I may not have sex on the first date; but if he doesn’t make a move or offer - there’s no second date. I don’t get the 3 month BS. As long as everyone concerned are consenting, of age and not hurting anyone else - I don’t see the problem with gettin’ nekkid and doin’ what they do on the Discovery Channel . . . 
Of course, that can get complicated with some double standards. 
Yeah. See. That’s the thing. I understand some people got their personal or religious reason or whatever. But it’s either you do or you don’t. What is that?! It’s not like she’s saying she won’t have sex before marriage. More like… if you wait 3 or 4 years we can finally do the deed. Huh?! Either you won’t before marriage or you will. It should be that simple and then the person can decide move accordingly. shrugs
lol! Hahaha… but VERY true! Double standards and varied definitons abound! When someone says that, you really have to figure out what they mean by “sex” in the first place. There are several variations of things (not to get graphic… I don’t know… is there really censorship/edicate here?) that some people don’t consider “sex” or have basically all the same effects/outcomes more or less that they don’t count (even though they ACTUALLY ARE if you are really honest with yourself about them!).
Some people like to trick themselves into believing they “don’t have sex” or are “virgins” and what-have-you. So really… any time someone says that, you really tend to need a little more information. For all you know, they might say that and then still expect you to do something for them… one way street style… shrugs 
omg. That’s just . . . I don’t even know what to say about that. How does anyone expect that? …
Well, everything was going well with this girl. We spoke about sex a couple of times (not for us, but in general, like trying to convince a friend to take a guy into the shower, and then she, one of her friends, and I spoke about what it would be like to have sex on a laundry machine in the public laundry room).
We had a few conversations, I visited her quite a bit, sometimes she wanted me to visit and I said ‘no,’ (trying to keep her guessing).
However, the past 2 days have not been well. I’m guessing it’s because I never made a move (but, like I said, as horrible as it may sound, I’m in it with her probably for the sex b/c the princess attitude doesn’t flow well with me). She doesn’t answer my texts. I was in her lounge, BBMed her asking her to visit me b/c I was doing work, and she read the BBM, never responded.
It doesn’t REALLY bother me, honestly, because although she’s cute, I don’t think she’s anything special. It’s just weirding me out a little bit. One day warm, the next day cold. I guess that’s the nature of the beast. I’m going to go into the “well, if you’re gonna act like that, I don’t care” mode and just cold shoulder and stop talking to her. See what happens.