well sorry dude thought you were asking advice on how to get laid by this girl (like the title suggested) not how to deal with your feelings for her. I say you just walk away altogether, she doesnt sound too faithful. If you ever dated her youd be looking over your shoulder the whole time knowing this girl very easily cheated on her last bf. walk away is the best advice.
I appreciate the comments, dude, but it’s college. You close one door, another one opens. If I stay on this girl, apparently I’m not gonna get laid for a LONG time, so yeah. I’m doing myself a favor here.
“Get me drunk tonight it’s my birthday”
I just got that text from her. wow.
OK, so get her drunk and fuck the shit out of her. Fuck her hard, like it’s your last fuck. And hers. Then move on.
I’m going to an exclusive party. Freshmen fucks aren’t allowed. Not even freshmen girls.
How cute… now dude, get the message. Everything happens because of ATTITUDE and SELF RESPECT, not mones. You’re only 19 and have a stock of mones that looks like a bazaar. Each to its own, don’t get me that I’m being judgemental, BUT from this thread my take is that you have to work on your attitude and posture. Simple, and hard, as that.
No offense but this is not what he needs. This girl sounds toxic.
He needs to walk away, no sex is worth that much trouble.
Naaa, I wouldn’t go that route if I were you. I had considered keeping my ex in mind if we crossed paths again but by doing so, you don’t ever properly let go of her. That can taint your future relationships with other women. It’s best to just let her go. There are plenty of other women out there and plenty of them will treat you much better than this girl has.
Think you haven’t catched my ironic curve ball…
What are you saying? Is lakerman going to ‘burn’ a LAKER jersey.
The guys are completely right with this.
But for some reason, we learn the best from our experiences.
You’re still in college, man so much time to find out all that’s fun about random hookups and parties.
So, I was doing a homework assignment on the internet, and the connection is horrible in my dorm. I had to call her up cuz she’s down the hall and has an ethernet cable. I went into her room, made it fast, and left.
Tonight, the exclusive party was an ABC (anything but clothes) party. She dressed me, drunk as hell (she was drinking with her freshmen friends for her birthday). She was, once again, all over me. I finally told her to get the fuck off of me, and then rattled her dog tag telling her “as long as you have this, don’t touch me.” She winked, kissed me on the chick, and whispered in my ear “don’t worry about this. Call me when you get back, I’ll make it worth your while.”
I thought it was going to happen. I get back later at night, I saw her on the step. My friend, who is going to be my pledge father, came because she called him up (she insisted on meeting my pledge father). I then told her off in front of all of the kids, telling her how all I am honest, and she was very dishonest to me, and how I can’t respect a dishonest person. One of the other guys we were off even said “that’s very wrong of you. You should really apologize to him.” Well, she got upset, but I think she got the picture (she was still drunk). I hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, and told her "I’m a good connect to have (my uncle owns the very popular night club on campus. You can only get in if you’re 21+ years old, or you know someone), and if she lied to me again, I wasn’t going to talk to her. She completely understood (I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s crying in her room right now). I actually happened to be wearing about 3 sprays of IH.
At this point, I’m sticking to my guns. I’m going to friend zone the fuck out of her (I actually could have gotten 2 girls tonight, one a grenade and one was OK), until she gets rid of the dog tag.
I think I handled it well. Hell, I’m EXTREMELY proud of myself the way I handled it.
I actually got rid of most my mones LOL. That list hasn’t been updated in forever. I have TUTH and IH. That’s it.
I was going to get Ammo, cuz I prefer to have that over TUTH.
Well played
Too much yada, yada but if you feel comfortable in your skin then that’s all what counts. Dude, get the message. Women don’t operate in the logical mindspace we do. So it’s many times not a question of EXPLAINING to them why you do what you do, just DO it and they will get the picture (usually building drama around it). Indifference speaks to her fucked-up mind infinitely more than long explanations and telling-off in front of friends (VERY BETA BEHAVIOR). But you’re just 19 so you’re learning, and that’s fine.
Don’t get me wrong here but you’re expectations of her crying in a corner are a delusion. Maybe she’s also young and inexperienced but one thing she’ll get, and that’s your EMOTIONAL reaction. Translated to… I have his (your) balls in my hand. You put-up a stage performance and that’s an attraction killer at any age, it shows WEAKNESS rather than strength. But hey, that’s just me…
Hey look what you found?
Your self-respect! 
Good on you dude. Stick to your guns and remember that nobody is worth trading in your self respect for.
I don’t see how you think that’s Beta behavior. All the guys were listening to me, hanging onto every word I had to say. I did not pull my punches. I was not out to get her, and I was not out to embarrass her. I was firm, told her about respect, and told her how she lost some of mine. The one kid told her she should apologize, and she did. I told her I’m a forgiving guy, fool me once shame on me, fool me twice shame on you.
She even did the “let’s make him jealous” technique by bringing up her boyfriend (which she NEVER does around me) and even spoke about them fucking this weekend. Meanwhile, I told my boy who was at the party with me how I could have easily landed 2 chicks, and then I started talking to another freshmen guy about the one club that I’m the party planner (social chair) for, and how we are known as the ‘next best thing’ next to Greek life, and how I had mad parties planned with the sororities.
In my opinion, EXTREMELY ‘I don’t give a fuck’ ALPHA behavior. I was basically being a dick w/ respect.
Believe you me, no ‘stage performance’ at all. She got my point.
Witness the truth. If you don’t give a fuck, you simply don’t give a fuck. You don’t spell it, you do it. All that respect yada, yada… your actions should speak, not your words. If you’re gonna kick someone ass, do you yell it..? Hey motherfucker, I’m gonna hit you..? No, you just DO IT. Save your words for later, if at all.
But in the end, look, if that made you comfortable in your own skin it’s all what matters.
Witness the truth # 2. If you cannot get laid only by saying HI, you’re in for some hard work ahead…
I took the mature root, and am the better man for it. I basically told her to let the freshmen keep her warm for her boyfriend, cuz it’s not gonna be me.
We can agree to disagree, sucesos.
I’ll keep you guys updated.
He has some points that are true which you will probably realize later on.