though guy.
Every1 else than their self know the lamers are weak and retarded as we can see the situation in 3rd person.
Anyway, I would love to help him out in anyway, like they fear him or maybe respect, I dont think A314 would help, since hes body language is CLEARLY stating hes not an Alpha.
Defffo not using Instant Jerk
Well, I really think he ought to improve his body language first, and look like less of a victim. That looks like the root of the problem. You sound like you know the score with portraying/recognising Alpha body language so you could teach him a few things.
I think there are a few pheros that would help your friend portray a “tougher” image, and as you know these are things like -none based products and A314, but for him to wear them without the foundation of a good confident image would not work and would in fact be a disaster.
Yeah, I have had to coach a friend into overcoming some of his more beta-type traits because he was getting picked on (not physically but socially) It’s a tricky one because no one likes to be told outright that their body language is poor, or that they don’t project a very confident image. But, with a bit of sensitivity, you can get the point across in an acceptable way and steer him in the right direction.
Pheromones won’t help jack shit with your friend’s situation.
He needs to learn for himself, how to avoid those situations, and if they arise, how to deal with it, whether that means diffusing the situation or using those fists.
If everyone knows that the lamers are weak and retarded, why does anyone even pay attention to them? Sure, you can’t just ignore fists flying at you, but you can ignore the invitations (so to speak) to have some fists fly in your face.
I was shot down by a girl last night, some other guys who saw it started chanting ‘Asian Faggot!’ Sure, I could have walked over and confronted them, instead I just gave them steady eye contact from across the room, one by one, until they stopped.
When I was leaving, they decided to try one more time and started up again. By then, I was already out the door and on my way home. They probably got their thrills. I don’t really care much as I avoided a situation I didn’t need to be in and got my food and sleep like I wanted.
Sometimes it’s not about appearing ‘strong’, but it’s about what you do with your strength.
This happens when where out drinking, neither talking or or looking them in the eyes will make them stop, they mostly hooked on worse thing than alcohol which makes them very agressive…
Im rly tired of fighting hes fight and trying to teach him some tricks. I personally find an small fight entertaining and fun if its not with weak ppl who dont know how to protect theirself.
Well, its back to basic then if theres no phero that will help in that situation, sure the ones who fighted him has stopped, but he keeps getting in trouble with new ppl
Its like he glow and weak aura around him:S
So let me get this straight, your friend DOESN’T start anything? They just beat on him for no reason at all? He could be breathing and they’ll just beat on him? Man, what does your friend look like? Does he look like a punching bag? Nerdy beyond words? I say he needs to lift some weights and walk with confidence, maybe even take some martial arts lessons to build up his confidence besides also having something to fall back on if he needs to fight. Avoiding a fight is the way to go, but he needs to walk with a “don’t fuck with me” attitude.
I wouldn’t give up on pheros without even trying. Yes, he needs to change his attitude, but pheros can give him a glimpse of what it feels like to have a different attitude.
Problem is that anything that might work is something that might backfire. Let him experiement with some of your pheros in a safe environment to see what happens. See what he likes and see what attitude changes you notice. On separate occasions, I’d have him try A314, Instant Gentleman and Ammo. Instat Jerk is even worth a try. He might enjoy becoming someone nobody messes with because they have no idea what he’s liable to do next. But again experiment in a safe environment first! I remember someone getting an interesting (submissive) reaction when wearing copulins around tough guys – it does raise testosterone levels.
Or going in the opposite direction, social phereomones (IO, IH, IS) might make him into somebody men have simply no interest in bothering.
Why do I have a feeling that you are that nerd? Why would someone so confident as you on the internet help someone like him out every fight he has ?
Anyway, i’d suggest some alpha male ebooks for him! and maybe if he gets busy with a girl or 2 they could make him more confident and that will help his self esteem
hehe, Im rly not him, Im simply tired of always keeping an eye on him if gets in trouble, so I hoped that an easy sulution as pheros would remove that weight from my shoulders, and also make him feel safe when were out clubbing.
He simply is not an alpha male, he has always been every1 bitch since i started school with him as 7 years old.
When he tries to take the command every1 just lol.
The fact is that he get alot of girls, hes to nice, they always put him in the very good friend catagory, but yet he have a lot of girls around him, while the lame loosers which dont know how to act around womens, thinks beating him is the sulution.
I dont quite know how to teach away alpha behaviour as Ive always been it by nature, I always knew that ivee been the one in command, in every classes and groups, but i didnt know it was classified as a thing, until i read about it here actually lol, in Norway I dont think there and word for it, not that i know atleast.
As ive seen it, since ive been the strongest and strongest minded it flows naturally that ppl listen and obey…
I dont think he will ever manage to get strong, some ppl simply aint build for physical strength. Sadly hes phsycial strength is weak to, if he struggles he always ask for help…
If you want to help your friend, Buy him a bottle of A314 and sign up for a self defense class like karate or something with him. (He probably wont do it on his own) This will give a alpha aura and help him build his confidence up so when he is comfronted he will better be able to handle it.
I dont quite know if that will do it, hes actually in the Military where they learn close combat self defense, he tries them on me, but hes so unbelivable weak i can resist it easly.
I think he would need to learn some super ninja 1 ko moves or something, I actually know about some which include pressure point attacks on the body, and tried to learn him, but hes to afraid to use it if i actually learn them.
First I need to talk him into rly making an effort and build confidence, which is hard cause he doesnt belive in himself, no matter what I say
There is a fear pheromone (not sold in a bottle) Dogs can smell fear on people. If your friend is afraid no matter how big he is they will sense it and zero in on him.
I think your right and you need to help him concentrate on confidence.
both actually, and they affect each other, when he for once belive he physically can achive something but fails all the time hes weakened physical. and lose hes beliefs.
Pheromones are not a magic potion… Sounds like this guy has more than just a “low alpha” problem. Luckily for him you seem to be on his side. People just like dogs will respond to body language and tone of voice more than the pheromones that someone is putting off. I agree with Tisha that the A314 could help but I don’t think that is the real problem. Have this guy get used to talking to people in an even steady voice while showing positive “alpha like” body language and things might improve. The self defense thing is a good thought because it will teach him how to avoid the fights all together which will benefit him the most.
Have him check out this book it has helped others: Without Embarrassment by Michael Pilinski
You can find this as an Ebook if you search for it, maybe you can even get it free from some of the P2P communities out there.
Alpha is all about mindset. Mindset has to be there before anything else for it to work. I recommend two things:
“How to become an Alpha Male” by John Alexander. This book basically focuses on making you a healthier more self reliant man, instead of trying to turn you into a pickup artist. It’s based on the idea that once you master your inner self, the rest will follow automatically. Very good book.
The 2008 Alpha/Dominant Male Subliminal Training Set. (2009 version should be out soon, too.) This is a 6 CD set of silent subliminals designed to be used as a progressive stepladder approach to training your mind. Each CD is intended to be used for 32 days, and each stage takes you further along the journey than the last. It’s based on a very similar concept to the book mentioned above, and produces really good results with almost no effort. Instead of becoming a pickup artist, it will give you a healthy inner strength that you can use to build on in any direction you like.
and that will help his self esteem