Here is a post that I put together for a new gal on the forum that I think you may enjoy:
Welcome Ashley!
Note this, because mones on their lonesome will not make the adorable go away or make the charismatic automagically be your vibe or feel to others.
For example the IShine and IH, applied at the same time, different application points(One to each wrist or pulse points on the neck).
The IShine, will be a feel of “comfortable to be around you” with your words, body language and attitude steering it to a ‘Fun to be around you’ vibe. If you’re a wall flower, stuck in your own head, with a closed body language, you’ll tear down that “comfortable to be around you” Pheromone vibe completely.
So, let’s take that IShine induced, attitude supported, ‘Fun to be around you’ vibe, which, by the way can be from the first few seconds around you that people will feel that way, to a few minutes of ‘marinating’ in your Shine, looking at a time frame.
With that, IH will be working quite easily for people to open up around you, possibly talk about deep fears, desires and want to open up to you as you would a long time, intimate friend.
Will this get you a charismatic vibe? Hell ya! You’ll guide it there with the rest of your social arsenal.
Couple of more thoughts. Many times, mones have a personal/self effect as well. The IShine can provide a bit of a confidence boost in you. Good thing, too, if you’re a bit reserved and shy.
You’ll also see that the same effect of deep conversation can also influence YOU, in the IH. This can be good or bad, depending on the situation… blurting out your feelings for someone at work, which you have a secret crush, may not be the best place to do so, especially if you know that, it WOULD NOT work out and make things awkward later.
IH, I’ve observed may also bring about deep ‘Mental’ conversations within your own mind or those people around you. They/You may get caught up in these ‘Mental’ conversations and not share with others. It’s a possibility. 
I’ve also mentioned several times, people around you, which is men and women. I know you’ve mentioned men to feel at ease with you and step up. Keep in mind, these mones don’t discriminate as it’s a kind of mone cloud around you that will influence both sexes around you. You also leave a mone ‘wake’ behind you that many times will be attributed to you.
‘If there are many people around, how do people KNOW the mones are from me?’ You may ask.
Here is an example, albeit, fairly rough, but, and that there is not designed as a pun, but, hey… there it is again.
Imagine you’re in a room full of people. While there, you slowly get the scent of a nasty gas that someone let out. First, depending on the people you’re with, may slowly look around, trying to pinpoint the culprit. In some rooms of people, yelling outloud, Maaan, who let ONE out!??, would be more appropriate.
In either case, once you’re attention has been grabbed by the scent and your mind is automatically looking for the origin, you’ll notice the direction, strength, and subtle facial and body hints from the offending human and his/her offending olfactory gift. You can just TELL this gal was the flatulence producer!
In a similar way, when wearing mones, the people around you will be doing just that, except, in YOUR case, you’ll be showing off your best face, body language and attitude that says, Damn Straight, those mones are MINE!
You’re reporting, Ashley, on how these mones work for YOU will be beneficial for the study and improvement of the women’s line of mones.
Be awesome and make it an awesome day!
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