To stand out in a good way. Maybe even more then the “pretty” girls. ( im not talking about going slutty or something. ) I need advice from a male point of view. Im especially interested in the guys who can have any girl: WHAT makes a girl “better” and more special/ attactive then all those others.
That will ALWAYS depend on THAT PARTICULAR guy’s taste buds, dear. If a guy LOVES boobs, legs, hair color, height, weight, butt, or what have you … he’s gonna have an eye for what does it for him, and the one with what’s on the top of HIS MENU will be more attractive than all the others. As for mones … you’re gonna have to ask the ladies.
For the M to the M … a nice round set of toilet grippers (has nothing to do with size, shape 
) with matching legs!!! But the legs are not a deal breaker. 
It’s going to be different for every guy. I think it’s a great idea to be well balanced, and not be over paranoid about looks, makeup mini skirt to get noticed…etc. Be who you are, but adjust different areas if you see them lacking. Maybe get a more stylish cut. Change up the clothing a bit. Be a little more outgoing, but not enough to appear hard up for attention.
Above all, be who you are, but try to make small adjustments here and there and not be worried about trying new things in life. And…please. Keep your morals. That’s such a turn on for me…a woman who has self respect because she has morals…not because she’s arrogant.
But…I aint no genius. 
Get in shape. Smile more.. Dress for more attention (fashionably not slutty)…
Get a new hairdo.
Why do you think no one notices you? Describe yourself?
Not a male but I will add my two cents…
There really is no guy that can have any girl nor is there a girl who can have any guy.
Be the best you, you can be. The minute you become happy with who you are on the inside as well as the outside, people will notice. You mentioned in your other post that “I am sick of this feeling” no one else can change that feeling but you, its yours. If you keep thinking your less then in some way to your friend then you will be.
I will tell you this though… If you just want to be noticed when you walk in a room work on the visual things. If you want men to fall “in love” with you then work on whats inside you because what is seen with the eyes is often an illusion but what is seen with the heart is lasting. Whats on the outside may help attract but whats on the inside is what keeps them coming back. I know many absolutely gorgeous women who are self absorbed bitches. Sure they get noticed but its fleeting.
From your other post I surmise your already fairly confident in how you look. The moment you become confident in who you are is the moment you step out of your own shadow. The moment that happens your hair cut, clothes and the size of your boobs wont matter any more.
Tisha
Editted to correct mistaken identity 
If by notice, you mean talk to you, here’s at least one idea that can work for men or women. Apply two sprays of IO to each wrist. Adjust as you see fit. At a bar or some similar venue, ask someone a question which doesn’t have a yes or no answer. “I’ve never been here before. Is this place any good?”
The have a special degree of friendliness that makes it easy for men to feel comfortable talking to them. They are usually far less self-conscious about their own sexuality than their female peers. They know who they are.
I’m the guy version of this. I’m usually off to the side and will interact, but I have to initiate. I am confident and smart. Plus, I don’t come off as an asshole. I am usually older than the crowd I hang with. So, maybe it’s because I’m the old guy. I really don’t spend much time thinking about this, but I can relate.
Tisha that topic you are talking about. Thats NOT from me 
I’m sorry, wish I could claim old age or senility or something but I cant. I just made a mistake lol
However, what I said basically still applies. Being the best you, you can be on the inside and out will help you stand out above the rest. Being confident and happy with yourself is a huge part of attraction.
That being said I dont think you will get the same answers on the visual aspects from all the men. Visually people like different things. I do think you will get basically the same answer about the inside though. Someone who is kind, cares about them, respectful and who they are sexually compatible with.
Again I apologize for my mess up. They are rare but they happen.
Tisha
Haha thats ok. And thank you
Authentic happiness. Not being stiffled by wearing masks.
Being able to smile well is attractive in girls. If you want to train smiling focus on taking your time. You can start by taking 5 seconds for going from normal to a full smile.
Then 10 seconds. It’s just important that you don’t freeze the smiling motion while you are doing it.
I don’t think that’s true.
It’s not like I would judge a girl negatively for being kind and caring about myself but those aren’t qualities that I would list if I wanted to describe what I’m looking for.
When it comes to respect it’s not even always a positive value. Respect can often lead to people avoid saying the truth.
Let’s say I’m asking a women to dance Salsa and she doesn’t want to dance with me.
She can tell me straight “No” or she can tell me some excuse about how her feet hurt at the moment and she doesn’t want to dance with me for a reason that has nothing to do with me.
It’s socially considered respectful behavior to give me a reason that’s about herself. For me it makes things unnecessarily complicated. I prefer to get the straight “No” where I know where the girl stands.
The straight “No” doesn’t hurt me much. There are however men who would get hurt by the straight truth.
If you begin telling everyone your truth you will stand out. Some people will see it favorably while others will be alignated.
Your mixing respect up with consideration.
If you ask a girl to dance and she says no and gives some excuse she is trying to be considerate of your feelings.
If your ask a girl to dance and she just says No she cares little about your feelings.
Neither have anything to do with respecting you.
Throw on some IO, IS, and Instant Sexiness. From that point just be yourself, like everyone has been saying it depends on what they guy is into and not every guy is going to be attracted to the same type of girl. Have fun with the mix and being you and that should give you the best results.
Firstly, well why is she trying? She respects me enough to value my feelings high enough, that it’s good to avoid hurting them.
Otherwise what do you mean with a girl being respectful? What do respectful girls do that others don’t?
Hey
as a guy who is demanding when it comes to girls (but NO I cannot get every girl, I’d be happy if half of the girls I choose chose me too…) I would say looks matter most for the first interaction. Looks decide whether I make the first step or not. But you can be a hot top model, if you’re a smoker, touch alc in my presence or behave too bitchy or slutty you’ll get a last ‘bye’ and see me walk away. What I want to say is, it depends on the man. Imo majority of men care about the looks of the girls more, esp. before they know her. But there are always exceptions. And everyone likes different things so really hard to answer your question. I described my own perspective and hope it helped
Another thing, today there was a really really cute blonde in the tram. Aside from her shiny hair and a cute face I was really attracted to a huge authentic smile she had on her face all the way! It didn’t stop. It was so cute and it made her approachable, so it was easy for me to make the first step. Remember this - make yourself more approachable. Many men just fear to be blown out straight away when they approach a girl. If the girl has such a lovely smile then they’re guaranteed a friendly reaction, right?
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