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Intrusive Partners - Elusive Mates: The Pursuer-Distancer Dynamic in Couples (Hardcover)
by Stepehn Betchen

“The emotionality or intensity that accompanies this process, however, may result in fusion followed by a desperate need for space or distance”

If Only I Had Known: Avoiding Common Mistakes In Couples Therapy

by Gerald R. Weeks

"couples are the most difficult of all client systems to control "